BecomingV
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Fantasies are just that... sexual musings. Unless, or until, you want to act on them, then they really only matter, to you. If you enjoy them then there is no problem. If they cause you identity confusion, then you can try thinking of your Dominant fantasies as a part of you. You get to have fun in your head as a Dominant AND have fun in real life, as a bottom, or as a submissive, or perhaps, as a masochist. We aren't machines. We are complex people and for me, "Do as you will but harm none" is the only limit worth heeding. I deal with variety and complexity, too. (take a look at my long, detailed profile - LOL) Being self-aware and then, being self-accepting, is not only a peaceful way to be, it's also attractive to others. THAT matters more than being easy to know or easy to understand. The right one(s), will do both anyway, IMO.
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