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RE: Where are the str8 male-on-male Doms *outside* prison? - 6/16/2013 10:08:41 PM

Aswad

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

I'm an equal opportunity sadist. I don't care what genitals the person has that I'm beating.

Anecdotally, it makes a difference to me, but I still found this clip amusing (warning: stiletto plus cock equals blood).

I'm guessing there's an equal opportunity sadist in me somewhere, but since I'm not involved with the local scene, I've made no effort to uncover him.

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Sexually, I don't engage with women because I am not attracted to women in that way.

Seem to be a zero or one myself. Else, malesubs would be a definite option for the sort of play that takes time to heal.

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Trying to goad somebody who isn't interested in a particular gender by claiming that it would satisfy their "primal alpha" urges just shows that you don't understand what drives their sexuality at all.

If he's a malesub, why would one expect him to understand what drives maledoms' sexualities? You probably have a far better idea of what drives my sexuality than he does. That's to be expected. And, quite frankly, it might be fun to top the guy, for all I know, but it wouldn't do squat for me on a sexual level, and wouldn't remotely resemble prison rape, among other things because there wouldn't be any sex involved.

Since dominance isn't a gender thing, his main problem lies in assuming a straight dom would want sex to be involved.

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RE: Where are the str8 male-on-male Doms *outside* prison? - 6/17/2013 1:22:43 PM

Kana

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

I'm an equal opportunity sadist. I don't care what genitals the person has that I'm beating.

I used to know this cat who would always say, "A slave is neither male nor female. They are only a slave."

Talk about an idea that's simply hot as nuts in all it's subtle implications.

I don't roll like that ( I just get no joy and a lot of "Ick"' from the idea of touching males in that, or pretty much any, fashion), but oh fuck, I immensely love the ideological base .

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RE: Where are the str8 male-on-male Doms *outside* prison? - 6/17/2013 2:24:52 PM

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1
Bingo! Thank goodness we have people who can explain the reality of things to people who only deal in fantasy.

Unfortunately the people firmly rooted in fantasy will never understand reality. I'm sure the op is still believing what he wants to believe.

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RE: Where are the str8 male-on-male Doms *outside* prison? - 6/23/2013 10:37:58 AM

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What I do not understand is all the men on the site that list "Submissive Men" in addition to "Submissive Women" as partners they are interested in, but then never actually have any interest even conversing with a male. I would never e-mail, approach, etc any Dom that didn't list "Sub Male" as one of his intos, but I suspect many check more categories than they actually have an interest.

I'm also unusual in that I just want to play sub, not live sub.

I have a happy full life, but one day---I still hope to meet a Dom/Domme or Dom/Switch-F couple that will use me as a sex toy to enhance their own lifes---both as a household servant and a sex slave- but with large doses of humiliation and verbal abuse.

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RE: Where are the str8 male-on-male Doms *outside* prison? - 6/23/2013 10:44:30 AM

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I list submissive men for one reason.I need them as chore boys and help around here,if they can't serve that way then on down the road for them,,,no sexual release "EVER"..Bounty

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RE: Where are the str8 male-on-male Doms *outside* prison? - 6/23/2013 6:58:43 PM

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ORIGINAL: chatterbox24

I have to comment on this. I cant help it!!!

Straight men are straight, there is no middle ground. They don't do men in any way shape or form. If a man goes beyond a one or two time experimentation, they can cloak it anyway they want, saying its a power trip, and use any excuse under the sun, but if a man is accepting Bj's from other men, they are bi sexual! ITs pure denial saying anything else.

IM a straight woman, and I mean straight, if I was trapped on a desert island for years with just a female, I would not want to get all sexy with her EVER.

If you swing both ways under any circumstances, its ludicrous to say your anything but bi. Straight people are disgusted by the thought of sexual acts with the opposite sex. They admire their beauty, the person they are, etc. But sexual acts aren't an attractive thought or a serious consideration.

hetero flexible is the silliest term, seriously.

It might just be the case of a power or pleasure trip, for them that does.

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RE: Where are the str8 male-on-male Doms *outside* prison? - 6/24/2013 2:25:04 AM

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Greetings

Ok here is the thing, straightness is a sliding scale, yes some are straight or gay, firmly placed in one category or the other, while most are on a sliding scale of it, so when a man who are usually more towards the straight spectrum find he can not get sex with women for a long period of time, he might slide a little towards the center of the scale and take whatever is available. The same thing have been seen in women's school where there are only girls, often there are sexual relations between the young women who would never consider themselves lesbian, there is a sliding scale.

