NoCalOwner
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If you mean online: My slave was getting a lot of mail which she felt was inappropriate, so I wrote her profile. It contains warnings, like the following: "While I do give her permission to talk to anyone here, and I won't arbitrarily rule out other possible activities, there will NOT be any changes of ownership. That said, feel free to socialize with her -- that's primarily what we're here for. As long as you don't try to challenge her loyalty to me, everything will be fine. Thanks in advance for your cooperation, NoCalOwner" So I don't forbid it. On the other hand, she has gotten very little mail from Dom/mes which stayed appropriate (in her opinion) for long, so I may as well have forbidden it. We're 24/7, have been together for ages, and my trust in her is absolute. I suspect that makes me relatively laid back about matters, and I would not blame anyone for doing things differently. If I had forbidden contact without consent, and it happened anyway, I'd be pissed, but so what? I write him a peeved sort of note, she blocks him, end of story. If you mean offline: There are a couple of Dommes who have individual permission, but only a couple. If anyone else did it, I'd be at least a little bit annoyed with them. How annoyed would depend entirely on the details.
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"Find more pleasure in intelligent dissent rather than passive agreement; for if you value intelligence as you should, the former implies a deeper agreement than the latter." -- Bertrand Russell
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