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subguyUK1 -> new to this (4/5/2013 2:51:11 PM)

hi i am all new to this and looking forward to haveing real fun but i do need advice and training etc are there any misstresses who dont mind training a newbie etc? bit of a long shot but wet behind the ears so to speak:)



LadyPact -> RE: new to this (4/5/2013 3:46:01 PM)

There are lots of things that you can learn in your real life local community. [:)]



NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: new to this (4/5/2013 3:59:03 PM)

I haven't got a lot of years behind me either, but I don't mind training and having a newbie as my sub. But I won't do online only, that's the thing. I want real time because online only leaves me cold.

NBMG



subguyUK1 -> RE: new to this (4/5/2013 5:13:41 PM)

oh well this is how it rolls then



LookieNoNookie -> RE: new to this (4/5/2013 9:18:22 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

There are lots of things that you can learn in your real life local community. [:)]



You are far more considerate than I am.



itsapixie -> RE: new to this (4/6/2013 11:48:16 AM)

The real life community would definitely be helpful, but if you're not interested in seeking out interactions in person just yet, I'd say stick around the forums and read some of the older threads when you have time. A lot of the posters here are really experienced and very knowledgeable. You'll learn a ton just by reading here.

I don't know if you're looking for strictly online training or whatever (which can be fun), but be careful who you take on as a trainer. Just because someone selects dominant for their profile does not mean they will have anymore experience than you. You could also try making friends with some experienced fellow subs.



VioletViolence -> RE: new to this (4/6/2013 2:00:55 PM)

Most dominant women are only interested in "training" a sub if there's actually a relationship there. Since every woman is different, the things one Domme will want will vary greatly from what another Domme might want. And if by "training" you don't mean how to make her tea, how to load the dishwasher the way she likes it or how much pressure she enjoys during a foot rub, but instead are talking about kinky activities and the type of "training" that happens in FemDom porn....well, there's a slim chance that you might find an online Domme to do those things with, but you'll honestly have a much easier time if you're willing to pay a pro.



MistressDarkArt -> RE: new to this (4/6/2013 4:05:29 PM)

^^^^This



LadyPact -> RE: new to this (4/6/2013 7:27:35 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie
You are far more considerate than I am.
I'm better on some days than others, JJ.




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