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Rochsub2009 -> RE: Women that use foul language - turn on or turn off? (8/4/2013 6:44:46 PM)
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ORIGINAL: AAkasha
Is your attraction level (and feelings of dominant or submissive desire, moreso) impacted by a woman's use of foul language (in casual situations, pre-play, NOT while doing S&M).
Like a woman that casual says, "That fuckin' sucks," or "Those bitches...."
What is your first impression? For example, do submissive men find this kind of bitchy sounding woman to be potentially dominant when she's freely using unrefined language? Or does it seem she may be more sexually outgoing?
I'm a sub male, and I am not particularly impressed by foul language. You may have noticed that I almost never use it in any of my posts.
I guess I'm an old-fashioned southern gentleman at heart. I still say "Yes Ma'am" to vanilla women as a show of respect. And I get offended when people cuss like sailors in front of women and children. To me, it's akin to how some of you kinksters get offended when your fellow BDSMers exposed the not consenting public to their kink. Well I don't think the non-consenting public needs to be exposed to relentless cussing in a public setting. But like I said, I'm a bit old-fashioned.
Within a BDSM context, cussing doesn't impress me. In fact, I find women who think that cussing makes them sound "more dominant" to be laughable. And I take particular offense at the Dommes who say things like "Worship me you useless bitches. You're not worthy to eat the shit that comes out of my fucking ass!" IMO, that's doesn't make them sound dominant. It makes them sound like a silly caricature.
I will admit that within a sexual context, a little cussing can be erotic. When we're naked and I'm positioned behind her doggy style, there is nothing sexier than when a woman turns her head around, looks me in the eyes, and says "Fuck me. Fuck the shit out of me!"
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