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RE: The cock and your throat - 8/12/2013 4:41:17 AM   
MAINEiacMISTRESS


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Status: offline 		Just a casual observer as this thread grosses Me out (yuck)...but I often wonder how women can ever do this without BITING. DOWN. HARD. (and perhaps giving a sharp twist of the head whilst pulling backward).

1. It would cure him of WANTING his cock in your mouth
2. It would result in loud screams and clutching of the groin (always a good show)

But anyway, if giving bj's is really your thing, have at it.


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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

What is your principal mindset as your mouth is being plundered by a cock....be it worship, accommodation tolerance or what.



"What are the ways that I can provoke the most effective response so that I can turn this blow job all about what I want it to be?" (By either prolonging it and playing with him edging him repeatedly until he can't take it anymore, do such a poor job he gives up and fucks me, or get it over with as fast as possible during a commercial so I can go back to watching my show.)


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RE: The cock and your throat - 8/12/2013 7:45:02 AM   
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What is your principal mindset as your mouth is being plundered by a cock....be it worship, accommodation tolerance or what.



Rather than trying to learn from other people's second-hand accounts of their experiences, why not find out first-hand? I have a BBC that is available to plunder your mouth. Then you can tell me whether you were thinking of worship, accommodation, tolerance, or something else while you were sucking it.

See, aren't I a helpful fellow?

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RE: The cock and your throat - 8/12/2013 7:59:51 AM   
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No they're not. They CAN be but it doesn't have to be. I like oral sex on me. Master doesn't like to. So what? I've learned to live without it. Our relationship doesn't seem to suffer nor do I. It's just one type of sex.



I'd say it really depends on the two people involved in and whether or not they are a good match for each other. Someone may find the lack of oral sex acceptable and learn to live without it, someone else might not. The person who continually misses oral sex and can't seem to just live without it is entitled to find someone who matches them. It IS just another variety of intimacy and it might be really important to someone.

Just one more of those things that either makes two people connect well or not make it in the end.

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RE: The cock and your throat - 8/12/2013 10:14:13 AM   
CelticPrince


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I have to say that is a great state of mind.

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RE: The cock and your throat - 8/12/2013 10:17:59 AM   
CelticPrince


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I'm focused on giving him pleasure. Not on humming the National Anthem. I like to hear him groan which shows I'm giving him a great deal of pleasure. Or have him grab my hair to help me give him what he needs.

As far as receiving. He rarely does it. The few times he has have mainly been when I've been tied on a desk and he could sit in the chair. I think otherwise his back hurts. And I like it a lot if only he doesn't decide he wants to bite. One bite and I tense up.


Des,

teeth hurt the other way also!

CP

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RE: The cock and your throat - 8/12/2013 10:21:06 AM   
CelticPrince


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Ok, a big fan of oral sex performed on me. As for a relationship not needing oral sex, maybe for some, not for me. Sex is a two way street so any guy not liking to go down, is not for me at all. And sometimes a want is as important as a need.

As for what is going through my mind when a cock is in my mouth? Well, pretty much what lw said, I know I am going to get fucked in a few so I enjoy the fact that he is getting rock hard, the harder to fuck me with.

And it is not always the same; it is only super special when I am totally into a guy who loves to be rough about it.

No "nice" blow jobs here.


red,

Then one can assume he has never surprised you with the gift of his seed!

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RE: The cock and your throat - 8/12/2013 10:21:39 AM   
UllrsIshtar


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ORIGINAL: MAINEiacMISTRESS

Just a casual observer as this thread grosses Me out (yuck)...but I often wonder how women can ever do this without BITING. DOWN. HARD. (and perhaps giving a sharp twist of the head whilst pulling backward).

1. It would cure him of WANTING his cock in your mouth
2. It would result in loud screams and clutching of the groin (always a good show)

But anyway, if giving bj's is really your thing, have at it.



I wonder how people can French kiss without being grossed out.

A well washed cock with trimmed pubes is FAR more clean, FAR more hygienic, and FAR less germ infested than the average person's mouth. Yet most people don't have an issue swapping spit (or having a guy spit on their cunt for lube EEEEEEEEEEEEEWWWWWWWWWWWWW) while a lot of people do claim they don't go down because they think it's gross.

