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Who needs this? - 9/4/2013 9:25:35 AM   
Pressie


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Joined: 9/3/2013
Status: offline 		Hey I just signed up last night, so I am brand new to the site.
Just thought I would say hello!

How come some people don't post picture on their profile? Isn't it fair that I know what you look like?
Just wondering.
-Pressie
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RE: Who needs this? - 9/4/2013 9:29:22 AM   
MasterCaneman


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Status: offline 		Hello and welcome. There are some folks who prefer to keep their identity hidden due to work or other issues. As you can see, not everyone has those. Enjoy the forums.

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RE: Who needs this? - 9/4/2013 9:32:38 AM   
DesFIP


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From: Apple County NY
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And there's no unfairness about not posting pics. You chose to, you weren't required to. If you choose not to talk to people who don't post them, that's your choice.

We're big on choice around here.

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RE: Who needs this? - 9/4/2013 10:06:07 AM   
OsideGirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Pressie
How come some people don't post picture on their profile? Isn't it fair that I know what you look like?
Just wondering.
-Pressie


Some people could get fired for having a profile here. Some live in conservative communities. Some are in relationships. And some just aren't comfortable giving a stranger on a kink site a photo that identifies them.

If you choose not to talk to anyone without a photo, that's your choice. But, you don't get to determine whether someone should have a photo posted.


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RE: Who needs this? - 9/4/2013 10:32:20 AM   
TieMeInKnottss


Posts: 1944
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Status: offline 		Well...even vanilla dating sites don't require photos. Do what I do. Put in your profile that you are fine with talking to anyone but will not consider anything more than platonic correspondence or interaction unless a photo is provided....

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RE: Who needs this? - 9/4/2013 4:34:16 PM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		And some folks are afraid of their SO finding them here.

Welcome to the site!

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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: Who needs this? - 9/4/2013 5:35:53 PM   
NuevaVida


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

And some folks are afraid of their SO finding them here.


Or their kids.

But there's no unfairness. Most discussion boards do not require photos. If you start talking to someone privately, you can always ask for a pic. Welcome!


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RE: Who needs this? - 9/4/2013 6:38:48 PM   
sunshinemiss


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Status: offline 		Some people liv where they could b arrested or worse for ths.

Welcome to C M

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RE: Who needs this? - 9/5/2013 5:11:31 AM   
Rasciallymisty


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RE: Who needs this? - 9/5/2013 8:35:33 AM   
OohAahMrs


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Status: offline 		Hey, where I come from a pressie, is a gift, are you the gift?

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RE: Who needs this? - 9/7/2013 6:47:20 AM   
garyFLR


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As everyone above has said, not everybody is in a position to post a photo due to work, family, community issues.

I hope you have fun here, why not join us on the forums?

Best wishes, Gary.

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