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LafayetteLady -> RE: A question for Alpha... (6/12/2013 7:20:14 PM)
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There was a big discussion about this a few years back.
No, you can't clean it up and no you have no choice if someone chooses to put you there.
No one can "friend" you without your permission, which you rejected, so you aren't on his "friends" list. No one but you and the person who "admired" you know that person has chosen to put you on his favorites.
People put others on their favorites list (that is what they used to call it) for many reasons. They may want to write to you but don't have the time at the moment, so they "favorite" you to make it easier to go back to your profile later. They may have read your journal and want to be able to go back, or your forum posts.
You could always write to them and ask them to stop admiring you, but I think you should be able to figure out how that will go over. If you ask three different people that, one will apologize and do so, one will take it as an invitation to write to you, and the other will call you names. All three, in my opinion, are correct and wrong at the same time.
There were those in the other post who likened it to "stalking" when it really isn't. It might just be their way of hoping you to take notice and write to them.
All in all, it isn't really that big of a deal.
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