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DarkSteven -> RE: Who tend to be more punishing the old or the young? (7/14/2013 9:24:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kana I think it's a sign of weakness in a dominant to focus so much on punishment. I mean fuck, if I want to hurt her,I do.I own my shit. I hurt her because I like to,because it turns me on. I don't to invent some flimflam excuse to do so. I was talking with Lily Starr, who is one of the main figures in spanking movies. I told her that all spanking movies began with some artificial premise for a spanking, and then the spanking itself. I said that as a Dom, I spank when I want to, not when some incident triggered it, and feel like it takes away from dominance when I can't do it as I wish. Her response, naturally, was that she was in complete agreement, but that the paying public liked to see a reason for a spanking followed by a punishment spanking, and the harder the better. So to address your point that focus on punishment is a sign of weakness - it could also be someone steeped in porn and unused to the real world of D/s.

kdsub -> RE: Who tend to be more punishing the old or the young? (7/14/2013 10:03:57 AM)
Given the same temperament the young, because they are usually more fit and able to deliver more punishment. Just physical ability makes the difference. Butch

Kana -> RE: Who tend to be more punishing the old or the young? (7/14/2013 10:08:04 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven quote: ORIGINAL: Kana I think it's a sign of weakness in a dominant to focus so much on punishment. I mean fuck, if I want to hurt her,I do.I own my shit. I hurt her because I like to,because it turns me on. I don't to invent some flimflam excuse to do so. I was talking with Lily Starr, who is one of the main figures in spanking movies. I told her that all spanking movies began with some artificial premise for a spanking, and then the spanking itself. I said that as a Dom, I spank when I want to, not when some incident triggered it, and feel like it takes away from dominance when I can't do it as I wish. Her response, naturally, was that she was in complete agreement, but that the paying public liked to see a reason for a spanking followed by a punishment spanking, and the harder the better. So to address your point that focus on punishment is a sign of weakness - it could also be someone steeped in porn and unused to the real world of D/s. Ergo-my original thesis that this is a scarlet letter sign delineating newbie,wannabe and HNG is thus proved. Happy,happy,joy joy

MasterCaneman -> RE: Who tend to be more punishing the old or the young? (7/14/2013 12:25:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GotSteel quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl Try this one, it's just as good: Who eats more spaghetti? Old or young? Pastafarians! Can I hear a RAMEN? //May He rest his noodly appendage upon you...

GotSteel -> RE: Who tend to be more punishing the old or the young? (7/15/2013 3:53:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SomethingCatchy Isn't it normal to eat the body of your deity? I don't know about normal... P.S. I think Ramendan could stand to involve a little less Ramen. [image]local://upfiles/566126/F2A797F74C9347629A4696A1CC66AD92.jpg[/image]

ResidentSadist -> RE: Who tend to be more punishing the old or the young? (7/16/2013 7:22:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kana quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven quote: ORIGINAL: Kana I think it's a sign of weakness in a dominant to focus so much on punishment. I mean fuck, if I want to hurt her,I do.I own my shit. I hurt her because I like to,because it turns me on. I don't to invent some flimflam excuse to do so. I was talking with Lily Starr, who is one of the main figures in spanking movies. I told her that all spanking movies began with some artificial premise for a spanking, and then the spanking itself. I said that as a Dom, I spank when I want to, not when some incident triggered it, and feel like it takes away from dominance when I can't do it as I wish. Her response, naturally, was that she was in complete agreement, but that the paying public liked to see a reason for a spanking followed by a punishment spanking, and the harder the better. So to address your point that focus on punishment is a sign of weakness - it could also be someone steeped in porn and unused to the real world of D/s. Ergo-my original thesis that this is a scarlet letter sign delineating newbie,wannabe and HNG is thus proved. Happy,happy,joy joy You know, I agree with that. If someone's training is going so badly that punishment is a central focus, I would say something's gone horribly wrong.

Kana -> RE: Who tend to be more punishing the old or the young? (7/16/2013 7:57:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist quote: ORIGINAL: Kana quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven quote: ORIGINAL: Kana I think it's a sign of weakness in a dominant to focus so much on punishment. I mean fuck, if I want to hurt her,I do.I own my shit. I hurt her because I like to,because it turns me on. I don't to invent some flimflam excuse to do so. I was talking with Lily Starr, who is one of the main figures in spanking movies. I told her that all spanking movies began with some artificial premise for a spanking, and then the spanking itself. I said that as a Dom, I spank when I want to, not when some incident triggered it, and feel like it takes away from dominance when I can't do it as I wish. Her response, naturally, was that she was in complete agreement, but that the paying public liked to see a reason for a spanking followed by a punishment spanking, and the harder the better. So to address your point that focus on punishment is a sign of weakness - it could also be someone steeped in porn and unused to the real world of D/s. Ergo-my original thesis that this is a scarlet letter sign delineating newbie,wannabe and HNG is thus proved. Happy,happy,joy joy You know, I agree with that. If someone's training is going so badly that punishment is a central focus, I would say something's gone horribly wrong. Dude.I'll go further. Provided that she's willing,she follows direction to the best of her ability and she has the certain "want to please" slave mentality you and I are both familiar with,in other words,is wired like most submissive/slave chicas, if ,after a reasonable period of time-say six months, punishment is still the central focus,I'm gonna suggest that perhaps the wrong side of the kneel is being punished

