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RE: How bout a big dildo in his mouth? Why not? - 3/25/2014 11:49:57 AM   
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Status: offline 		Actually, I think if I had a dildo that'd shoot a fake load like Diane's, it would be fun to do.

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RE: How bout a big dildo in his mouth? Why not? - 3/27/2014 7:43:23 AM   
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Subs, where does sucking on a dildo fall on the spectrum for you, and how do you see the dominant's enjoyment or disassociation of it?


I really like it, but it has nothing to do with humiliation for me. It's about acknowledgment.

Plus, I enjoy the fluidity of gender roles, especially the idea that naturally dominant women often have personality traits that are considered 'masculine': confidence, leadership, strength, decisiveness, etc. Rather than feel conflicted about it or try to hide who they are because society shames them, they embrace it - and a 'cock' can sort of be a proud, physical expression of that. It's the same way I love using the word "bitch" as a high compliment. It removes the absurd stigma around strong female personalities and turns it into something incredibly sexy.

Putting the two together, it's like she's saying: "if being self-actualized and dominant means I'm 'masculine' and a bitch, so be it. Here's my cock. But I'm not going to change. You can either suck on it and thank me for being awesome, or you can fuck off." I think a lot of guys would recoil at the idea, but submissive men (or ones like me, anyway) would jump at the chance to say thank you. And she can let all the other girls run circles around themselves, feeling bad about being called "bitches" while she sits back and gets her cock sucked, whilst being 100% woman.






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RE: How bout a big dildo in his mouth? Why not? - 3/27/2014 8:04:13 AM   
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Status: offline 		I enjoy it for multiple reasons, hopefully I'll be able to explain properly, I have NyQuil brain at the moment.

Firstly, I just really like the visual of it. Whether it's my strap-on penetrating a mouth, a pussy or an ass I just think it looks seriously hot. And when it's their mouth there's an extra added bonus of eye contact and the bottom being able to tease and visually stimulate with their eyes and expressions. Another big reason is I seem to have this odd kink for instilling empathy in people. It's not even a little bit about the humiliation (in fact I hate the whole concept of ongoing humiliation, I'd rather try to bring my partner to a place where they're no longer embarrassed by what they enjoy). However I do think that a lot of people (not just men) would benefit by seeing what things can be like on the other side. In fact my whole journey into kink started when I told an ex of mine "you first" when he brought up anal sex. Never thought he'd agree to it, but later that week we went harness shopping. I believe it's a great way to break down the wall we've got up between the sexes.

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RE: How bout a big dildo in his mouth? Why not? - 3/27/2014 9:50:24 AM   
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You can either suck on it and thank me for being awesome, or you can fuck off.
Funny thing about that, I can do the same thing by telling a man to lick my ass.

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RE: How bout a big dildo in his mouth? Why not? - 3/27/2014 3:19:59 PM   
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You can either suck on it and thank me for being awesome, or you can fuck off.
Funny thing about that, I can do the same thing by telling a man to lick my ass.



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