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xRomanticDOMx -> Any subs in michigan? (10/5/2013 11:03:28 PM)
It seems hard to talk to anyone on this site. Either they're fake and just spam you an e-mail just never message. If someone want to talk and make a friend feel free to message me.

myotherself -> RE: Any subs in michigan? (10/6/2013 12:41:21 AM)
This is not a place to make personal ads. That's what the other side (collarME rather than collarCHAT is all about). Having said that, for the first month or so you will be on the 'new users' list and a target for all sorts of scammers. Once that dies down, then you should start to get real people. It will take time. You will have to kiss a lot of froggettes before the princesses start to appear [:D] Just a gentle hint...using the word 'retarded' in your profile to describe people you do not want to deal with reflects quite badly on you. It's quite an emotive word and one that tends to hit a raw nerve, particularly with those of us who have friends, family or others with learning disabilities.

DarkSteven -> RE: Any subs in michigan? (10/6/2013 4:42:28 AM)
Fella, I'm going to have to break the news to you. There aren't thousands of eager submissives thinking, "If only a Dom would make a profile, so I could take the initiative and contact him online". Your profile says "I am a Dom." That's pretty much it. And the bunny noted you saying "I'm better than the fakes out there." Tell more. Tell about your vanilla side, your vanilla activities. For the 90% of relationship time when she's not tied up and being thwacked. Also, you live in Michigan. Lots of kinky groups, munches, and play parties there. I find it much easier to meet femsubs there than online. Go forth and have fun.

DesFIP -> RE: Any subs in michigan? (10/6/2013 7:56:17 AM)
Offensive profile that puts down anyone who doesn't get your attention. Doesn't give us any idea about you. Talks in vague ideas that scream "I don't know what I'm doing but it's hot in porn". Really, if you wanted to make sure any sub that reads this would run as fast as possible, you've succeeded. If not, you need to make changes. You're selling a product, yourself, but you haven't bothered to look at why your target consumer would pick you over the tens of thousands of similar products. That says you're either clueless or lazy or both. Not good traits to display when you claim to want to have authority over someone else's life. Would you talk highly about a boss like that? Neither will a sub.

searching4mysir -> RE: Any subs in michigan? (10/6/2013 9:13:50 AM)
quote: Offensive profile that puts down anyone who doesn't get your attention. Doesn't give us any idea about you. Sure it does. It tells us boatloads about him, but none of it good.

peppermint -> RE: Any subs in michigan? (10/6/2013 10:41:29 AM)
Yes, there are lots of subs in Michigan. In fact, there were 50 who signed into Collarme in the past 10 hours. What I can't guarantee is whether they might be interested in you. You have to sell yourself.

OsideGirl -> RE: Any subs in michigan? (10/6/2013 11:07:05 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: xRomanticDOMx Either they're fake and just spam you an e-mail just never message. That's what happens when you message the impossibly hot, 18 year olds that say they'll be with any guy. They're fake. They're fake because guys like you look at the picture and nothing else...and it works. As for your profile, I'm with everyone else. Putting other people down to make yourself look better, will just turn a lot of women off. As will the "I've mentored quite few women" comment, especially since I'd be willing to bet that my definition of mentoring differs from yours. Men outnumber women on this site, so you need to bring your A game.

MasterCaneman -> RE: Any subs in michigan? (10/6/2013 12:35:17 PM)
Well, after looking at your profile, I don't think it's that bad. Lose the line "...and am not a retarded fake like the tons out there..", and it would be better. And since you've been, in your own words, in the scene for awhile, you should know this isn't a quick fix. I think it's got a good balance of kink, desire, and vanilla. I don't know if it's been modified since you're original post, but it looks good to me, anyway. Be patient, ride out the first month of the scammers and fakes, and best of luck to you.

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