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RE: Temptation - 6/24/2006 1:37:55 PM

lisa1978

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Perfectly natural and probably impossible to avoid looking/reading to be attracted from afar. Big difference comes when acting on it or being jealous from your own perceptions. In other words, loving your other and not getting mad or bummed out when you see something and imagine it to be better.

The bird in the hand is better than two in the bush and most of us are lucky to know that. Does not mean the two in the bush are not nice to look at.

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RE: Temptation - 6/24/2006 1:38:31 PM

sweetbbwsub31

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quote:

ORIGINAL: becca333

I'm finding a problem with this site.

I have a partner, we suit each other well and meet each other's needs delightfully. I'm very happy and definitely not looking for anyone else.

But I see the profiles that come up when I log in, or I'll read comments from someone and look them up out of interest....

And they're all so nice, and ...er... stimulating. There's a few profiles I've read that really REALLY appeal to me.

But I'm not looking for anyone else. Truly.

But ....

Dammit, it's like being a kid in a lolly shop. I want one of those, and two of those, and that... and that.... and a BIG one of THOSE!

Does anyone else find that there's just too many lovely possibles out there?

Yep,
That is why I am not and will never be monogomous.
sub tara

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RE: Temptation - 6/24/2006 5:34:07 PM

scratchingpost

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smiles softly...It seemed no matter W/who I was ever with I always wanted to stray and look...then I found My boy....I have zero interest in another I don't mind watching him play with others (that is why Im having a birthday party for him) just so I can watch but I want to watch him be used and enjoy himself...I care not for anything else these days. For years the grass was greener elsewhere now, despite My lawn needing fixing I realize there is no place like home smiles.

My girl is as sweet as candy and has this affection and care so sincere and pure....I'm so blessed these days.

I understand the "married but not dead" thinking....but since these two have entered My life I have never felt so alive and cared for. The melodrama that once plagued Me, the fears and trepidations, have been replaced with a quiet comfort and happiness that even looking at another seems....blah....I don't think another sub/slave could please Me more.

(I am getting WAY too mushy over these two....and I like it)

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RE: Temptation - 6/24/2006 5:44:27 PM

becca333

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Well, I'm not tempted to stray, but I keep thinking about friends who need someone special and wondering if I could get them together with some of the lovely availables here.

Just think of me as a BDSM cupid.

Hmmm, now there's a mental image...

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RE: Temptation - 6/24/2006 5:58:49 PM

TexasMaam

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Oh yeah!

Today's special is:
peterk50 ....
good lord have mercy would you look at that kowtow?

ker thump ker thump ker thumpa thumpa thumpa....

I'll take a baker's dozen...

; )

TexasMaam

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RE: Temptation - 6/24/2006 5:59:51 PM

scratchingpost

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becca
sounds heavenly I love it....then again I am inviting trouble err I mean lots of single people to toys birthday party...bats eyes innocently...will not play cupid...

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RE: Temptation - 6/24/2006 6:06:41 PM

becca333

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There's something satisfying about helping others find their perfect kink.

*sigh*

We're national treasures, we really are.

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RE: Temptation - 6/24/2006 6:13:54 PM

meatcleaver

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I can resist anything but temptation as Oscar Wilde so aptly put it. It's nice to be free to be tempted and now I am, I wouldn't have it any other way. I've served my time in a marriage and I'm still on very good terms with my ex but hell, the luxury of being tempted and no consequences is just great!

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RE: Temptation - 6/24/2006 6:31:30 PM

Littlepita

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I'm still to newly in love with my Dom to even think about temptation. I do like to read profiles however and see who might be a good Dom for my best girlfriend. A wonderful woman that would make any Dom exceedingly happy by the way!

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RE: Temptation - 6/24/2006 8:01:23 PM

CelticPrince

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becca,

perhaps you not as content as you tell yourself and the forum.

CP

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RE: Temptation - 6/24/2006 11:23:24 PM

MistressDREAD

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quote:

Im having problems with this site.

The problems with you becca not the site. Learn some control and remember the only one responcible for your actions, physical, mental or otherwise is you. Stop reading profiles if your not looking.
THATS what the profiles are there for.........

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RE: Temptation - 6/25/2006 12:29:19 AM

becca333

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quote:

ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

becca,

perhaps you not as content as you tell yourself and the forum.

CP

Oh, I'm perfectly happy. I just think of the possibilities.....

But I only think, and smile, and move on. Actually, I hate seeing all those lovely sub-less Doms going to waste. They're a natural resource, you know, and should be nurtured.

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RE: Temptation - 6/25/2006 12:31:37 AM

becca333

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDREAD

quote:

Im having problems with this site.

The problems with you becca not the site. Learn some control and remember the only one responcible for your actions, physical, mental or otherwise is you. Stop reading profiles if your not looking.
THATS what the profiles are there for.........

I could, of course, but it's so much fun window shopping. And even if I'm not looking, why can't I read the profiles? I've learned lots of new things simply from their comments.

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RE: Temptation - 6/25/2006 1:00:00 AM

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The why is clear becca:

quote:

I'm finding a problem with this site.

you blame the site for your own short cummings.

< Message edited by MistressDREAD -- 6/25/2006 1:01:24 AM >

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RE: Temptation - 6/25/2006 1:03:15 AM

becca333

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDREAD

The why is clear becca:

quote:

I'm finding a problem with this site.

you blame the site for your own short cummings.

I'm sorry about your humour transplant. Please ask someone to explain the term 'joke' to you.

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RE: Temptation - 6/25/2006 1:09:01 AM

MistressDREAD

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I see no * joke* in your temptation post nor your words concerning your relationship with your significant other. Of course maybe you see it as a joke.
Who am I do judge.....................

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RE: Temptation - 6/25/2006 1:17:54 AM

submissvelilbrat

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i found this thread interesting......right up to the point where i got a headache, and i don't blame the site!

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RE: Temptation - 6/25/2006 1:19:54 AM

becca333

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDREAD

I see no * joke* in your temptation post nor your words concerning your relationship with your significant other. Of course maybe you see it as a joke.

No, I can see that any kind of humour here is passing right over your head. But please, don't apologise, it's not your fault.

quote:

Who am I do judge.....................

....apparently, the person writing badly edited judgemental posts.

Can I clear up anything else for you?

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RE: Temptation - 6/25/2006 8:10:08 AM

kittinSol

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*Nod nod nod at becca.*

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RE: Temptation - 6/25/2006 8:34:12 AM

ExistentialSteel

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For goodness sakes, folks, Becca is trying to get her honest feelings down. There is excitement in places where Doms and subs are, even if it is only a message board. It is stimulating reviewing profiles, pictures and possibly even corresponding with others. Curiosity represents a vigorous intellect more than a wandering eye. Asking others’ opinions is an admirable mission. If there is no doubt about commitment, there is no jealousy.

Becca, the opposite of innocent curiosity would be staying in a conversation with a Dom when he is clearly trying to take it to another, wrongful level. A rule of thumb would be never get into email exchanges you wouldn’t want your Dom to read even if he doesn’t monitor your mail.

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