DesFIP
Posts: 25191
Joined: 11/25/2007 From: Apple County NY Status: offline
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Read a lot here, talk to her about the stuff that grabs your attention. Join fetlife and read a lot there. Books, well stick to nonfiction. Go to amazon, type in Erotic Bondage or Screw the Roses and you'll get that whole line of "other books bought by people who bought this one. Are you trying to understand what her needs are? Do you share any of them? As far as what you most need to know? Yourself. What do you want? What calls to you, what doesn't. Beyond that, tell her not to criticize constantly because it's going to take you six months to a year to catch up. Start slow, laugh a lot, don't take it so seriously. Practice topping skills on yourself, bondage on chairs, s & m on pillows until you're sure you won't do any harm.
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Slave to laundry Cynical and proud of it!
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