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Where are sub? - 9/19/2013 9:45:05 AM

SirJamesBBC

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Where in Huntsville, al can I find a sub or a sub couple? this is hard and it's been six months and no luck. can anyone point me In the right area?

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RE: Where are sub? - 9/19/2013 9:52:28 AM

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Perhaps part of the problem is your profile and username. You state what you are looking for but give absolutely nothing about what you bring to the table, particularly as a person. Your username is kink-centric and all about your dick. Cupcake, no one cares about your dick but you until you give us a reason to care about your dick by giving us a reason to care about you.

This place isn't Subs R'Us. What kind of effort have you been putting into your search? Have you been seeking out munches and events in your local area? Or did you just put up your profile and expect the subs to come flocking to you? What are your initial intro emails like?

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RE: Where are sub? - 9/19/2013 10:09:51 AM

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Your profile is lacking.

Your screen name is all about your dick and ethnicity.

Men outnumber women here, so if you want to get attention, you'll need to raise the bar.

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RE: Where are sub? - 9/19/2013 10:37:45 AM

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I looked over your profile. It says absolutely nothing about being a Dominant. Basically it says "Hello women. I am a big guy, have a big dick, and want to get laid." So what's new about a guy who wants sex?

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RE: Where are sub? - 9/19/2013 10:56:43 AM

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Your nick will be off putting to some.
Your profile will be off putting to even more.

Both SCREAM I'm looking for sex.
Don't get me wrong, nothing wrong with having a BBC but IF that is all you have to offer that isn't much.

I would suggest changing your profile (unless sex is what you are looking for).

I would also say, patience is a wonderful quality.
Six months may seem like a long time but it's really not.

Other than having a profile what are you actively doing to meet a woman with a submissive personality?

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RE: Where are sub? - 9/19/2013 11:02:53 AM

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You mean having a big black cock isn't enough? Next your going to tell me he might want to develop a personality and learn about what being a dominant is all about.

For the OP:

Dude, you joined a day ago. Patience is a virtue. Oh and welcome to the discussion side of CM where some of us at least *try* to think with our big brains.

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RE: Where are sub? - 9/19/2013 11:05:10 AM

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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

Oh and welcome to the discussion side of CM where some of us at least *try* to think with our big brains.

For some sadly their cocks are their big brains. Lol

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RE: Where are sub? - 9/19/2013 12:04:22 PM

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Why do I hear Cleavon Little in Blazing Saddles when I read the OP? "Where the sub women at?"

Sir James with the BBC... no one cares if you are hung like an elephant or hung like a hamster, what does matter is who you are, not what equipment you were born with. If all you are about is your penis then you are not going to impress anyone, unless of course they do not care about your personality, your experience, your philosophy about the BDSM dynamic, or whether you can string together more than one cohesive sentence. In which case, you are not going to have a serious BDSM relationship because a good deal of the subs here want a personality from their dominant. Anyone can brag about their dick, but the more you brag about it the more people think you are what you are bragging about.

Best advice I can give you? Delete your profile. Pick a better screen name that says nothing about your genitalia. When writing your new profile talk about yourself, what your personality is, your philosophy, any hobbies you may have, your likes and dislikes... you know, any information that might attract some interest to you, other than "LOL... I HAZ BIG DICK AND I AM DOMINANT." To my limited knowledge, that has rarely if ever worked.

Good luck on your search.

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RE: Where are sub? - 9/19/2013 3:00:19 PM

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If i was still looking your screen name would be very off putting to me. Why should i care what color size you cock is. I don't know you and with that screen name i would not get to know you. I like to know all abour am a mans bran and personallity not the sixw of his package. if you have no sense of humor and no intellengce even if you are the best hug guy in the universe it aint gonna matter. I don'r know maybe you will meet a size quen with BBB (big black breasts) OR BWC( big white breasts) i think you two would get along great together.

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RE: Where are sub? - 9/19/2013 7:39:36 PM

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It's a buyer's market for women here and women tend to want more than just sex. Sex is offered continuously, it's nothing special and she's already got her pick of partners. Offer something a woman would find meaningful that she can't get from the other guys messaging her and you'd probably find a sub.

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RE: Where are sub? - 9/20/2013 1:30:03 PM

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