thezeppo -> RE: Most Mistresses seem to want experience - do any train bare bones new subs? (4/7/2013 7:50:29 AM)
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Haha, fair enough. They are pretty hot, I'm not going to argue with you there! I think a lot of people have a tendency to forget there are people behind the kink. If you have had kinky desires your entire life and then you join a site like this, which is full of people with the same desires as you, it's only natural to want to talk about the kinky stuff that you haven't been open about before. I try and approach from the other direction - if I am talking to a Domme I already know we have that in common, she wants to be dominant and I want to be submissive. That's a big step compared to just talking to a woman I think is attractive, but why go on about the thing I already know we have in common? Far better to see what else we have in common and proceed from there. The other thing is that a lot of people label themselves as submissive as an umbrella term when in fact there are such a wide variety of different terms that would fit better. When I first joined here I thought I had submissive experience because my ex enjoyed foot worship and rough sex. I was quickly disabused of that notion! I was advised to consider whether or not I was actually submissive, and that has been a constant consideration since. I suppose ultimately that depends on the other person, so all the more reason I should get to know the person behind the Domme! ETA: Wait, you worked out how to pick up chicks? Do go on! :D
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