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Strapons that stay in place for BBWs - 10/5/2013 3:55:28 AM

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Hi, I am a size 16 and want to buy a harness for a small strap-on. I have zero experience with strap-ons and would like recommendations for a harness that stays in place while the slave is receiving a heavy pounding. Also I want to start him off on a small dick but want something very realistic with balls and the like.

RE: Strapons that stay in place for BBWs - 10/5/2013 4:24:34 AM

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The big question here is where you are going to purchase the harness. Most like to buy this sort of thing online, but the issue with any harness is FIT. It's like a corset, sure you can buy one online, but the chances of it fitting correctly are nil.

You have to either be willing to go in person (and most reputable shops will be more than willing to help) or buy online and go through a lot of returns and back and forth before you find the right fit.

Then there is the issue of dildos, obviously you want one with an exchangeable dildo, and those are common. There are not always interchangeable with all harnesses, so another thing to ask about when you shop for the harness. Some harnesses with accept most dildos, and some won't.

Whatever you do, don't make the mistake of buying a cheap harness, b/c no matter how well the fit it will come undone at the worst possible moment.

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RE: Strapons that stay in place for BBWs - 10/11/2013 11:01:20 PM

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This harness may work for you. It is adjustable up to a 40'' waist and uses a belt buckle type tightening system. So no slipping like with other cheaper models.
Check it out here http://goo.gl/A06bpK
But I do agree with the prior poster. If you feel uncomfortable buying something online, (I know it may be an uneasy feeling) visit a fetish boutique to get fitted. :D

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RE: Strapons that stay in place for BBWs - 11/24/2013 1:03:44 PM

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My wife is a BBW and we found success in purchasing one from Northbound Leather.

www.northbound.com

They can custom make a heavy duty one if you supply measurements and yes I can confirm that their leather harnesses are heavy duty.

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RE: Strapons that stay in place for BBWs - 11/24/2013 8:10:01 PM

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my Wife is a BBW and we had the same problem... how they fit. You can do a search for either realdoe of feeldoe they are insertable and strapless and they also provide stimulation for the woman as well as her partner.

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RE: Strapons that stay in place for BBWs - 12/15/2013 9:16:39 PM

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Like others were saying here, finding a strap-on is easy, finding one that fits you and that you enjoy is going to be the most challenging aspect of them all. Many years ago when faced with this challenge I was asked to figure out how to overcome the issues and simply just make a strap-on, so I personally turned to leather to make strap-on over the next several years. I loved working with the leather, but it took leather tools, they were not cheap to make and took a lot of skill to make ones that were worthy of my time and the person's money spent on the supplies.

Later a person would ask me "Can you make mine out of nylon backpack webbing?"... I hadn't ever thought about it before, and so I went to a fabric craft store and found some nylon webbing, but the person with me wasn't finding anything beyond the basic black color. They suggested we try another store I commonly go to which is a Hardware store that sells Upholstery items and so much more, and thus we went over there to look for nylon webbing. They had it all, different colors, different types of buckles, and literally everything I could ever think of needing to make a strap-on. Now I am not scare to hand sew or sew on a machine, so at the time I didn't think of ever using this fabric glue they also sell, and it wasn't until later I have it a try and was very happy with it as well. What surprised me was that I can go out buy the supplies I need to make a strap-on (minus the phallus for it) for under $10-$15 and put it together in a single night with a pair of scissors, a Bic lighter to melt the ends of the cut nylon webbing closed, and a measuring tape. With some simply basic stitching with a needle *extra added security for me) and using fabric glue I can whip out a strap-on in a couple 2-3 hours.

As far as the quality goes you can wash it, use it in the shower if you want to, and it remains comfortable and its seriously well built. I have since played around with changing designs, and playing with all kinds of idea's for making strap-on's for various people over the years since I switched to nylon webbing. Its super cheap to work with, super easy to work with, anyone can make it and you don't even need to sew it if you use fabric glue, I just choose to as an added security, the last thing I ever want is it coming apart during that intense moment in play when your partner is almost there and then "Strap-On Failure"! I've made them for BBW's, SSBBW's and even the tiniest of women and nobody ever complained about the price or how comfortable it is. So you may consider making your own, it is quite rewarding to be honest, and then it really opens up the doors to make other things too from butt-plug harnesses on to so much more...

Its just my opinion, I enjoy building custom equipment and making it stronger and better than what you can typically buy, so people are impressed with what I have and want to know "where did you buy that?" and I get to proudly say that I made it myself.

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RE: Strapons that stay in place for BBWs - 1/12/2014 12:46:29 PM

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Well, until you get your custom fit, I like Midori's DIY method with two scarves:

Directions:
http://fd-midori.livejournal.com/368756.html

Pic: http://girlslikethis.tumblr.com/post/2715161172/more-scarf-harness-inspired-by-midori

Tell him to fetch the lube, you'll be there in 10 minutes...although if it were me I'd have him do it.

