AAkasha
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If you are frustrated with the number of "pay pigs" that email you but then do not deliver on their promises, I am here to help you.
Even if you have invested a lot of time with a very good set of sexy photos and alluring profile pushing all the right buttons (degrading your potential slaves, telling them they are losers and you will suck them dry, demanding they treat you like a greedy princess that does not deserve the shit on the bottom on their shoes), you have to understand your target audience.
You probably have seen and are imitating some of the other profiles that are like this, or seen the web sites of what look like very successful "money dommes" that are rolling in actual $100 dollar bills or have pictures of men sending money, or a rolling side bar of who is sending cash and gifts. It looks lucrative and like a dream come true. Their target audience (and yours) is a group of submissive men who have a humiliation fetish similar to cuckolding.
If you are serious about female domination, you need to learn about different types of subs. They have different buttons.
A humiliation sub who is drawn to 'pay princesses' has a fantasy that he cannot afford this woman, but other men can. His fantasy is that he is always rejected and when he approaches this woman, he will fail. He probably has a small penis fetish too. He thinks he is not good enough, but other men are. What he craves is humiliation, failure, and rejection. So your profile is his fetish - 100%. So is rejection and failure. When you make your profile and post it, you have already satisfied 75% of his fantasy. When he types the email to you, that's about 20% more. When he sees you read the email, that's 5% more and he probably orgasmed. If you don't write back, it's ok - he's been rejected and that's what he wants. He wants to be rejected. He saw your fantasy and knows he is not good enough, he wrote to you and jerked off. If you write back, he starts masturbating again! Then he tells you he can't afford your demands. He's hard again. He might even cum again by saying he can't afford it. If you ignore him but read the message, he has gotten 2 orgasms total out of you. If you write back and tell him he is an asshole time waster loser, he will come a third time. And probably save the email if it is good.
Summary? Unless you get off on being used, do not go into the role of "pay princess" looking for piggies. They get off on being rejected and reading profiles and looking at pictures. They get off on just looking at them and writing to you and knowing you read it. Hell, they even get off on being deleted unread - that's rejecting in its finest form.
Who actually is making money off of subs? I make pretty good money off of submissive men. In fact I just came back from my PO box with almost 20 boxes, mostly makeup. How did I do it? First, I absolutely and honestly adore every man that submits to me. I know him intimately. I know his buttons. When we play together, I invest (of myself)intimacy and energy that is equal if not higher than the energy I invest in my real job, at a level that my accountant looks at every year and says "Akasha you really need to cut down the time you spend on that "little side job"" - it's a losing side job, but I take what I invest in it for either "gifts for consideration " (things like makeup) or money I use for travel when I see play friends.
Also, my web site, which built my credibility as a live human being honestly into kink, existed for free for ten years - an entire decade - before ever being behind a paywall. If you want to charge money for anything, in any capacity, you have to invest in building a reputation first. I never knew what the web would become in 1995 (no one did) I was just posting on USENET and started a web site as a "home" for my stories. Nowadays if you are going to charge for your training or fantasy play thats fine, but with so many people doing the same thing you need a brand and a reputation. I could quit my job tomorrow and have no problem filling my day with Skype training, email training and more. My accountant would kill me. I would never make the same money I do in my real job and I would burn out on kink.
< Message edited by AAkasha -- 7/31/2013 9:13:05 AM >
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