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xssve -> RE: is internet bdsm relationship real (3/10/2013 3:55:56 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Thaz
Mullet was banzored? Really? Wow
That might have been literotica.
So the worm turns, and the question now becomes: can meatspace bdsm relationship be too real?
I think it's established that internet relationships are as valid staging point for further social interaction, there is a social chemistry involved, that can at least lead to finding out if the organic chemistry works as well.
My question then would be, what about losers like me that can't even make a cyber relationship work?
I feel pretty confined by an internet relationship, I'm pretty good at reading between the lines, but I rely heavily on body language, etc., and it's easier to pretend to be somebody else, i.e., how you want to see yourself, who you want to be etc. - nothing wrong with self improvement, taking the positive view of this phenomena, sometimes being somebody else is a good thing, and it's the great allure of virtual reality - you are not confined entirely by the details of your birth, it creates a zone of intellectual and emotional freedom, but ultimately, we evolved to bump into each other, and ultimately neither can entirely replace the other.
I just have never had a satisfying cyber encounter, I could say much the same thing about meatspace, I like weird chicks, so I'm attracted to psychos - which is not exactly the same thing, do the math, but in those relationships I think there were more satisfying moments, even if that satisfaction is fleeting.
It's a tool.
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