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hello im after information - 6/18/2013 8:47:51 AM

darknite69

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hello i am intrested in knowing more bout the scene as i have a daughter in the scene nd i need to know for myself that she should be safe nd i want to try nd suapport her if i knew she was safe i am only concerned as she is my only child nd as i am having to leave her i am so freaking out that she mite end up dead in a street somewere so please give me any lnfo or book names or dvd names so i can learn more nd understand my princess more

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RE: hello im after information - 6/18/2013 8:53:23 AM

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While there are no guarantees in life, her chances of ending up dead in a street are the same within WIITWD than outside of it.

Many of us here have long term happy relationships.

There is a good book, "When someone you love is kinky" that may help you understand more about D/s BDSM.

If you have more specific questions, feel free to contact me on the other side.

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RE: hello im after information - 6/18/2013 11:55:52 AM

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Greetings and welcome to CM and the forums. Oside gave some good advice. The possiblity of her ending up dead in street is no different then dating someone she meets in every day settings. LOL we are all pretty normal everyday life. Hope you will get the book and that it helps.

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RE: hello im after information - 6/18/2013 12:31:27 PM

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By the way, darknite69, please feel free to hang out and ask questions.
We're just ordinary folks. With a little twist.

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RE: hello im after information - 6/18/2013 12:44:47 PM

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I can't speak for everybody everywhere, but I am a volunteer for a well established play party in Philadelphia, PA. The dom who runs that play party is very careful to look out for the well-being of everybody in his space. He is also part of a group of people who are well educated not just in the lifestyle, but in other related areas as well. For example, one of the fire players is actually a former firefighter. I consider myself fortunate to have become involved with this group and consider them all mentors. As long as your daughter has found a group like that, she's in good hands. It might be worth it to discreetly inquire about the individuals in her local scene. I'm not talking about a private detective and a background check, just maybe ask your daughter about them.

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RE: hello im after information - 6/18/2013 2:45:12 PM

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quote:

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hello i am intrested in knowing more bout the scene as i have a daughter in the scene nd i need to know for myself that she should be safe nd i want to try nd suapport her if i knew she was safe i am only concerned as she is my only child nd as i am having to leave her i am so freaking out that she mite end up dead in a street somewere so please give me any lnfo or book names or dvd names so i can learn more nd understand my princess more

In case anyone was wondering, this is what a bad ass parent does. Very cool.

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RE: hello im after information - 6/18/2013 3:22:44 PM

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quote:

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ORIGINAL: darknite69

hello i am intrested in knowing more bout the scene as i have a daughter in the scene nd i need to know for myself that she should be safe nd i want to try nd suapport her if i knew she was safe i am only concerned as she is my only child nd as i am having to leave her i am so freaking out that she mite end up dead in a street somewere so please give me any lnfo or book names or dvd names so i can learn more nd understand my princess more

In case anyone was wondering, this is what a bad ass parent does. Very cool.

Damn right. Well done dad. The only thing you are guilty of is caring.

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RE: hello im after information - 6/18/2013 5:24:39 PM

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any lnfo or book names or dvd names so i can learn more

Here's a -=BDSM Book List=-

When Someone You Love is Kinky is probably a good choice for you. While I've never read it, lots of people here have recommended it, and I do own three other books by the same authors.

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