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LadyPact -> RE: Naming a submissive or slave (5/7/2013 12:48:23 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MalcolmNathaniel:
A nickname is different than a description.

Just in case things don't work out between us: it is an extremely accurate decision.

For now she is Mine and I get a bit possessive about my property. And now you can all be jealous.
If that means what I think it means, that might just be wonderful news.




RaspberryLemon -> RE: Naming a submissive or slave (5/7/2013 1:57:19 AM)

My Master has many little nicknames for me. Beyond that, he gave me an actual name, and I'll be getting my name legally changed to it, probably when we get married. The name he picked was just something he felt fit me, and we both like it (also, I had no attachment to my previous name--didn't really care for it.) I find it endearing that he named me--kind of like naming a dog when you buy/adopt it.



SoulAlloy -> RE: Naming a submissive or slave (5/7/2013 4:33:04 AM)

I was called Amber, a name for when I dressed up, but she called me it regardless of how I was dressed.

There were a whole host of reasons, links to books (the Fool in Robin Hobb, a fave of mine), protective mythology, symbolism, my Mistress had a symbol of a dragon for her and amber is also known as dragon tears, and it is similar to my real name.

Now we're apart I haven't decided whether to keep it or not, I suspect I will drop it.

Once upon a time I was also Grissom, due to having a Forensic Science degree and my partner at the time was a Lady Heather... Fun times



ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Naming a submissive or slave (5/7/2013 4:38:10 AM)

FR:


Yes, Himself has several nicknames for me, and I have several for my sub as well. It's a form of endearment.



MalcolmNathaniel -> RE: Naming a submissive or slave (5/7/2013 1:25:17 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

If that means what I think it means, that might just be wonderful news.




You could say that. The big grin on my face might just confirm it.



Hillwilliam -> RE: Naming a submissive or slave (5/7/2013 2:47:33 PM)

When I was wee TOS violation, my name was "Dammit"



SeverinVim -> RE: Naming a submissive or slave (5/7/2013 8:45:36 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam

When I was wee TOS violation, my name was "Dammit"

I could be wrong, but I believe Mister HillWilliam referred to me disparagingly as a "cool coconut" once. Then again, I assumed at the time that it was a term of endearment....



soldiersslutgirl -> RE: Naming a submissive or slave (5/7/2013 8:52:51 PM)

My Master renamed me. He thought about what he wanted to name me for a long time, and decided on it a few months before my collaring ceremony. Around family and his co-workers I go by my birth name, but at home or any kink-related event I go by my slave name. Or Kitty, because I am a kitty, so he calls me Kitty a lot. But, that is not my given slave name. His view was I had changed who I was to be his, so he gave me a new name to go with the new me.



MaamJay -> RE: Naming a submissive or slave (5/11/2013 12:36:23 AM)

Master named me violet for my passionate love of all things purple (hair, nails, bag and quite often clothes!), and because i love flowers (first degree was in Botany). Though i am definitely NOT a shrinking violet ... not in size nor in shyness.

I like to rename subby boys too but tend to only do so when the relationship gets more serious. I'm still looking for a boy to give the perfect name to ... neil *grin*

Maam Jay aka violet[A]



Kana -> RE: Naming a submissive or slave (5/11/2013 7:09:40 AM)

The Mouse is the Mouse, or Slut, or Cunt or The lilone, lil buddy (Stolen from The Skipper) or on rare occasions,monkey butt... but nicknames aren't things I give anymore. They just come,organically and holistically evolving until they became a part of us because they fit.
As mentioned above, she's the mouse for a number of reasons. Her read Daddy called her pocket mouse, as did her best friend. She's petite, teeny, prone to skittering away rather than confronting, took years to get her to learn to eat from my hand....plus she's cute as a button.
But in sex, she's slut, whore,cum-dump, all sorts of yumminess.
And she's always an "it," yeah, that hits her hard in all sorts of wonderful love/hate dichotomous ways.

The key thing for me is that searching for nicknames is kinda futile, I need to let them emerge and I usually roll through one or two before I find the one that really fits. Then that one, it stays.



theshytype -> RE: Naming a submissive or slave (5/11/2013 10:23:13 AM)

I don't have a nickname. I get called all sorts of things, some nice and some not-so, depending on the moment. My favorite one, though, is when he calls me spunky.



JeffBC -> RE: Naming a submissive or slave (5/17/2013 8:08:54 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
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ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss
Apparently...BOSG-Bendy Obedient Slave Girl is my new nickname
Do we have a Mod in the house? It sounds like somebody is requesting a personal moniker.


Late to the party but seconded :)



MasterCaneman -> RE: Naming a submissive or slave (5/17/2013 12:21:40 PM)


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ORIGINAL: JeffBC

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact
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ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss
Apparently...BOSG-Bendy Obedient Slave Girl is my new nickname
Do we have a Mod in the house? It sounds like somebody is requesting a personal moniker.


Late to the party but seconded :)


Thirded, if that's a word.
I was never in a scene-related relationship long enough to append a pet name to one of my subs/slaves, nor was I of a mind to. Had a couple that requested I refer to them in a certain way, but that's about it. Most of the time (in scene, of course), it was the usual monikers you'd expect.



ResidentSadist -> RE: Naming a submissive or slave (5/17/2013 1:31:05 PM)

It's not really a nick name, but I have changed slave's names. When a slave starts in my house, or anyone in a new relationship, they start with new goals, new protocols and sometimes they are joining a family, a new family. I think it is nice to have an entirely new name to match the new identity. My favorite rename signified new beginnings, "anastasia". The meaning of the name Anastasia is resurrection. The family and house is called Phoenix which also means rebirth. Anastasia Phoenix seemed a righteous name for someone starting a new life.



TieMeInKnottss -> RE: Naming a submissive or slave (5/17/2013 5:18:08 PM)

That is so cool! I wondered about the "Phoenix Dynasty " on your avatar!

Unfortunately, I was informed that BOSG is a DESCRIPTION and NOT a nickname but I have to say I kind of liked it!



zpenguin -> RE: Naming a submissive or slave (5/19/2013 8:30:07 PM)

I see people talking and being under "the house of so n so" what does that mean?



littlewonder -> RE: Naming a submissive or slave (5/19/2013 8:37:02 PM)

It means that it's a poly household and they have given their home a name. It's usually more of a Leather thing if I'm not mistaken but I've also seen Goreans use it a lot.



tsatske -> RE: Naming a submissive or slave (5/19/2013 9:17:58 PM)

My last Master called me his Jaguar. Because, he said, I was just like a Jag - awesome, really cool to own, but terribly expensive, and spent half my time in the shop (I have medical issues, which were exacerbated when I got pregnant.)



BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Naming a submissive or slave (5/19/2013 10:24:13 PM)

I don't currently, but if I am playful with my one in a relationship, a fun nickname may come up to replace his. [8D] M



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