Personally I'd rather suck cock than French kiss, but that's just me.

As far as the biting goes, I have a bite large enough that I can fit my entire first up to the knuckles in my mouth (I could go deeper width wise but I run out of depth at that point) so gag reflex and/or biting isn't really an issue for me at all.

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RE: The cock and your throat - 8/12/2013 10:24:43 AM   
CelticPrince


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ORIGINAL: MAINEiacMISTRESS

Just a casual observer as this thread grosses Me out (yuck)...but I often wonder how women can ever do this without BITING. DOWN. HARD. (and perhaps giving a sharp twist of the head whilst pulling backward).

1. It would cure him of WANTING his cock in your mouth
2. It would result in loud screams and clutching of the groin (always a good show)

But anyway, if giving bj's is really your thing, have at it.

MM,

hmm seems sensible coming from a fem"D"

CP


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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar

quote:

ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

What is your principal mindset as your mouth is being plundered by a cock....be it worship, accommodation tolerance or what.



"What are the ways that I can provoke the most effective response so that I can turn this blow job all about what I want it to be?" (By either prolonging it and playing with him edging him repeatedly until he can't take it anymore, do such a poor job he gives up and fucks me, or get it over with as fast as possible during a commercial so I can go back to watching my show.)



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RE: The cock and your throat - 8/12/2013 10:25:51 AM   
UllrsIshtar


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Then one can assume he has never surprised you with the gift of his seed!



It's hardly a surprise when a guy's ejaculating considering that there are half a dozen telltale signs that it's about to happen. Only the most inexperienced of women could ever be surprised by it.

I wouldn't qualify it as a 'gift' either. It's a discharge of bodily fluids that's specifically provoked because the woman did her job well. It's also something the man can't control if you know what you're doing sucking cock, so whether cums or not is all in the woman's hands.

'Gifts' are not something you get because you worked for them, and not something that you can control getting bestowed up on you.

Considering that it's the woman who controls the discharge, and puts in the effort to provoke it 'pay' would be a much more appropriate way to view it than 'gift'.

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RE: The cock and your throat - 8/12/2013 10:45:13 AM   
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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar


quote:

ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

Then one can assume he has never surprised you with the gift of his seed!



It's hardly a surprise when a guy's ejaculating considering that there are half a dozen telltale signs that it's about to happen. Only the most inexperienced of women could ever be surprised by it.



Yeah, totally not a suprise...nor do I consider it a gift. I freaking worked to make it happen.


As to the original post - I'm usually think, 'God, I hope he doesn't make me gag or try to suffocate me with his cock.' While I enjoy breath play on occasion, it has more to do with hands on my throat or mouth and nose, not by blowjob.

Gagging is something I have to work at not doing with a "normal" blowjob and the kind where they like to make you gag? Ick. I had one person who enjoyed blowjobs to the point of making the person giving it vomit a bit.

Being the one with the cock rammed down her throat to that degree and having many moments of not being able to breathe kinda takes the pleasure out of it for me personally. I hate being dirty and vomitting is disgusting. Now I did enjoy it in the sense that he enjoyed himself but that was it. I don't want a repeat performance of that experience.

< Message edited by VanillaKinkTwist -- 8/12/2013 10:47:46 AM >

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RE: The cock and your throat - 8/12/2013 10:51:34 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009

quote:

ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

What is your principal mindset as your mouth is being plundered by a cock....be it worship, accommodation tolerance or what.



Rather than trying to learn from other people's second-hand accounts of their experiences, why not find out first-hand? I have a BBC that is available to plunder your mouth. Then you can tell me whether you were thinking of worship, accommodation, tolerance, or something else while you were sucking it.

See, aren't I a helpful fellow?




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RE: The cock and your throat - 8/12/2013 11:19:31 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009

quote:

ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

What is your principal mindset as your mouth is being plundered by a cock....be it worship, accommodation tolerance or what.



Rather than trying to learn from other people's second-hand accounts of their experiences, why not find out first-hand? I have a BBC that is available to plunder your mouth. Then you can tell me whether you were thinking of worship, accommodation, tolerance, or something else while you were sucking it.

