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sony7 -> elitepain and mood pic movies are real? (3/27/2013 9:52:03 AM)

i recently watch elitepain and mood pic movies. this movies are real? slaves can hold this type of punishments, if they accept this, whats the results or side-effects




peppermint -> RE: elitepain and mood pic movies are real? (3/27/2013 10:55:24 AM)

I believe you are asking if porn movies are the same as real life.  The answer is no. 




sony7 -> RE: elitepain and mood pic movies are real? (3/27/2013 10:58:46 AM)

in real life those punishments are not possible?




peppermint -> RE: elitepain and mood pic movies are real? (3/27/2013 11:37:38 AM)

I have no idea what punishments you are asking about since I have never watched a BDSM porn movie.  I do know that porn movies are made to turn the men who watch it on.  Real Dommes do not chastize and beat their male subs all the time.  Real Dommes do not do permanent harm to their subs.  

It's a relationship.  They both go to work.  They come home, cook dinner.  They pay bills.  They watch TV.  They go out to the movies with friends.  They have family over for BBQs out in the back yard.  You are more likely to see the Domme wearing a sweat shirt and jeans than thigh high boots and a corset. 

So to answer your question as to if those actions do happen in real life...the answer is maybe, sometimes, depends on the relationship, and the actions you are talking about.  A Domme/male sub relationship is not about constant beating and punishments.  Contrary to what you believe, a Domme does not want to punish her submissive.  On rare occasions something might happen and she might punish.  She is also just as likely to discuss the disobediance with her submissive to try to find out why it happened. 

Porn movies do not mirror life.  They'd be way too boring if they did. 




sony7 -> RE: elitepain and mood pic movies are real? (3/27/2013 12:26:34 PM)

thanks for u r replay. i like this life and enjoying. recently view that site in which many female models get naked and spanked brutally on there genitals. is looks like real and cant imaginable. in my area no BDSM community. me and my friend read books like Difference in love, and interested in this life. we try to practice and trying to learn more. she like small pain and i can enjoy that. I want to know that seen in that site happening in any of this relation. lots of models casting there site, they have a normal life after that shoot ?. i am going wrong forgive me , i am here to learn ...




Kana -> RE: elitepain and mood pic movies are real? (3/27/2013 12:44:14 PM)


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ORIGINAL: sony7

i recently watch elitepain and mood pic movies. this movies are real? slaves can hold this type of punishments, if they accept this, whats the results or side-effects

If you are asking whether the scene is real, I seriously doubt it. That shit is scripted. Now, IMHO, and speaking as a guy who's done lots of damage to chicas over the years with striking implements), if you're asking whether the blows are real-my bet is yes. Watch the reactions, the involuntary muscle spasms and quivers, the way the welts raise-yeah, I think it's real. And I'm uber picky bout BDSM porn. I think most of it is wimpy ass crap that's about as sexy as a morgue (Sorry to all the necros out there :-p).

Yes-kink.com-I'm looking at you.

Now, as to whether a slave can take that sort of caning...hell fucking yes. I've done much worse. Many times.


I'm gonna say this now-this post comes with a warning label. Do not try shit like that at home unless you have some fucking inkling of what you are doing. You can really fuck someone up in all the wrong ways if you don't know what you are doing. So don't fucking do it, unless you have a clue as to what you are about.




peppermint -> RE: elitepain and mood pic movies are real? (3/27/2013 12:45:40 PM)

I'm sorry.  I just assumed you were a male and looking at male sub/female Domme porn. 

How brutal the beatings are is difficult to say.  Many times things can be faked in a movie.  They may not be hitting as hard as it appears or the impliment doing the beating may not be as harsh as it first seems to be.  However, in some poor countries women may be paid to be beat harshly.  I don't see why the women, no matter what the circumstance, wouldn't go back to their normal lives after the movie. 




sony7 -> RE: elitepain and mood pic movies are real? (3/27/2013 12:54:12 PM)

its looks real one of the movie have stitching pussy seen




Kana -> RE: elitepain and mood pic movies are real? (3/27/2013 12:55:30 PM)


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ORIGINAL: sony7

its looks real one of the movie have stitching pussy seen

Yeah, but who hasn't done that




UllrsIshtar -> RE: elitepain and mood pic movies are real? (3/27/2013 1:05:18 PM)


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ORIGINAL: sony7

its looks real one of the movie have stitching pussy seen


That's a fairly common play thing to do for people who know what they're doing.




RumpusParable -> RE: elitepain and mood pic movies are real? (3/27/2013 2:40:25 PM)


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ORIGINAL: sony7

its looks real one of the movie have stitching pussy seen


I'm not familiar with the sites you're referencing, but yes some people do do some pretty intense things and then just go on with everyday life.

Sewing and stapling male and female genitalia and mouths and arms and all sorts of body parts together - and to other people. Beating of the genitals, face, and rest of body. Choking and other breath play. Water torture of various types. Whippings. Cuttings and needles (self-promo, take a look at my profile pictures for a small sampling of examples).

And tons of other involved and intense things... and tons of vary simple and mild things.

It's a big and very varied world.