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RE: Strapons that stay in place for BBWs - 4/19/2014 1:21:11 AM

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You know another option for you would be a strapless strap on. I know you can get those at this site called mitoybox.com

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RE: Strapons that stay in place for BBWs - 4/19/2014 12:41:48 PM

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I have a plus-size Divina Diva harness. it fits up to a 60" waist, is fully washable and has four adjustment points to make it fit perfectly. It also has a snap front for changing out various sizes of O-rings. That makes it able to accommodate various sizes of dildo attachments. It's the most comfortable harness I've ever owned & I've owned a few over the years. I've been losing weight and I love the multiple adjustment points, as it allows for perfect fit all through my weight changes.

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RE: Strapons that stay in place for BBWs - 4/30/2014 8:18:47 AM

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I feel like a 16 still wouldn't be too big for a strap-on to fit, but I guess it could be depending how you're proportioned. Honestly, I'd recommend a "strapless strap-on" (you can find them on amazon, they are super nifty). Feels good for both partners that way, and everything stays in place.

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RE: Strapons that stay in place for BBWs - 4/30/2014 8:47:44 PM

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my Wife is a BBW and we had the same problem... how they fit. You can do a search for either realdoe of feeldoe they are insertable and strapless and they also provide stimulation for the woman as well as her partner.

what is the bbw means

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RE: Strapons that stay in place for BBWs - 4/30/2014 11:05:28 PM

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RE: Strapons that stay in place for BBWs - 5/1/2014 2:00:23 AM

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thanks

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RE: Strapons that stay in place for BBWs - 5/2/2014 7:56:02 AM

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I have a plus-size Divina Diva harness. it fits up to a 60" waist, is fully washable and has four adjustment points to make it fit perfectly. It also has a snap front for changing out various sizes of O-rings. That makes it able to accommodate various sizes of dildo attachments. It's the most comfortable harness I've ever owned & I've owned a few over the years. I've been losing weight and I love the multiple adjustment points, as it allows for perfect fit all through my weight changes.

NBMG

Can I just say that I adore that you can buy a strap on harness on amazon now....lol....it's the little things in life.

As someone who has had multiple harnesses over the years as well and now has something similar to this (I'm a size 8 so different brand but generally the same thing), you definitely want something adjustable with a snap-in O-ring. If you can change the O-ring out, you can really be versatile in what dildos you use in the harness.

Other point - fit-wise, something that sits on your pelvic bone tightly gives you a lot of thrusting power.

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RE: Strapons that stay in place for BBWs - 5/14/2014 3:44:25 PM

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Can I just say that I adore that you can buy a strap on harness on amazon now....lol....it's the little things in life.

and now... Groupon sells vibrators :)

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RE: Strapons that stay in place for BBWs - 5/15/2014 3:04:16 PM

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I have a plus-size Divina Diva harness. it fits up to a 60" waist, is fully washable and has four adjustment points to make it fit perfectly. It also has a snap front for changing out various sizes of O-rings. That makes it able to accommodate various sizes of dildo attachments. It's the most comfortable harness I've ever owned & I've owned a few over the years. I've been losing weight and I love the multiple adjustment points, as it allows for perfect fit all through my weight changes.

NBMG

Can I just say that I adore that you can buy a strap on harness on amazon now....lol....it's the little things in life.

As someone who has had multiple harnesses over the years as well and now has something similar to this (I'm a size 8 so different brand but generally the same thing), you definitely want something adjustable with a snap-in O-ring. If you can change the O-ring out, you can really be versatile in what dildos you use in the harness.

Other point - fit-wise, something that sits on your pelvic bone tightly gives you a lot of thrusting power.

Good advice. If you want to use lots of different sized dildos, you need to be able to change the O-ring.

I would also be very careful about buying a harness that has buckles that sit on your hip bones. My harness was custom made by a wonderful German woman called Kadet, who runs a leather seamstress shop just off Tower Bridge in London [email protected]. A lesbian through and through, she knows exactly whats needed. Soft straps, made to measure, removable O-rings and buckles that sit round the side rather than towards the front.

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RE: Strapons that stay in place for BBWs - 8/26/2014 9:32:02 AM

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Have you ever considered a "FeelDoe"?

Google it and you'll see what I'm talking about! :)

Best of luck,
amy

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RE: Strapons that stay in place for BBWs - 10/21/2014 3:35:06 PM

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Be careful with the Feeldoe, I know at least 3 BBWs and 1 non-BBW ladies who have used it and all of them hated it for one reason or another!!!! That one is a gamble and from what I understand, is not necessarily the best choice for a hard pounding. Additionally, it is one size only so to move up or down in size requires the purchase of an entirely new unit (no pun intended). The sizes are not all that varied either.

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RE: Strapons that stay in place for BBWs - 10/22/2014 4:57:33 PM

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A cheaper, though more labor-intensive option would be to make one.
Here's a tutorial on making one out of a pair of panties: http://www.ohjoysextoy.com/diystrapon/

100% customizable and you can guarantee it's in your size and won't go anywhere. The downside is that it won't be adjustable.

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RE: Strapons that stay in place for BBWs - 10/23/2014 7:33:54 PM

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