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SubScotsGirl -> RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find (7/29/2013 10:02:44 AM)
Crikey...loads going on here! I thought I'd snoop and check out her profile and it's empty! I guess all the bitchin' was too much. Anyhoo...I agree with the majority of the people who have answered in relation to your question...was it a question? Or more just an observation? I can't remember now...it was so long ago before all the arguments! But there are loads of attractive dominant men out there. I also think a dominant man's personality/presence can make him more attractive to me. I get a wee smile just thinking about it! [;)] I agree with Lobster123: Maybe you can't find someone like yourself....or someone that you think is "textbook attractive".

LatinDomTX -> RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find (8/20/2013 8:47:15 AM)
Not sure if this is just related to online or just dominants In general. My take Is just online dating/personals in general are to an extent unrealistic. Alot of women admit that the standards they set online surpass what it would be in real life face to face. Yeah sure every girl wants the guy who resembles the latest chick flick movie star. And when you get online you come into a way to contact someone you might not have in every day life. Think it goes something like we want the perfect 10 online when were more with average people in real time.

SerWhiteTiger -> RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find (8/20/2013 10:13:19 AM)
If you think that's hard, you should try finding attractive submissive women.

OsideGirl -> RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find (8/20/2013 10:18:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LatinDomTX Not sure if this is just related to online or just dominants In general. My take Is just online dating/personals in general are to an extent unrealistic. Alot of women admit that the standards they set online surpass what it would be in real life face to face. Yeah sure every girl wants the guy who resembles the latest chick flick movie star. And when you get online you come into a way to contact someone you might not have in every day life. Think it goes something like we want the perfect 10 online when were more with average people in real time. In a society where men outnumber women at least 10:1, the women get to pick and choose. I'll admit that being in the D/s BDSM community led me to date men that probably wouldn't have approached me in a vanilla setting.

SerWhiteTiger -> RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find (8/20/2013 10:38:07 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: LatinDomTX Not sure if this is just related to online or just dominants In general. My take Is just online dating/personals in general are to an extent unrealistic. Alot of women admit that the standards they set online surpass what it would be in real life face to face. Yeah sure every girl wants the guy who resembles the latest chick flick movie star. And when you get online you come into a way to contact someone you might not have in every day life. Think it goes something like we want the perfect 10 online when were more with average people in real time. In a society where men outnumber women at least 10:1, the women get to pick and choose. I'll admit that being in the D/s BDSM community led me to date men that probably wouldn't have approached me in a vanilla setting. Yeah, but the kinky men outnumber the dominant men at least 100:1.

WarMachine904 -> RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find (8/20/2013 1:43:27 PM)
Of course an attractive male dominant is hard to find! There is only one of me, and millions of women hunting me down! LOL! In all seriousness, since beauty is in the eye of the beholder, it kind of depends on what you consider attractive, as so many others have pointed out.

Greenvapor -> RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find (8/20/2013 6:53:41 PM)
I guess I dont really understand the topic. My last Master was not physically attractive yet He dominated and bullied me and made me a complete slave. Henhad a big belly, bad skin, was bald, and His hygiene lacked. But I was a complete sissy for Him. He even conditioned me to have a strong foot fetish whichi can't break. It was about will, not looks.

TieMeInKnottss -> RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find (8/20/2013 7:34:48 PM)
One thing I find that makes it hard for anyone but the conventionally attractive to be CONSIDERED attractive is that vitality...that charisma that often makes us, in person say, WOW!!! I have tried to stop myself from just "no-ing" men whose photos just make me go "eh"... The great thing about these chats/posts is I think it gives all of us a chance to show our personality and to have someone, who would normally NOT be interested go "I want to know more about him/her"

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