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Raylan -> New Member in seek of advice (2/25/2013 3:38:20 AM)

Hello I am a new member, as well as new to the BDSM lifestyle. I have a question on filling out my profile, and would appreciate any helpful advice. First let me introduce myself, I am Bi-gender, Androgynous, GenderQueer, male. LGBT is alphabet soup with labels, I detest labels, but understand the use and need of them. I have no desire to undergo surgery, I am happy and content with who and what I am. Both my gender identities, identify as Submissive, it's the Sexuality aspect I have questions about.

Now on to the main question, with all of the above taken into consideration, I filled out my profile Gender as male, and sexuality as lesbian. Since I have two gender identities, I view myself as a straight submissive male, and lesbian submissive female. Would the way I filled out my profile, confuse or make sense to someone who was looking at it?

Thank you in advance, for any advice you are willing to offer.




TheLilSquaw -> RE: New Member in seek of advice (2/25/2013 3:46:28 AM)

Good morning and welcome to the forums.

Clicking both male gender and sexuality lesbian, may confuse some people.
Or they may simply think you made a mistake in what you clicked.

I would suggest explaining it in your profile just as you did here.





Toysinbabeland -> RE: New Member in seek of advice (2/25/2013 3:53:34 AM)

Welcome to the forums.

Why not post this to your journal and invite profile readers to progress to your journal?




Raylan -> RE: New Member in seek of advice (2/25/2013 4:00:06 AM)

Thank you both for the good advice and kind words, I will do both to help lessen any confusion to others, that may be looking at my profile.




Level -> RE: New Member in seek of advice (2/25/2013 4:01:32 AM)

As a Mesbian, I can offer you no advice.

*peeks up Toys post and whistles*




Toysinbabeland -> RE: New Member in seek of advice (2/25/2013 4:04:24 AM)

Awww shucks




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