LadyPact -> RE: Dom is different (6/11/2013 4:12:32 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Rawni So defend the newbies.. that don't offer consent to their spouses and families they could subject to various harmful things. That isn't fairness or a lack of judgment or even being nice to newbies. Since when has lying to someone and saying it is okay to risk harm to people, an okay thing to do? It's a bit more complex than that as this thread is pretty much over-spill from what went down in the "Need Advice ASAP" thread. Many of the usual suspects here, too - though not you, for memory? And then there's that other thing. That women don't miss too many opportunities to stick it to their own gender - esp a stranger and a newbie. Like the other thread.... Focus. Unfair, Bro. The OP alluded to the fact that she was cheating in the original post. That makes it part of the topic. She, you, or anybody else may not like the fact that people zoned in on that part, but it's in there. Also, cheating has never been a topic that has gone over well here. Frankly, I've always found it to be one of the areas where men are taken to task far quicker than women. These boards are filled with folks who believe in concepts such as consent and not causing harm. I would be highly surprised if folks *didn't* express their opinions about an area that obviously violates both. ~~~~~ Because of forum guidelines, I'm going to answer the OP. I'm a Dominant female, rather than a Dominant male. What I believe you have here is a version of the famous "Master doesn't call anymore" type threads. When I say "doesn't call anymore" it means either no contact at all or any version of less contact before he got to hit it and quit it. From your original post, it seems you are getting less attention than you were getting before you actually got laid. He got what he wanted and basically, you're kind of on the back burner just in case he wants to revisit the strange again. For some, that's all this game of WIITWD is about. A bit of kink on the side or a BDSM type of booty call. Some like the thrill of the case and once they have caught you, it's nowhere near as interesting. There are those that will be smart enough to maintain just enough contact to keep you ready for a quick lay if they can work it into their schedule. Others will just spend time on their next pursuit. You've made yourself something of a prime target for this. Chicks cheating on their husbands are great for guys who are cheating on their wives. I think you roll the dice when you are dealing with an unethical person. You expected a person to be committed to you when he already showed you that he didn't honor the commitment to his wife. If you are going to play the game, you have to do so with the understanding that, sometimes, you are going to lose.
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