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Pain - 7/15/2013 6:36:33 AM   
justsub01


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Status: offline 		My Master wants me to be able to take more pain from whipping does anyone have advice on how to process the pain so i can take a lot more as i really want to be able to do this for Master
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RE: Pain - 7/15/2013 6:56:12 AM   
SimplyMichael


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Status: offline 		What sort of flogger is he using and what sort of warm up is he giving you?

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RE: Pain - 7/15/2013 7:10:15 AM   
AthenaSurrenders


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Status: offline 		What's his plan so far? What are you already trying?

And what exactly do you mean when you say taking more pain? To enjoy a harder beating? To last longer without safewording? Because I've found it's possible to 'take' more, as in, just survive through more, but I've never found any techniques that can make me find the pain more enjoyable. It has improved a little over time but I think the actual pain-into-pleasure largely just depends on who you are.

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RE: Pain - 7/15/2013 7:36:27 AM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		Well, two obvious ideas are:

1. Have him get you aroused, and your brain will process it differently.
2. Have him give you a warmup, and also dial the intensity up and down as the scene progresses.

Both require a certain skill level. Does he have that?

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RE: Pain - 7/15/2013 7:42:06 AM   
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1. Have him get you aroused, and your brain will process it differently.


Thats the only way I can process pain in a way to make it more acceptable.

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RE: Pain - 7/15/2013 10:15:41 AM   
justsub01


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Status: offline 		Master always gives me a warm up and being whipped makes me aroused.

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RE: Pain - 7/15/2013 11:29:51 AM   
SwitchNSpanky


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Status: offline 		Try having your master administer pain far more right before and during your orgasum than early on in the scene. Do this for some time. Eventually your body will translate the pain better. Read about Pavloves Dog research and it will give you the idea.

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RE: Pain - 7/15/2013 11:31:52 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SwitchNSpanky

Try having your master administer pain far more right before and during your orgasum than early on in the scene. Do this for some time. Eventually your body will translate the pain better. Read about Pavloves Dog research and it will give you the idea.


Oh. Same idea works for gagging blowjobs and swallowing too.

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RE: Pain - 7/15/2013 8:26:42 PM   
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Oh. Same idea works for gagging blowjobs and swallowing too.


Ok.. Pain improves the ability? Your post has me confused.

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RE: Pain - 7/15/2013 11:29:24 PM   
TieMeInKnottss


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Status: offline 		There is actually a book called "Processing Pain In Play". (Hang around me long enough & you will find that I know a book and/or Simpsons episode that can solve any issue)

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RE: Pain - 7/16/2013 2:25:43 AM   
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ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss

There is actually a book called "Processing Pain In Play". (Hang around me long enough & you will find that I know a book and/or Simpsons episode that can solve any issue)

loving the bolded part

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RE: Pain - 7/16/2013 10:27:19 AM   
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ORIGINAL: lilcracker


quote:

ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss

There is actually a book called "Processing Pain In Play". (Hang around me long enough & you will find that I know a book and/or Simpsons episode that can solve any issue)

loving the bolded part


I missed the episode where Homer ties Marge up and whips her, dammit.

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RE: Pain - 7/16/2013 6:36:34 PM   
TieMeInKnottss


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ORIGINAL: DomMeinCT


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ORIGINAL: lilcracker


quote:

ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss

There is actually a book called "Processing Pain In Play". (Hang around me long enough & you will find that I know a book and/or Simpsons episode that can solve any issue)

loving the bolded part


I missed the episode where Homer ties Marge up and whips her, dammit.


Not Homer and Marge...but Kent Brockman once admitted "a fondness for bondage"

< Message edited by TieMeInKnottss -- 7/16/2013 6:38:03 PM >

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RE: Pain - 7/16/2013 7:13:43 PM   
UllrsIshtar


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ORIGINAL: DomMeinCT


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ORIGINAL: lilcracker


quote:

ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss

There is actually a book called "Processing Pain In Play". (Hang around me long enough & you will find that I know a book and/or Simpsons episode that can solve any issue)

loving the bolded part


I missed the episode where Homer ties Marge up and whips her, dammit.


The Simpsons haven't, but Family Guy does BDSM every now and then:

http://video.tvguide.com/Family+Guy/Safety+Word/340324
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3ZJ1ueHpR78

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RE: Pain - 7/17/2013 10:02:37 AM   
SwitchNSpanky


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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

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Oh. Same idea works for gagging blowjobs and swallowing too.


Ok.. Pain improves the ability? Your post has me confused.


Lol. No. Pleasure administered to the chick giving head rewards her. If done repeatedly over a period of time she gets conditioned to enjoy giving head more.

Like Pavlov's dog and the bell before dinner.

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