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New to here! - 3/31/2013 9:19:42 PM

desertratmike

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Just wanted to throw out a message and introduce myself, i am new to the site and looking to meet people in the mid Missouri area. Not sure of what else to say right now.

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RE: New to here! - 4/1/2013 11:53:57 AM

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Ok so after getting some rest and letting the easter bbq wear off, i figured i could add to this with a clear head, being fairly new to the lifestyle it is kinda hard to meet people with out being looked at as someone trolling the websites looking for a quick hook up, i know there are a lot out there doing that and it does not surprise me one bit. So here is my question to the board, how does someone like myself get into doing this? I guess the first thing to say is i am a novice, and have a interest in learning a lot more about this lifestyle. it is something that i have wanted to explore for quite a long time and i am ready to go and do this. So with out writing a book here, i would appreciate any advice on how to "break in" to all of this.

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RE: New to here! - 4/1/2013 12:02:23 PM

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There should be local groups in your area, you
may have some luck typing your area and "munch"
into google.

Enjoy the forum.

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RE: New to here! - 4/1/2013 12:05:11 PM

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yes i have found a group in the area, although it is kinda quiet, or at least it seems so to me,. just trying all avenues to see what happens right now, thanks for the reply!

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RE: New to here! - 4/1/2013 1:10:51 PM

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Hello and welcome to the forums ad Collarme, sorry no good advice other than what was given.

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RE: New to here! - 4/1/2013 1:31:20 PM

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Well at least it was a start, i have to get my feet wet so to speak at sometime!

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RE: New to here! - 4/1/2013 1:44:25 PM

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Welcome Mike! To answer your question, I second getting involved with your local community as an adjunct to participating here. Good luck, enjoy the journey!

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RE: New to here! - 4/1/2013 2:17:38 PM

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Thank you very much MistressDarkArt, i am sure i will!

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RE: New to here! - 4/1/2013 5:07:00 PM

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There's a woman here named LilyBoPeep who lives close to you. She can give you an idea of what's in your area.

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RE: New to here! - 4/1/2013 5:12:27 PM

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Great i will look her up, thank you!

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RE: New to here! - 4/2/2013 2:58:44 AM

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Welcome des, my best advice is get out now! On the other hand, stay and be slaughtered!

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RE: New to here! - 4/2/2013 5:36:36 AM

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Know this is going to sound totally stupid.... but when searching google are there any words to use so I don't have to scan endless lists of crap?

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RE: New to here! - 4/2/2013 5:48:33 AM

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ORIGINAL: Masterraven67

Know this is going to sound totally stupid.... but when searching google are there any words to use so I don't have to scan endless lists of crap?

Okay...

1. Someone else made his intro. You hijacked his thread.
2. This section is for intros. Say hello, tell us one or two things about you.
3. I can't understand your question. If you want to Google "spanking", go ahead. If you want to Google "bondage", same thing. What are you searching for, and what qualifies as "crap" to you?

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RE: New to here! - 4/2/2013 6:15:51 AM

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Hey Mike, welcome to CM forums, looks like you are off to a thoughtful start, which is ALWAYs great to see,
I can only agree with the posters suggesting the munch route, munches have a way of being busy and then going quiet, go to a couple, if you see the same people there every time, approach them and ask what else is going on locally, most will be only too happy to help out a "newbie"
Lilly is awesome Im sure she will be able to help...

My advice for this particular forum is read, read and then read some more:) use the search function, ask questions if you dont find what you need in the search function, and also read some books with regard to your interests...
Here is a link to some good books to help out, and most are available from amazon.
http://www.collarchat.com/m_1726118/tm.htm

We have some awesome posters here, and while doing the offline thing will get you into the "scene", community around you, this is a good place to get different opinions views and ideas about stuff you may not wanna discuss in public:)
Have fun

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RE: New to here! - 4/2/2013 6:44:55 PM

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Thanks for the reply Lucylastic, it is great to be getting all of these reply's back on that thread, i really do appreciate everyone responding and giving me more areas to look at! That does really help a lot when someone is new jere and can get advice from the "seasoned " people in here,thanks again to everyone!

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