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DarkSteven -> RE: Hi from london (7/11/2013 5:29:45 AM)
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ORIGINAL: jola37
I should really say a little more about me and what I am looking for.
I am 38 yrs old, live in London and am a lifelong kinky head. I felt uncomfortable about it for many years until I met a wonderful woman about 5 years ago. We ended up getting together for a couple of years as GF/BF and she helped to bring me out. I think it was the first time I met someone as kinky as me ! I owe her a debt of gratitude for her patience and care. We split up amicably a couple of years ago and I stayed single since then. I have been ready for a little while now though to make some steps to see if I can meet someone who I think is wonderful and who likes me too [:)] For my personal journey, I guess joining here is one of the steps but I'd like to say I don't have any unrealistic expectations. It would be insanely great if I did meet my partner here and in the scheme of things, it is a real possibility. I flippin' hope so :-) But it's hard to meet someone anyway that you want to cherish and love, let alone where you're both into the same kinks, so my hope is tempered with reality ! Still I remain 100% positive as why the hell not ;-) It would be great to make a few like-minded pals along the way too.
In vanilla life, I work in construction, I have a small firm. It drives me bonkers sometimes but I like making stuff so I get job satisfaction from my work. I love music and have a small studio where I make tunes, have been doing this on and off since I was young and really get in to it sometimes. I have a lovely social circle of friends who we've know each other for years and have spent many years raving together.
From a kinky perspective I am defo a straight subbie, wont go into too much detail here but like I think the more traditional side of toys and D/s dynamics. It's an awesome way to let go and relax which is why I don't mind switching for my partner to allow them to 'have some time off 'and let someone look after them.
Probably said enough for now, thanks for having a read, if you got this far !
love j
[:)]
Nice and wordy here - put that lot in your profile!
Definitely mention that you work construction. Keith Jones is a spanking model working for Shadow Lane, and is fit enough to be able to spank a woman for two hours straight. Even though you're a bottom and not a Top, being fit never hurts. If there's a way to mention that you work the office as well as the field, then you're every woman's ideal - a man comfortable shuffling papers as well as working with tools. (Over here, a British accent is killer as well, although it's common in the UK.)
Welcome to the site!
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