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new to bdsm - 8/15/2013 5:20:52 AM

hankyspanky1

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hi all i ve just joined looking to learn all about bdsm etc i am from london se area any advice guidence would be appreciated:)

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RE: new to bdsm - 8/15/2013 5:22:38 AM

hankyspanky1

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p.s how do i change my avatar pic lol i didnt relise it showed on here

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RE: new to bdsm - 8/15/2013 5:33:03 AM

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Click on My Profile on the top right. Scroll down to My avatar. After you have uploaded the new one, make sure you scroll to the bottom and click Apply then Ok.

Welcome!

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RE: new to bdsm - 8/15/2013 5:39:26 AM

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RE: new to bdsm - 8/15/2013 8:29:19 AM

Rasciallymisty

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Hello and welcome and what Chi said.

You have come to the right side to learn there is a good group of knowledgeable peeps here. Good luck in getting your pic changed.

Here are a few suggestions I give newbies....

1- Your profile is lacking big time. Make your profile one that the Domme's will want to read. Tell them more on what your likes are in the vanilla world your enjoyments other than sex. But do not make an all about me profile or all about your D/s likes and dislikes. Maybe read a few other subs profiles and see how they have wrote theirs and maybe take some ideas to use in yours.

2- Head down to the Mistress, Master and sub/slave thread's and maybe join in some of the discussions. The only ones I might say beware of is Politics and Religion unless you like getting into some debates.

3- Use the search on this side ( little button up there on top ^^^^ on the right hand side) if you have some questions as they may have already been asked...or ask away. Please just watch the dates on the threads and do not respond to anything that is more than three months old....as the Mod's are not found of us doing so. You can always start a new one with your question.

4- I would also suggest a different pic for your main one. I would say do not post nude pics.....women tend to dislike them. They like action pics of you doing things like maybe boating, skiing, things along those lines. Things you are into not related to D/s.

5- Check out ResidentSadist book list, its a great list and can help you get info on WIITWD or go to general BDSM thread and there is a good book list there as well.

Its nice to have you join us here on the forums and hopefully you will stick around and join in on some of the discussions. Do beware some peeps are super kewl on this side and some not so kewl. Have a thick skin and you will do fine. Hope you enjoy your time here.

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RE: new to bdsm - 8/15/2013 8:34:12 AM

hankyspanky1

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right pic changed phew!

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RE: new to bdsm - 8/15/2013 9:55:41 AM

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