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Webstera -> Prostate/Pegging Play (3/22/2013 11:52:56 PM)
Hello, Ladies. If anyone has advice/words of wisdom for me, it would be appreciated. When you're pegging your sub, not necessarily aiming for the prostate, from your experience, does that gland tend to get sufficient stimulation to force an orgasm from him regardless? Also, when you are intentionally aiming for that 'sweet spot', as a general rule of thumb, how long does it take before it's 'effective'? I've read about it being almost instantaneous for some men, but my own experience is that it takes some time. Last question....Do you have a preferred brand/style of harness for pegging purposes? I'm looking for comfort, not aesthetics. Thank you.

NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: Prostate/Pegging Play (3/24/2013 3:47:04 PM)
I see no one has answered you in two days. I'll bite....on the harness question. I use a Divine Diva plus-size strapon harness. I love it. It's comfortable, fully adjustable and 100% washable. As for orgasm from being pegged, some guys do and some guys don't, regardless of direct or indirect stimulation, or length of same. NBMG

Webstera -> RE: Prostate/Pegging Play (3/24/2013 7:46:56 PM)
Thanks much!

itsapixie -> RE: Prostate/Pegging Play (3/24/2013 8:58:13 PM)
For what it's worth... I don't aim at all. I just stick it in there and go to town. When we first started, I tried so hard to find his prostate with my fingers, but never felt anything. When I asked him about it, he said he actually didn't like having direct stimulation to his prostate. Who knew? He almost always orgasms just from the penetration. No jerking off and no searching out for sweet spots. Hitting the prostate is not the only thing that can get a guy off.. Strap on sex for us can last for just a few minutes up to hours. I'd say it's just like any other sex in terms of time, amount/type of stimulation, etc. You're just going to have to figure out what works for the guy and what doesn't. And be aware that the next guy might be completely different. Harnesses. We just buy whatever is cheapest :/ I've never had any discomfort from the cheapies. The only tip I have on harnesses would be to watch out for rubber o-rings vs metal/solid rings. I like the harness to be pretty snug, so the rubbery rings tend to stretch out which can sometimes lead to the toy slipping out of the harness. If your harness has snaps around the ring, you can replace them with metal rings purchased from a hardware store. But thennnn some toys are difficult to fit in and out of metal rings. Another one of those trial and error things.

Glittoris -> RE: Prostate/Pegging Play (3/31/2013 10:19:57 PM)
Watching this post [been interested myself] ;)

msub1000 -> RE: Prostate/Pegging Play (4/1/2013 9:27:51 PM)
Personally, I get so excited from just the idea of being in that position, touch of humiliation just drives me insane, I think it has a bigger mental aspect to it that just simulation to the prostate.

tmifune1966 -> RE: Prostate/Pegging Play (4/2/2013 9:01:14 AM)
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SomethingCatchy -> RE: Prostate/Pegging Play (4/2/2013 10:21:49 AM)
quote: I think it has a bigger mental aspect to it that just simulation Best sex I've ever had was strap-on sex with my hubs. I don't get any stimulation but I feel like I'd fucked for hours and have an incredibly warm, fuzzy afterglow for hours after. The above quote is truth.

Whippedboy -> RE: Prostate/Pegging Play (4/2/2013 10:43:20 AM)
Have done prostate milking a number of times. Both with strap on and a dildo by hand. To get enough stimulation, in my experience, it takes some effort and direct stimulaiton to the prostate to get an emission. I say emission because it is not the same sensation as an orgasm. I had one by accident once. I was being filmed in a vid and used by a local Domme and she had been pounding me for about 40 minutes in different positions and she had me strappped down in a gyno chair getting after it. I felt the sensation coming and tried to tell her but I was gagged and as my totally soft cock started spurting, her shrieks of glee were music to my ears. She started pounding harder and got out every last drop. I was absolutely EXHAUSTED after that.

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Prostate/Pegging Play (4/2/2013 9:54:10 PM)
quote: When you're pegging your sub, not necessarily aiming for the prostate, from your experience, does that gland tend to get sufficient stimulation to force an orgasm from him regardless? Also, when you are intentionally aiming for that 'sweet spot', as a general rule of thumb, how long does it take before it's 'effective'? I've read about it being almost instantaneous for some men, but my own experience is that it takes some time. Last question....Do you have a preferred brand/style of harness for pegging purposes? I'm looking for comfort, not aesthetics. When I used to do strap on, I would just do it for fun not particularly focusing on his sweet spot; I did it because I enjoyed it, and for as long as I wanted, without a particular goal for him; though it, on occasion resulted in orgasm. How long it took to get there, mostly depended on how hot/sexy (headspace) he felt being with me, and being taken by me. As for what type oh harness: I had 2 leather ones. One from a store near where I am, and the other from extreme restraints. I'm not massively into it anymore, but could still get down with it on occasion. M

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