Now I consider myself to be bisexual. When it comes to sex I do not care what gender a potential partner have, man, woman it is all the same to me, but when it comes to a relationship I strongly prefer men but are not completely opposed to dating a woman. I mean I think it would be neat if me and Aswad met another woman we both could have a relationship with at some point in the future but I digress.

Now my issue with your post is the same issue I have with all so called subs who come in here and then try to bait and insult others into taking part in your chosen kink. I wish you the best of luck in finding a straight man who will engage in rape play with you, happy searching and I hope you find what you are looking for, but when you say things like this:

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And how much "alpha" does it actually take, really, to tie up a weak little 97 lb female subbie? Don't you sometimes crave some prey that can fight back? (<-- ok, I realize I'm probably going to hell, on a flaming parachute, for those last 2... ;) ;)

you loose allot of sympathy from me. Also one thing you have to understand, being alpha and being Dominant is not just about who is the biggest and strongest. I know a couple where he is in a wheelchair with a muscle disorder, and yet he manage to control his sub just fine. I in fact find it to be more impressive when a Dominant manage to control a sub bigger and stronger than they are with a look and the sound of their voice than them being able to wrestle the sub to the ground. You see being alpha is not about how big you are. I was once attacked by a man, the top og my head reached to his chest and he was wider than I am with no fat on his body, I used a method I have learned from Martial Arts to rip my arm out of his grip and stared him straight in the eye and that man backed of. The point being he was much bigger and stronger than me, but as soon as someone stood up against him he showed his true colors and ran like a coward. I have however also met met, small, thin men who I just instinctively want to obey, not because of their physical strength, but because of their personality.

I wish you well

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RE: Where are the str8 male-on-male Doms *outside* prison? - 6/24/2013 9:11:40 PM

Marini

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Oh for crying out loud! As a gay Dom, I have to say that posts like this just make me ashamed of some people in the gay community.

As others have very clearly asked, what part of "straight" do you not understand?

It seems, to me, that you have a fetish for being used by someone who is not sexually attracted to you. I don't get that, but to each their own. In addition, you answered your own question. You stated that you have gone a long time without male companionship and had no desire to turn to women. So why, for the love of all things holy, do you expect it to be different for straight men? Do you think there are straight guys who are going to jump at the chance to dominate you when, as you said, they have no desire for men? You've set up some seriously awkward trains of thought here.

If you want to be dominated by a man, find a gay man. If a straight man says he will dominate you and sexually use you, then chances are that he isn't straight.

Thank you for making the point, perfectly clear, MstSebastian!

I am late posting at this party!

< Message edited by Marini -- 6/24/2013 9:12:23 PM >

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RE: Where are the str8 male-on-male Doms *outside* prison? - 6/24/2013 9:50:04 PM

FrostedFlake

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Nephandi
Greetings

Ok here is the thing, straightness is a sliding scale, yes some are straight or gay, firmly placed in one category or the other, while most are on a sliding scale of it, so when a man who are usually more towards the straight spectrum find he can not get sex with women for a long period of time, he might slide a little towards the center of the scale and take whatever is available. The same thing have been seen in women's school where there are only girls, often there are sexual relations between the young women who would never consider themselves lesbian, there is a sliding scale.

This is bullshit. The best it could possibly be is what someone honestly but ignorantly assumes other folks feel the same about. Though that person would have to have a hide like a Rhinoceros. I don't really believe anyone has a hide that thick. I think this thread has devolved into a game, if it wasn't a game to begin with. In fact, straight people are straight, gay people are gay and bi people are bi. This is why we use the words, gay, straight and bi. If things were the way the poster and the OP suggest, we could and also would do without two of these words.

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RE: Where are the str8 male-on-male Doms *outside* prison? - 6/25/2013 12:30:44 PM

DesFIP

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ORIGINAL: nephandi

The same thing have been seen in women's school where there are only girls, often there are sexual relations between the young women who would never consider themselves lesbian, there is a sliding scale.

My experience in an all female prep school does not bear this out. We didn't have sex with each other. We talked about the boys we liked and waited till we could see them.

