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iamwhoiamabc123 -> Associations with law and bdsm (5/7/2013 8:00:57 AM)
Safety to most is the number one concern when it comes to bdsm play. So what happens when play turns into something not agreed upon by the consenting party? What happens when the safety word is forgotten or can't be illustrated? How many rapist are actually rapist? Hoe many law cases are actually legitimate? All of these questions and more like them are starting to become an issue in our system today. Even the issue of rape being related to watching pornography. I hope this thread forms into a focus group in trying to decide ways in order to help fortify safety and both parties participating. Should people have a paper with both names signed as a term of agreement or should trust between both parties be enough? Happy posting!

LafayetteLady -> RE: Associations with law and bdsm (5/7/2013 6:35:42 PM)
You know what? You are continually making correlations where non exist. You really need to do some better research before you come here asking questions. And no, the mods aren't going to close this thread either when you get a bunch of answers you don't like and throw a two year old temper tantrum.

littlewonder -> RE: Associations with law and bdsm (5/7/2013 6:39:43 PM)
Or here's a novel idea.... Get to know each other. Ya know....go out, talk to each other, learn about each other, go out on dates, etc.... Bdsm isn't any different than meeting a guy at a bar. Do you go to a bar and make each one night stand sign a piece of paper so you can try to avoid the whole rape issue? So why would you do it in bdsm? This has nothing to do with bdsm. It has to do with being an adult and taking responsibility for yourself in situations.

MHotblack -> RE: Associations with law and bdsm (5/12/2013 12:05:07 PM)
Good one Little Wonder. In addition, if you have any doubt about the person you are about to get involved with stop! If you are uncomfortable in the situation, explain it to your partner. As a responsible adult they should understand and be sympathetic. If not, you may not want to be involved with them. Also along the same lines. If you have had serious trouble in the relationship or marriage or divorce, whatever. If you find yourself being led down a path that feels like it might be a setup. If that thought even entered your primal subconscious for a fleeting nano second... Run for your life. Always err on the side of caution. You should always be able to have a second chance encounter with someone who is an adult and sincere in their desire to be with you. Sometimes timing is everything. One rule I have always followed, "Don't do ex's" period - full stop.

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