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ORIGINAL: tsatske

It's the power imbalance that I enjoy. That, and some types of clothes are sexy as hell on men, and not just leather, either. I like uniforms, suits, even jeans. And BOOTS! So I like the clothed male top type of scene a lot.

You hit the nail on the head. I actually thought there was an unwritten rule during Public Play only bottoms were permitted to get naked and have orgasms. Tops had to behave with more decorum, supposedly. With my being the new kid on the block, there was no way I was getting naked and somehow get mistaken for an uncollared sub.

I have observed to my relief, whether in the common Dungeon area or elsewhere, so far Doms and other male Tops or groups of Tops & bottoms have acted respectfully around our FemDom group, and all the Dominants knew better than to mess with somebody else's sub/slave or even look at them the wrong way. Luckily no bad apple to spoil the whole bunch.

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

I have never fully understood why clothed Tops often give their slave's orgasms but do not have an orgasm themselves while in public. I have often felt that some tops think nudity and orgasms are viewed as being vulnerable.

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

I'm certainly not going to sit here and try to pass off the BS that I've never had an orgasm in public. I'm fully capable of being able to do that with the leather on.

LP, I must be too self conscious, even in the relative privacy of a vehicle. As for the unlockable private scene rooms, we kept getting walked in on, as if unoccupied. Is there some unspoken rule that you're to keep the door left open? For the sake of the voyeurs, I mean?