See, aren't I a helpful fellow?



zzzzzzzzzzz /nope

CP

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RE: The cock and your throat - 8/12/2013 11:23:50 AM   
CelticPrince


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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar


quote:

ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

Then one can assume he has never surprised you with the gift of his seed!



It's hardly a surprise when a guy's ejaculating considering that there are half a dozen telltale signs that it's about to happen. Only the most inexperienced of women could ever be surprised by it.

I wouldn't qualify it as a 'gift' either. It's a discharge of bodily fluids that's specifically provoked because the woman did her job well. It's also something the man can't control if you know what you're doing sucking cock, so whether cums or not is all in the woman's hands.

'Gifts' are not something you get because you worked for them, and not something that you can control getting bestowed up on you.

Considering that it's the woman who controls the discharge, and puts in the effort to provoke it 'pay' would be a much more appropriate way to view it than 'gift'.


UlrsIstar,

pay or gift? the end is the same.

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RE: The cock and your throat - 8/12/2013 12:37:09 PM   
searching4mysir


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I'm rather surprised that so many were willing to give you fap fodder, OP

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RE: The cock and your throat - 8/12/2013 1:08:56 PM   
Rochsub2009


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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

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See, aren't I a helpful fellow?



zzzzzzzzzzz /nope

CP


That's only because you haven't tasted my yummy cock yet.

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RE: The cock and your throat - 8/12/2013 1:39:04 PM   
UllrsIshtar


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UlrsIstar,

pay or gift? the end is the same.

CP


No it's not.

When the guy thinks of it as a 'gift' bestowed on his woman, the end result is a self-entitled smug guy who feels that he's already done all he needs to do because of this lovely 'gift' he just bestowed on her (while she did all the work).
When the guy realized that cumming is noting more than an involuntary physical discharge resulting directly from all the loving time, effort, and attention his woman has just bestowed on him, the end result is a man who feel happy, loving and grateful for having a woman who has so graciously focussed on making him happy making him now want to focus on returning the gesture.

'Gift' versus 'pay' is the difference between 'self-entitled prick' and 'attentive lover'.

At least taking any kind of D/s play of the style of 'this is all about me, she's only here to serve and doesn't deserve to get off herself' out of the equation, which still doesn't make a guy's ejaculation a 'gift', it makes it something he's forcing her to take, regardless of whether she wants to or not.


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RE: The cock and your throat - 8/12/2013 3:13:23 PM   
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I'm rather surprised that so many were willing to give you fap fodder, OP


If that's the case it doesn't take much in the way of fodder for
some people to fap. I wasn't particularly offended by the question
which like all questions on this board people are free to ignore
and not answer. My answer was meant lightheartedly though I
was also being honest. I'm sorry it's an unhappy experience for
some. That must really suck.

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RE: The cock and your throat - 8/12/2013 6:13:08 PM   
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Considering that it's the woman who controls the discharge, and puts in the effort to provoke it


Oh how I wish that was true at times!!! <thinks about the times her jaws are sooo sore because he likes to tease and hold off and torment me. >

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RE: The cock and your throat - 8/12/2013 7:36:02 PM   
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Status: offline 		What goes in my mind when I go down on him ? If I'm doing a good job? Is he enjoying it since he is not a moaner like me lol.when he gets hard I get so turned on because I know he is enjoying it. I like it when he holds my head and direct me and he is in charge of how fast I should suck. And lastley where is he gonna cum this time? My mouth or. Is he gonna pull out and give me facial ( he likes surprising me lol)

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RE: The cock and your throat - 8/12/2013 7:43:18 PM   
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Considering that it's the woman who controls the discharge, and puts in the effort to provoke it


Oh how I wish that was true at times!!! <thinks about the times her jaws are sooo sore because he likes to tease and hold off and torment me. >

hahaha.. I am the one that torments.. I like to stretch it out.. building the guy up, then backing off so he doesn't get relief.. then build him up again, teasing the guy.. one guy literally could not move cuz his legs were jello!.. I think its funny.. my tongue and mouth is like a taser! and I have to agree that I am the one in charge.. yup!.. (evil laugh)

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