And lots of us get done getting those things done to us or doing them to others, hop up, throw on clothes, then go on errands to the grocery store and such. Normal everyday life stuff.




eulero83 -> RE: elitepain and mood pic movies are real? (3/28/2013 2:11:18 AM)

I know they are not producing videos anymore because a model suited them for what happened, claiming during casting she used safeword but it was ignored. Actually in the country where they shoot them an agreement to recieve a beating in exchange of money is illegal and not valid, so the trial went on and the model won the suit, so I suppose the mistreating where proven fact.




sony7 -> RE: elitepain and mood pic movies are real? (3/28/2013 11:00:32 PM)

that's means people are doing like this. any one in this community or your friends have such experience?




eulero83 -> RE: elitepain and mood pic movies are real? (3/29/2013 4:23:29 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: sony7
that's means people are doing like this. any one in this community or your friends have such experience?


do you mean are there people that whip female genitalia? or do you mean are there people who agree to be whipped and pirced for money? or do you mean are there people who don't respect safeword?

I'd answer some to the first question, many to the second and criminals to the third.

anyway safeword or not it doesn't matter for the law suit as in many country is illegal to agree to be subjected to fisical harm in excange of money, this doesn't mean if you agree to be whipped till blood for 200$ you commited a crime but that the agreement is not valid and who paid you is chargable with aggression, for example in italy you can't sell for money your own blood to an hospital but just donate it. In italy also happened a married couple in a dom sub relationship was facing divorce, and the husband/master showed their slavery contract as a proof he was not chargable of domestic violence but it was useless.




sony7 -> RE: elitepain and mood pic movies are real? (3/29/2013 7:47:13 AM)

you give a good explanation! some other sites are looking for models and offer money. i am not supporting crimes. i think in bdsm life slaves like to serve and enjoying that life. in that life these type of things practice or they are just in movies. i dont think just a model come in to studio and can perform like this. i am looking to find the facts and influence of pain and punishment in this life and it can be practice in this relation.




Kana -> RE: elitepain and mood pic movies are real? (3/29/2013 1:41:49 PM)

Sure, I've whipped gals cunts. It's far and away one of my favorite things to do-waaaay up on the list. I've also run needles through em, skewered em, burnt em, used pliers on em, hit em with shockrods-all that sort of stuff.
I love genital torture.
Now, while I'm sure that if I looked hard enough I could find a gal who would do it for cash, but I've always found gals who would do it for love. Better for the ego, easier on the checkbook. It's a win-win.




DomZathrus -> RE: elitepain and mood pic movies are real? (3/31/2013 9:59:11 PM)

One thing to remember about bdsm porn movies is that because they are movies..... they have to be visual. So the play and reactions are very visible.
They don't really show any of the psychological aspects of what is going on. Certainly nothing that might be too subtle for the camera.

I've done and seen a lot of extreme things. One thing they don't ever show is someone passing out. Or freaking out.

When someone is bound and nervous and haven't eaten all day in anticipation of what you are going to do, their blood sugar can take a nosedive.

I've had someone pass out on me after I had barely done anything. Freaked me out the first time. It was exactly that situation

I always make sure I have something like orange juice handy in case now....lol.

They also don't show any of the aftercare that would be required once they are done.
Cuts and abrasions need to be dressed. Anyplace that has had impact play should be disinfected and also have lotion put on it.
Coconut oil works very well to keep the skin soft.
Even if all you do is a firm and extensive spanking, if you don't use lotion, your sub will wind up with a leather butt in a few years.




sony7 -> RE: elitepain and mood pic movies are real? (4/2/2013 11:38:55 AM)

as u mentioned psychological and physical aspects of what is going on! i want to know more about that from experienced peoples. any permanent damage, it's enjoyable etc




DomZathrus -> RE: elitepain and mood pic movies are real? (4/3/2013 9:40:09 AM)

I think there are a lot of books, clubs and other resources that can cover things better than a bulletin board entry. Your questions are too much like "What is all of this?". Some clubs have educational programs and support groups where you can get insight. Go out and see what other people do and talk to them. There are a multitude of ways that people interact with each other in this community, Hell....just read every post in all the forums and you can see. Go out and watch and learn. No one or set of people is going to be able to tell you in a nutshell format like these forums. A lot of things won't be understood unless you experience them anyway. Like trying to explain what an orgasm is like to someone who has never experienced one before.

There are a lot of things people are willing to have other people do and do to them selves that are very extreme. Some people have set themselves on fire in protest of something or other. Getting off on a film of a BDSM scene is much different than actually doing what is in the film. There are a lot of things to think about.

A couple of some obscure but important things:

Did you know that depending on where you live it is considered legally impossible to consent to assault and battery? There was a news story about that in the UK some time ago concerning a gay couple and bdsm.

If for some reason you decide to marry your sub/slave/bottom/playpartner......those marks you leave on them are treated differently by health care professionals. Again, depending on where you live, if you are not married and they go a doctor, a nurse or doctor might show concern and you can tell them that it was all consensual and they will leave you alone about it. The "victim" has to press charges for anything to happen.

If you are married, they are obligated to inform the authorities and then you can be dragged through the legal system for spousal abuse. Of course you can use the same argument about consent and some may listen to you.....but all you need is some white knight and it all can turn messy. (I know there are kink friendly professionals that can be used for regular things, but if you have to go to the emergency room for something all bets are off)

My point is that there are a lot of things to think about when you get beyond the fantasy.




sony7 -> RE: elitepain and mood pic movies are real? (3/20/2015 8:28:55 PM)

Still i am confused!.its real or fake. no one in this community have any painful experience, that can compare to those seen?




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