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What is the best way of finding a new mistress in London? - 8/9/2013 11:54:54 AM

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As per the title really, I what is the best way to find a mistress? One that does it because she enjoys it instead of for money.

I have had a submissive side to me for a long time but am now willing to explore it. I haven't done anything like this before. I feel that I'm excited by being under the total control of a beautiful mistress, being used for her pleasure, being punished when it can't be fulfilled. I want to be tied up, used and totally humiliated at her hands.To serve her. What ever that may be.

I am a firm believer in trying everything once, if you don't they how do you know you wont enjoy it! Thats kinda why I'm on here! Carpe Diem - Seize the day!

Hope to meet some wonderful people here

RE: What is the best way of finding a new mistress in L... - 8/9/2013 12:43:35 PM

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I'd say to get out to your local community. If it were Me, I'd love the opportunity to hit some of the clubs in London.

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RE: What is the best way of finding a new mistress in L... - 8/9/2013 12:47:55 PM

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Thanks for your quick answer, I unfortunately am completely new to this and don't have a clue where to start finding out about where to meet! I was hoping that I could find someone to show me round, take me under there wing so to speak or point me in the right direction.

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RE: What is the best way of finding a new mistress in L... - 8/9/2013 12:54:37 PM

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Hi there, have you seen Fet Life or have you searched for local communities? Most areas in the UK have meetings called munches, maybe try and see if you can find a local one. You'll find loads in Fet Life for sure ;-)

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RE: What is the best way of finding a new mistress in L... - 8/9/2013 12:56:35 PM

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Many thanks,

I'll have a look there.

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RE: What is the best way of finding a new mistress in L... - 8/9/2013 1:25:12 PM

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anyone here that would enjoy showing me the ropes

No pun intended

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RE: What is the best way of finding a new mistress in L... - 8/9/2013 4:48:26 PM

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quote:

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As per the title really, I what is the best way to find a mistress? One that does it because she enjoys it instead of for money.

I have had a submissive side to me for a long time but am now willing to explore it. I haven't done anything like this before. I feel that I'm excited by being under the total control of a beautiful mistress, being used for her pleasure, being punished when it can't be fulfilled. I want to be tied up, used and totally humiliated at her hands.To serve her. What ever that may be.

I am a firm believer in trying everything once, if you don't they how do you know you wont enjoy it! Thats kinda why I'm on here! Carpe Diem - Seize the day!

Hope to meet some wonderful people here

Well, you actually asked 2 questions.

1) What is the best way to...........................in London....

....and then....

2) What is the best way to......

I'm thinking....to get true clarity....you need to get a bit more definitive.

(It's just a gut feel....but I'm going with it).

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RE: What is the best way of finding a new mistress in L... - 8/9/2013 10:38:32 PM

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anyone here that would enjoy showing me the ropes

No pun intended

There are relatively few UK posters on the boards here, and off the top of my head I can't think of anyone in London. London is swarming with kinksters though. Get on Fetlife, it will show you your local groups and you can message some of the people who attend. Most munches have one or two friendly souls who are happy to introduce new folks.

I love the discussions on this site, but for finding groups and parties, Fetlife is much better.

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RE: What is the best way of finding a new mistress in L... - 8/9/2013 10:41:32 PM

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Just ask the Fire Dept in London. It seems they know where everyone is getting handcuffed,lol

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RE: What is the best way of finding a new mistress in L... - 8/10/2013 3:02:54 AM

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Just ask the Fire Dept in London. It seems they know where everyone is getting handcuffed,lol

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RE: What is the best way of finding a new mistress in L... - 8/10/2013 8:21:14 AM

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haha, good tip ^^

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RE: What is the best way of finding a new mistress in L... - 8/10/2013 9:30:03 AM

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Beautiful mistress ... used for her pleasure ... etc smacks of D/s-themed porn. You're not likely to find a lifestyle mistress to fulfil a fantasy for you, and even Prodommes aren't that keen to act out a porn-derived scenario.

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RE: What is the best way of finding a new mistress in L... - 8/10/2013 10:07:07 AM

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Beautiful mistress ... used for her pleasure ... etc smacks of D/s-themed porn. You're not likely to find a lifestyle mistress to fulfil a fantasy for you, and even Prodommes aren't that keen to act out a porn-derived scenario.

MissKitty, what do you mean? There are not gang loads of 'beautiful Mistresses' existing solely for my pleasure! Tell me it isn't so

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RE: What is the best way of finding a new mistress in L... - 8/10/2013 12:18:19 PM

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There is one, Gary, but it'll cost you a mahoooooosive Amazon giftcard.

I'll deduct the 1p card I sent you that got lost in cyberspace :D

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RE: What is the best way of finding a new mistress in L... - 8/10/2013 2:17:23 PM

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Yep definitely at least a couple of munches in London, and lots of events.

Not local to me but I've visited on occasion

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RE: What is the best way of finding a new mistress in L... - 8/10/2013 4:25:23 PM

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There i]s one, Gary, but it'll cost you a mahoooooosive Amazon giftcard.

I'll deduct the 1p card I sent you that got lost in cyberspace :D

Sounds great MissKitty, I'd love a trip to Spain :-D.

Ps, I'd forgotten how how you diddled me out of a penny, you've bought back the hurt & humiliation now :(.

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RE: What is the best way of finding a new mistress in L... - 8/12/2013 6:00:45 AM

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turn left at the junction of Charing Cross Road and into Long Acre, then right into Greek Steet and hay presto your are there! Eureka.

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