I didn't develop an interest in women sexually only for a couple of years and then have it disappear when I was in a coed school.

If you did, then I'd call you bi. Relationship wise you require a male and primarily sexually as well. But with the right woman you would be interested.

I don't swing like that. I'm not 20% bi, I'm totally straight. If it isn't the right guy, then I'd prefer no sex at all.

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RE: Where are the str8 male-on-male Doms *outside* prison? - 6/26/2013 12:23:35 AM

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ORIGINAL: FrostedFlake
In fact, straight people are straight, gay people are gay and bi people are bi. This is why we use the words, gay, straight and bi. If things were the way the poster and the OP suggest, we could and also would do without two of these words.

This is bullshit. The best it could possibly be is what someone honestly but ignorantly assumes other folks feel the same about. Though that person would have to have a hide like a Rhinoceros. I don't really believe anyone has a hide that thick.

While I appreciate that for some, it is ever so much easier and more convenient to compartmentalise sexuality into three absolute categories... I reckon it's a pretty limiting thing to do.

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RE: Where are the str8 male-on-male Doms *outside* prison? - 6/26/2013 12:26:42 AM

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ORIGINAL: crazyml

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ORIGINAL: FrostedFlake
In fact, straight people are straight, gay people are gay and bi people are bi. This is why we use the words, gay, straight and bi. If things were the way the poster and the OP suggest, we could and also would do without two of these words.

This is bullshit. The best it could possibly be is what someone honestly but ignorantly assumes other folks feel the same about. Though that person would have to have a hide like a Rhinoceros. I don't really believe anyone has a hide that thick.

While I appreciate that for some, it is ever so much easier and more convenient to compartmentalise sexuality into three absolute categories... I reckon it's a pretty limiting thing to do.

So, what you are telling me is, I want you?

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RE: Where are the str8 male-on-male Doms *outside* prison? - 6/26/2013 10:59:30 AM

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I had assumed that you were far too discerning.

Besides, I don't doubt that you're way over there on the straight end of the spectrum along with me as it happens.

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RE: Where are the str8 male-on-male Doms *outside* prison? - 6/26/2013 11:20:02 AM

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But do you really believe like nephandi suggests, that women turn lesbian for convenience sake and then stop being attracted to other women? If you couldn't find a woman to date and there was a large gay community nearby, would you decide to become gay and then if a month later a woman made overtures to you would you suddenly become straight again?

Because I don't believe it works that way.

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RE: Where are the str8 male-on-male Doms *outside* prison? - 6/26/2013 7:38:24 PM

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I don't think straight means what you think it means.

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RE: Where are the str8 male-on-male Doms *outside* prison? - 7/29/2013 3:53:56 AM

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Whoever said "Religion is the opiate of the masses" never heard Right Wing talk radio.

and gives opiates a a bum rap too

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RE: Where are the str8 male-on-male Doms *outside* prison? - 7/29/2013 4:07:17 AM

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The straight male dominate or alphas are the keepers of the homophobic flame. The caveman behavior of the criminal culture is at least honest in that it recognizes a hot wet hole as a essential need for men and rules can be suspended to accommodate that need when females are absent. The bulk of non criminal class male doms resort to bullying and manipulation and won't risk being branded "faggot" for any non conforming male associations and even for such pedestrian behaviors of wearing a pink shirt or carrying a purple gym bag. Don't look to this kind of person to break the rules

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RE: Where are the str8 male-on-male Doms *outside* prison? - 7/29/2013 11:22:54 AM

DesFIP

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Way to go. Denigrate billions of people as all being alike.

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RE: Where are the str8 male-on-male Doms *outside* prison? - 7/29/2013 11:41:52 AM

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ORIGINAL: breetge

The straight male dominate or alphas are the keepers of the homophobic flame. The caveman behavior of the criminal culture is at least honest in that it recognizes a hot wet hole as a essential need for men and rules can be suspended to accommodate that need when females are absent. The bulk of non criminal class male doms resort to bullying and manipulation and won't risk being branded "faggot" for any non conforming male associations and even for such pedestrian behaviors of wearing a pink shirt or carrying a purple gym bag. Don't look to this kind of person to break the rules

If your going to make statements like those, it would help to know what your talking about... rather than to have no clue and to try and pass it off as fact.

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