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submissive for gain? - 11/17/2004 11:38:38 AM

subbreaker

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I just received an email from a "sub" who says she will submit to me IF I send her a few hundred for "airfare" I think this is a scam BUT when I turned her down she accused me of being cheap and said she submits to lots of men who pay for her airfare. Was wondering what you think about this.

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RE: submissive for gain? - 11/17/2004 1:32:51 PM

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Well I can relate, and have heard from subs along the way that it was them who put all the effort into meeting, $ for airfares, car drives, etc. all at their expense. For them it never worked out, cus the Dom was too lazy to recipricate. I suspect a similar fate awaits you.

Iv helped out subs along the way, sometimes it was critical sometimes just for one of their whims, but it makes u wonder whether ur a big mark and that is all.

I even talked to a sub and was about to meet, when she told me I had to go thru her "master", well he wanted $300 for 2 hrs, so I soon figured out who was the pimp and who was the dom.

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RE: submissive for gain? - 11/17/2004 2:07:43 PM

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I have a college buddy that for a week on a bet, he posed as a woman online, he was able to get over $1,500.00 from men for airline tickets, etc, with the hope of meeting her!

There is an old saying, if the deal looks too good to be true, it probably is!

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RE: submissive for gain? - 11/17/2004 3:13:40 PM

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Honestly, from a submissive's point of view, I would never ask for money or airline tickets, I am looking for a Dom/Master, but never for a sugar daddy or a trick for the evening for that matter, I think that needs to be perfectly clear upfront what type of foundation you want to build. Accepting any gift is an intimate act that should be taken graciously, not asked for greedily. I see red flags....

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RE: submissive for gain? - 11/17/2004 5:10:55 PM

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ORIGINAL: subbreaker

I just received an email from a "sub" who says she will submit to me IF I send her a few hundred for "airfare" I think this is a scam BUT when I turned her down she accused me of being cheap and said she submits to lots of men who pay for her airfare. Was wondering what you think about this.

Was this her opening email to you? If it was, my scam alarm would be screaming. If it was someone you'd been having an ongoing online and phone conversations with, I might feel a bit differently.

The second thing I wonder from that is.. how many men have bought her with plane fare? I think you're right to cut and run on this one.

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RE: submissive for gain? - 11/17/2004 11:27:08 PM

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I just received an email from a "sub" who says she will submit to me IF I send her a few hundred for "airfare" I think this is a scam

You THINK this a scam?

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RE: submissive for gain? - 11/18/2004 5:47:59 AM

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I think once she gets airfare money from a few suckers, she'll use it to fly to Hawaii or someplace else for a nice vacation.

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RE: submissive for gain? - 11/19/2004 8:41:20 PM

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No different from the money doms. If you're that gullable perhaps you deserve what you get?
Learning lessons isn't always easy. Life is rough and all of that good stuff.

I guess if you can get away with it. It doesn't rip you apart morally from the inside. Go for it.

Isn't something I would do but hey I never claimed to be everyone.

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RE: submissive for gain? - 11/20/2004 7:08:22 PM

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Interesting. We have the opposite problem, subs (men especially) who offer us the world, buy gifts etc etc. And while this may engage Our attention it doesn't make up for any other shortcomings they may have and does nothing at all to assist them in the competition to be a part of Our life and Our household. We would be appaled at the request of a sub (male or female) for any financial consideration, it is Our position that they are seeking to serve Us in a manner that We make abundantly clear and such a request would be, beyond a doubt, inappropriate, insulting and ultimately ineffective.
-L.

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RE: submissive for gain? - 11/21/2004 12:41:22 AM

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SCAMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM

a true sub/slave would be required to pay their own way to see YOU..

ok so i am a lil "jaded" split it 50/50 then.. only fair

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