MasterCaneman -> RE: Who tend to be more punishing the old or the young? (7/16/2013 8:03:31 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GotSteel quote: ORIGINAL: SomethingCatchy Isn't it normal to eat the body of your deity? I don't know about normal... P.S. I think Ramendan could stand to involve a little less Ramen. [image]local://upfiles/566126/F2A797F74C9347629A4696A1CC66AD92.jpg[/image] I want that hat.

hrxxx -> RE: Who tend to be more punishing the old or the young? (7/18/2013 12:21:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kana quote: ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist quote: ORIGINAL: Kana quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven quote: ORIGINAL: Kana I think it's a sign of weakness in a dominant to focus so much on punishment. I mean fuck, if I want to hurt her,I do.I own my shit. I hurt her because I like to,because it turns me on. I don't to invent some flimflam excuse to do so. I was talking with Lily Starr, who is one of the main figures in spanking movies. I told her that all spanking movies began with some artificial premise for a spanking, and then the spanking itself. I said that as a Dom, I spank when I want to, not when some incident triggered it, and feel like it takes away from dominance when I can't do it as I wish. Her response, naturally, was that she was in complete agreement, but that the paying public liked to see a reason for a spanking followed by a punishment spanking, and the harder the better. So to address your point that focus on punishment is a sign of weakness - it could also be someone steeped in porn and unused to the real world of D/s. Ergo-my original thesis that this is a scarlet letter sign delineating newbie,wannabe and HNG is thus proved. Happy,happy,joy joy You know, I agree with that. If someone's training is going so badly that punishment is a central focus, I would say something's gone horribly wrong. Dude.I'll go further. Provided that she's willing,she follows direction to the best of her ability and she has the certain "want to please" slave mentality you and I are both familiar with,in other words,is wired like most submissive/slave chicas, if ,after a reasonable period of time-say six months, punishment is still the central focus,I'm gonna suggest that perhaps the wrong side of the kneel is being punished You've never heard of a slave who was masochist? If you stop punishment after 6 months with a masochist slave, she will run away, or your house will look like a dump.

MalcolmNathaniel -> RE: Who tend to be more punishing the old or the young? (7/18/2013 12:26:46 AM)
I didn't learn anything about BDSM in this thread. I did learn, however, that I'm hungry and Iwant some P'sgetti. Anyone else hungry?

hrxxx -> RE: Who tend to be more punishing the old or the young? (7/18/2013 12:35:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MalcolmNathaniel I didn't learn anything about BDSM in this thread. I did learn, however, that I'm hungry and Iwant some P'sgetti. Anyone else hungry? No I need a double BDSM burger with spanking fries, and a large glass urinade

littlewonder -> RE: Who tend to be more punishing the old or the young? (7/18/2013 4:44:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MalcolmNathaniel I didn't learn anything about BDSM in this thread. I did learn, however, that I'm hungry and Iwant some P'sgetti. Anyone else hungry? Kana sez: A perfect reason to beat your girl there, Malcolm. What better reason could a man need? "I wanted some s'ghetti's and where were you in my moment of crisis?"

TNDommeK -> RE: Who tend to be more punishing the old or the young? (7/18/2013 4:54:08 PM)
Pu-sketti

kiwisub12 -> RE: Who tend to be more punishing the old or the young? (7/18/2013 5:28:28 PM)
must be American pronunciation - in New Zealand it was "Bisketti".

DesFIP -> RE: Who tend to be more punishing the old or the young? (7/18/2013 6:28:51 PM)
Must be me. I looked at that photo and wanted to tell the kid in the skirt to put on his coat, it's cold outside.

splatterpunk -> RE: Who tend to be more punishing the old or the young? (7/19/2013 6:40:09 AM)
would you rather have a tiger eat you, or an elephant? answer: you'd rather have the tiger eat the elephant, natch. quod erat demonstrandum, baby. ( "oooh you speak french!")

SailingBum -> RE: Who tend to be more punishing the old or the young? (7/19/2013 2:00:00 PM)
Is it just me who's wondering where the cut off is between old n young??? BadOne

UllrsIshtar -> RE: Who tend to be more punishing the old or the young? (7/19/2013 2:08:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SailingBum Is it just me who's wondering where the cut off is between old n young??? BadOne 32

mnottertail -> RE: Who tend to be more punishing the old or the young? (7/19/2013 2:09:52 PM)
Jesus, thats young, it used to be dont trust anyone over 40......you fuckin kids these days...........

kdsub -> RE: Who tend to be more punishing the old or the young? (7/19/2013 2:34:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MalcolmNathaniel I didn't learn anything about BDSM in this thread. I did learn, however, that I'm hungry and Iwant some P'sgetti. Anyone else hungry? I thought they were only in St. Louis Butch

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