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posting on Collarme - 4/5/2013 8:05:33 AM

zouo

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I've come back in here and browsed several pages of "new" posts this morning... I'd like to see others post who have been looking through the posts of female submissives one by one. Despite the Collar Me implication not many seem to be serious about precisely that and those who are complain (in additions to their profile text), that they 1) get too many messages that say essentially nothing, as in 'hi, message me' or 'I want to take you tonight' 2) are solicited to meet for one-night sex, or so it will turn out and 3) are not from those who fit their preferences. But from the male point of view, what is there to say to someone who posts up next to nothing about herself? I've found a request to 'tell me about yourself' gets no response.

More to the point...the average female post is a one or two liner without a profile. e.g., 'message me you won't regret it.' Or, 'i want you tie me and use me.' Aren't these likely to be come-ons by scammers. I can't see how they can seriously think they will find a situation with an actual person from childish starts like that. I want to know if many of you think this site is worth keeping up with or if there are other places with better chances of finding someone serious and literate. Thanks.

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RE: posting on Collarme - 4/5/2013 8:10:21 AM

mnottertail

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Yeah, like any meadow, you gotta pick thru alotta weeds to find the honeybees.

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RE: posting on Collarme - 4/5/2013 8:12:52 AM

UllrsIshtar

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ORIGINAL: zouo
I want to know if many of you think this site is worth keeping up with or if there are other places with better chances of finding someone serious and literate.

My last two long term relationships (included my current marriage) started on this site. The long term relationship before that started on another BDSM dating site.
In addition to that, I've also met over half a dozen men for casual relationships and playdates on this site.

On average, I've met and played with or dated one man a year of this site since I've joined.

That means that there are about 10 guys out there who found what they were looking for directly because of CollarMe.com.

You draw your own conclusions from that on whether or not this site is worth your time and effort.

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I am the dirt you created
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RE: posting on Collarme - 4/5/2013 8:15:18 AM

UllrsIshtar

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Oh and BTW, you may want to start with updating your age on your profile. The text says you're 60-ish guy, while your profile description claims you're 50.

Personally, I immediately pass guys with errors like that by, because it makes me suspect they're lying about themselves on purpose in an attempt to get more interest.

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And your whore
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You love me for everything you hate me for

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RE: posting on Collarme - 4/5/2013 8:15:40 AM

myotherself

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I found Master on here (or did he find me?). I had a rather wordy profile whereas his was one line.

I had a personal rule that I didn't treat one-line wonders as being particularly serious about BDSM and/or relationships. After all, if they couldn't put any effort into the advertising, it followed that they wouldn't put any effort into the relationship.

He sent me a funny message that got me giggling and made me think that he had a pretty decent sense of humour. I must have been feeling generous that day because I gave him the benefit of the doubt, we started chatting online, and now we've been together 3 years and planning on setting up house together later this year.

Don't focus solely on the profile. If you think there is anything in there that approaches what you're looking for, then make the effort to write and get to know the sub in question. That's what Master did, and I'm grateful that he did.

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RE: posting on Collarme - 4/5/2013 8:16:13 AM

Rasciallymisty

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I meet Brad on here 6 1/2 years ago and we where together up untill he passed away in May....so it worked for me.

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RE: posting on Collarme - 4/6/2013 7:16:44 AM

OohAahMrs

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Welcome to you zou! Scam artists, ten a penny. Genuine people, well there are some.

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