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Best approach - 5/10/2013 12:25:08 PM

jtboss

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What are some approaches to find a dom women on this site.... seems like I'm not having much luck

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RE: Best approach - 5/10/2013 1:03:05 PM

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There's a FAQ at the top of the Ask a Mistress forum that addresses that very question.

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RE: Best approach - 5/12/2013 4:33:09 PM

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Treat them as a person first a Domme second.

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RE: Best approach - 5/12/2013 4:34:47 PM

Rawni

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Starting in the real Mistress forum. Oh, yeah, you already have.

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RE: Best approach - 5/12/2013 4:44:28 PM

TwoHeartsBeatOne

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This answer hasn't changed, jtboss. There is no substitute, or shortcut, for doing your homework. Do the work, you get the reward. It's not rocket science. As a Domme, I am seeing that you are NOT willing to do the things that desirable submissives do. They prepare to please.

So, again: http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=4439717

and this is what Oside refers to:

http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=3057095

Seriously, BDSM and D/s, require homework, preparation and work. If you aren't willing to do those things then you aren't ready for a Domme.

You may be looking for a kinkster who tops. Or, if you simply want to feel things that a Domme might "inflict," in terms of masochistic experience for you, then there are FinDommes available for hire.

Bottom line - you say you are a submissive. Do you have a fervent desire to submit your will to that of another? In other words, do you like not getting your own way, (whether sexually, physically, practically...) but rather, feel bliss in knowing that you are helping Her get her own way?

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RE: Best approach - 5/12/2013 5:40:27 PM

DarkSteven

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Why the heck are you asking this in the Ask a Master forum?

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