ChatteParfaitt -> RE: switches (7/17/2013 3:32:25 AM)
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It may be surreal to think of some as dom or sub, that is the way some people are. Just like some of us are switches. Do I think there are some who label themselves as switch b/c they don't know who they? Sure. Do I think some switches are neither highly dom or highly sub? Sure. I could have written this reply myself: quote:
ORIGINAL: MasterSadric There are a number of different kinds of switches. Some are dependent on who they are with. If they are with someone more dominant than they are, they are submissive. If they are with someone less dominant, they assume the dominant role. Then there are others who switch, but only with other switches, and again, one will prove to be more dominant than the other, and one tends to top more than the other., And still more, are those switches who "like a break" from their primary role. It is a VERY broad term, so if you want to know what you are dealing with, just ask. I think Stevens' suggestion to ask if they are poly or monogamous up front is a good one, depending on how you roll.
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