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For straight women out there - can you look at a bound ... - 8/10/2013 5:04:37 PM

AAkasha

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I never get bored looking at a man tied up or with duct tape over his mouth. It can be in the most vanilla situation, it still gets me worked up. In mainstream media, I don't care. Just on TMZ yesterday (and I am sure it is still there on probably page two) there was a story of Khloe Kardashian and her model bf whatever and the shoot had him blindfolded. Totally harmless pic and it got me so excited.

I watch escape artists and get turned on. Just to see men in straitjackets and shackles.

If men were willing and I could trust them completely, I would enjoy tying them up and watching them struggle to escape (clothed) and gagging them over and over again, even binding their wrists at a lunch in public (who cares what people think) but most men want sex. I don't care how simple it is. Just a blindfold or a gag turns me on, I could look at it forever.

Yes, this is tongue in cheek based on the other thread. But it is also 100% true!

And are there any men who really, truly, like being tied up and don't want ANYTHING else, fully clothed? Oh, come on. You know you want to at least jerk off, worship feet, expect to get some pussy, or be fucked in the ass. I once pondered setting up "exotic photo shoots" for male models with a bondage theme as an excuse to tie up hundreds of hot men (clothed and semi clothed, not nude) - they would be paid, but certainly earn it. By being bound of course! And I would have some eye candy. Honestly, I don't even need to cum. That happens later!

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RE: For straight women out there - can you look at a bo... - 8/10/2013 5:44:36 PM

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I love bondage, I won't lie. The true feeling of powerlessness and helplessness gets me into subspace for sure.

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RE: For straight women out there - can you look at a bo... - 8/10/2013 6:06:32 PM

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Even a man getting on his knees for some real need - to pick something up, or wind computer wires where they need to go - disturbs something in me. If I have no connection to them, it is mild and easy to brush aside, but to see a man I'm in a power dynamic with on his knees deeply disturbs me. It would be the opposite of subspace to me, to see a man bound. I am not terribly disturbed by seeing sub men bound and beaten and otherwise played, rather by a man or a woman, at a party, but it would distort something in the dynamic, for me, if it was my partner. I know it's illogical, just the way I feel. And one of the reasons I don't date switches.

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RE: For straight women out there - can you look at a bo... - 8/10/2013 6:07:07 PM

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Nope. Not a bondage person with the exception of it's a precursor to the main event. Don't get Me wrong. Bondage is beautiful. I appreciate the art. It's great for those who have the skill to create that art. Still, if that was the endgame, I'd just as soon do My nails. Intricate bondage can take just as long and it has just about as much appeal.

Can I tie? Yes. Is it fulfilling for Me? Not really.

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RE: For straight women out there - can you look at a bo... - 8/10/2013 7:43:59 PM

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I can understand that.

I guess I blame Batman (Adam West) for this one. 100%. Just waiting for the last two minutes of the episode.

Every. Freaking. Time.

Because he was always tied up.

In a chatroom the other day I also identified the first time I also felt kind of a mix of arousal (if you can call it that-more of just a high or rush or enjoyment) from seeing a man in pain and it was the Han Solo torture scene in The Empire Strikes Back. I was 12. So that was bondage + torture. It was not sexual or anything (the enjoyment I felt) and there was not even a woman involved (well a lot of the Batman stuff was the same way, sometimes men were the villains). But I also felt guilty from enjoying it.

That did not stop me from seeing the movie about 63 times.

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RE: For straight women out there - can you look at a bo... - 8/10/2013 10:57:40 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: AAkasha
And are there any men who really, truly, like being tied up and don't want ANYTHING else, fully clothed?

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RE: For straight women out there - can you look at a bo... - 8/11/2013 5:16:23 AM

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^ +1 :-)

I love the feeling of being helpless and vulnerable. You're in that position/tied to that thing because your mistress has put you there and the binds are a constant reminder of that fact. I can't explain it but the bit I like the most is hearing her doing stuff in other areas of the house. She knows you're there tied up which means I know she wants me to be there tied up.

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