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Why does one never see an unattractive overweight domme? - 7/30/2013 3:13:28 PM   
slavejohn1234


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Status: offline 		What is it about being domme that only attracts beautiful, slim, curvy girls and never unattractive, bespectacled, overweight ones?
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RE: Why does one never see an unattractive overweight d... - 7/30/2013 3:15:07 PM   
Charles6682


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RE: Why does one never see an unattractive overweight d... - 7/30/2013 3:22:38 PM   
DomMeinCT


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(Same answer if you start one about submissive women as well.)

< Message edited by DomMeinCT -- 7/30/2013 3:23:17 PM >

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RE: Why does one never see an unattractive overweight d... - 7/30/2013 3:36:12 PM   
HarryVanWinkle


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Status: offline 		My guess for why you never see overweight doms would be that you've set your search parameters with a "max weight", and that you're only looking at cyberdoms. If you joined the real life community, you'd find the people in it look a lot more like the average people you see on street corners.

I'm not even going to ask about your standards for "unattractive."

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RE: Why does one never see an unattractive overweight d... - 7/30/2013 3:36:41 PM   
kiwisub12


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what a........... unique ........................ life view.

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RE: Why does one never see an unattractive overweight d... - 7/30/2013 3:41:39 PM   
PeonForHer


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Status: offline 		John, you are the same person who started this thread, aren't you? It's just that I'm a bit confused.

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RE: Why does one never see an unattractive overweight d... - 7/30/2013 3:49:28 PM   
AllisonWilder


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Status: offline 		Hahaha.

I'm a domme, am frequently told in messages here that I'm unattractive AND I'm overweight.

Now you've seen one. :)

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RE: Why does one never see an unattractive overweight d... - 7/30/2013 3:56:21 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Same author, same silliness.

There are a range of folks that are interested in kink. All body shapes, sizes, races, backgrounds, financial situations, and every other thing that can be thought of. A little common sense in these areas goes a long way. Unlike attention seeking, common sense tends bring positive results.


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RE: Why does one never see an unattractive overweight d... - 7/30/2013 3:57:03 PM   
UllrsIshtar


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quote:

ORIGINAL: slavejohn1234

What is it about being domme that only attracts beautiful, slim, curvy girls and never unattractive, bespectacled, overweight ones?


What is it about you that makes you so obsessed with shallowness, money, looks and appearance that the only posts you make are about how women look, or what they can do for you, or how you can find a woman without putting in any effort yourself?

If finding a beauty queen Domme is so important to you, then why on Earth do you have a primary profile picture that shows you in an unattractive pose, with terrible lighting and composition, in front of a poorly hung up duvet in an attempt to cover up your shabby, third rate apartment?

Furthermore, your profile is all about you, and what you want, yet you seem to be looking for a Domme who is obsessed with herself and her looks... rather incompatible on the desire front there, aye?

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RE: Why does one never see an unattractive overweight d... - 7/30/2013 3:59:56 PM   
MissAsylum


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Status: offline 		Glasses make you ugly?

Guess I should go get contacts then

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RE: Why does one never see an unattractive overweight d... - 7/30/2013 4:04:37 PM   
MistressDarkArt


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Status: offline 		FFS, OP...first dommes at munches are fat and unattractive, now dommes are only beautiful, slim, curvy, and use contacts.

If you'd get out into the real world, you'd learn that dominant women come in all shapes, sizes, and eyesights. Then you can stop asking dumb questions here and start having fun.

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RE: Why does one never see an unattractive overweight d... - 7/30/2013 4:55:00 PM   
Charles6682


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Status: offline 		No way. Glasses on Women are sexy! I love the whole smart,intelligent look. Intelligence to me is an attractive trait.

quote:

ORIGINAL: MissAsylum

Glasses make you ugly?

Guess I should go get contacts then


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RE: Why does one never see an unattractive overweight d... - 7/30/2013 4:56:36 PM   
Charles6682


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Status: offline 		I'm alittle consfused too. Which is it OP?

quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

John, you are the same person who started this thread, aren't you? It's just that I'm a bit confused.


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RE: Why does one never see an unattractive overweight d... - 7/30/2013 4:57:51 PM   
Lucylastic


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Of course....im not desperate to know anything more about you, cos even us fat old chicks with glasses have standards about who we are willing to admit we know.

Shocking eh? How dare we!!

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RE: Why does one never see an unattractive overweight d... - 7/30/2013 5:15:23 PM   
ladydagga


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Status: offline 		they dont want to be seen

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RE: Why does one never see an unattractive overweight d... - 7/30/2013 5:23:47 PM   
TNDommeK


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Status: offline 		Wait, what about the feeder folks who are dommes? Guys love them.

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RE: Why does one never see an unattractive overweight d... - 7/30/2013 6:17:03 PM   
seekingreality


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quote:

ORIGINAL: slavejohn1234

What is it about being domme that only attracts beautiful, slim, curvy girls and never unattractive, bespectacled, overweight ones?



Did you wake up this morning and say, "I want to win the 'Start the Stupidest Thread of the Day' contest?"

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RE: Why does one never see an unattractive overweight d... - 7/30/2013 6:17:15 PM   
angelikaJ


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quote:

ORIGINAL: slavejohn1234

What is it about being domme that only attracts beautiful, slim, curvy girls and never unattractive, bespectacled, overweight ones?



Can you make up your mind please?
There are no pretty dommes
Your opposing declarations are making me dizzy.

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RE: Why does one never see an unattractive overweight d... - 7/30/2013 9:28:23 PM   
MarineKitten


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Status: offline 		Okay first off just because a domme is not "beautiful, slim, curvy," does NOT mean that they are unattractive. They simply are not attractive to you. I have seen many domme in my community who are larger, glasses wearing, geeky looking women, and I LOVE THEM. They are gorgeous both in mind and body, and no they don't lack in self respect, or self esteem. So don't blame the community just because you seem to have blinders on.

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RE: Why does one never see an unattractive overweight d... - 7/30/2013 9:59:11 PM   
njlauren


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Status: offline 		Why is it the boards are full of posts by creepy subs asking stupid questions like this? Is it the only way they can actually get someone interested in them? As Bill Shatner told the Trekkies on Saturday Night Life "You, over there, with the Spock Ears, you ever kiss a girl? Get a life!" *lol*.

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