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Can A Master Become to positive? - 11/15/2004 10:58:25 AM

MasterAlex

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I would like to ask if a Master can be to overbearing and positive? I appreciate some input.

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RE: Can A Master Become to positive? - 11/15/2004 11:08:09 AM

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What I meant to ask was can a Master become to possessive?

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RE: Can A Master Become to positive? - 11/15/2004 4:35:53 PM

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Dear MasterAlex-

quote:

I would like to ask if a Master can be to overbearing and positive?
What I meant to ask was can a Master become to possessive?

Sure- what the hell is a Master, anyway? I notice thast you are one, and I'd ask you to define it for me. I don't see why a 'Master' can't be a an asshole- most that I meet seem to be- or any other sort of undesirable person.

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RE: Can A Master Become to positive? - 11/15/2004 5:56:52 PM

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LOL Lawrence! great reply I have long wondered about this too is there a Master school where you get a diploma or is it like a drivers liscence where you study and take a test? Perhaps you are ordained in the Masters church? Hmmmm Just who is it giving the title of Master? ...Mike

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RE: Can A Master Become to positive? - 11/15/2004 6:47:58 PM

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I think you can get a certificate from Masters & Johnson.

In answer to Alex, I don't think a master becomes too possessive and overbearing. He probably is already that way.

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RE: Can A Master Become to positive? - 11/15/2004 7:51:28 PM

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ORIGINAL: Estring

I think you can get a certificate from Masters & Johnson.

You're right on this one E-String: overbearing? overpossessive? Have a Johnson? Congratulations! You too can be a certified Master.

Overbearing, possessive women, on the other hand, can get THEIR certificates from Mistress & Hunnypot.

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RE: Can A Master Become to positive? - 11/15/2004 9:37:24 PM

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I agree with Estring (wow, now there is a shock ;) ), I don't consider it a matter of *becoming*. Honestly though, I look at it kinda like a parent that spoils. They do so often because they feel guilty (can't give their child enough attention, time, whatever). In reality, it is a way for compensating for their own insecurities.....

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RE: Can A Master Become to positive? - 11/15/2004 11:19:01 PM

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What I meant to ask was can a Master become to possessive?

Can he? Of course he can become too possessive. I think that many Dominants are incline to follow that path. Does it mean a Dominant will always become too possessive? No, it's not an unavoidable conclusion. Some Dominants are secure enough in their abilities and relationships that enables them to avoid being overly possessive. These Doms (and I include myself in this group) are willing and able to deal with the independence that some submissives desire. It's all about being open and honest with your feelings and having strong communications. This enables each person in the relationship to understand each other and to accept the other person's desires/needs when they don't match their own in every detail.

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RE: Can A Master Become to positive? - 11/16/2004 1:41:04 AM

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There is a post in here that I'm too tired to go find for you, about a sub who had to get a restraining order against her ex Dom. I'd think that pretty much says yes, some people can go to far. Use your common sense. Someone being a Dominant doesn't take away their sub's rights as a human

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RE: Can A Master Become to positive? - 11/16/2004 7:18:15 PM

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MasterAlex,

I think that would depend on the relationship. If you have a submissive yes, if you have a slave depending on how intense the relationship is maybe, if your relationship is Master and property no because you own property and it is your possesion to do with as you wish.

So it would depend on your relationship with your bottom and just how intense he/she wants it to be.

I hope this helps.

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RE: Can A Master Become to positive? - 11/18/2004 12:09:37 PM

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I think a relationship should define if you are "too" anything....what is comfortable or not too comfortable in the confines thereof....For example, A Master may not be considered " too" possesive to sub A, however may seem "too" possesive to sub B. It's all in your own perception, but isnt most things? Perception, in my eyes, also defines if a person is a Master...or it could be that on the 1000th spanking balloons and streamers fall and they say "congrats you are a master"... I will post back when I get the 1000th spanking from my Dom to see if the Master Ceremony takes place..(BIG SMILE), truly a raw hide moment..

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RE: Can A Master Become to positive? - 11/21/2004 12:52:37 AM

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a "MASTER" is in control.. THEY can be whatever THEY wish to be...

If there is a problem then it would be one of communication between the two..
Not every sub/slave is a good fit for every "Master".

there are many shades of gray in this world.....

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