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RE: Race Play - 11/19/2013 10:43:12 PM

Rochsub2009

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ORIGINAL: PlantationMissy

Hello! I actually joined just to find more people into raceplay. I'm part of another fetish community site & have found some amazing people there so I'm hoping to here as well. Raceplay is my only thing & I like to fancy myself as an old school plantation owner but don't limit myself to it.

I saw the following quote in your profile:

"If you're a black male who craves to be called Negro, Ni%%#R, coon, jigaboo or a dirty filthy monkey beast that you are and want to be treated as such then we should talk."

Once I read that, I knew that you were the perfect Domme for me.

BTW, I'm just being a bit humorous because those who know me know that I don't do plantation slavery play. But if it's your thing, and your partners consent to it, then more power to you.

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RE: raceplay - 11/19/2013 11:52:35 PM

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lol

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Four-word answer: F*CK THE HELL NO

Or to put it another way: HELL THE F*CK NO

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Does anyone find raceplay fascinating like I do? Curious

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RE: raceplay - 11/22/2013 8:24:43 AM

MasterRazz

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ORIGINAL: TigressLily

In an effort to be shed some light on Race Play, I searched for a recent thread where a black femsub stated that she wanted "real racists" to humiliate her, call her the n-word and so forth. (Can't locate it, search didn't bring up results.) Accordingly, as much as I wanted to warn her for making such a foolish announcement, I refrained so as not to appear to be criticizing someone else's kink. You are a Top, and unless you are in a trusted relationship with the bottom with whom you are engaging in this sort of play (and even then, you never know), ^Delilya's experience does raise the following points for careful consideration:

-- You set off some psychological trigger, perhaps even inadvertently
-- Bottom starts freaking out
-- Things go South
-- You get accused of a hate crime, or
-- Bottom claims she acted in self-defense
-- Something even worse happens
-- Who do you think the jury will believe?
-- Is it worth it to go to prison and ruin your life over this?

To be fair most of those could be claimed of many humiliation scenes. Ultimately that's what race play boils down to - it's an extreme form of humiliation. Obviously it comes with a shed load of emotional charge, societal pressure and more than a dash of politics attached, yet the aim is the same.

I've used it in play (can I stress the word PLAY) and it's been enjoyable in the reaction it brought out in the intended targets. There were a couple of points where I was getting a tad uncomfortable, so I lessened the pace a little to return to my comfort zone, otherwise a good time was had by all. I'd never consider using any of what happened in my "real" life any more than I'd take a strap to a random stranger - it was just a means to an end.

Provided the usual caveats around safe, sane, consensual, discuss limits in advance and appropriate aftercare are followed no reason why it couldn't be enjoyed by a consenting couple.

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RE: Race Play - 11/22/2013 3:14:55 PM

LookieNoNookie

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Everyone's got their own thing.

If it floats your boat and no one's eyes get poked out in the end and everyone's smiling when it's over....who gives a shit?

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RE: Race Play - 11/24/2013 3:20:26 PM

HumiliASIAN

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Maybe my idea is stupid. Sorry. I try to understand what I think and only guess reason even is my feeling.
My culture is to be same is correct. To be with other race makes me different. Makes me uncomfortable some because I look different and I do not understand well what they think. I am not part of that group. Outcast?
Make me feel more scared because alone feeling. Is maybe not correct but is very excite because of so scared.

Additional, some person think other race is maybe lower status? That is more older generation idea but still exist. To have certain race order me is very embarrass because of culture. Maybe is feel sorry for past generation action? Is not rude to that race, sorry you think that. Is maybe same way very young person order older person? Is not society order what is expect.
Sorry my explain is not clear. Still I struggle to understand reason for me. Maybe each person has different reason.
Sorry my opinion make anyone angry.

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RE: Race Play - 11/25/2013 2:41:02 AM

MalcolmNathaniel

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There is something most people have ignored.

The internet is full of people who are not American, Aussie, or British. Those three nationalities have a tendency to be, well, nationalistic. I am American and I am fully aware that I can be a bit partial to my own way of thinking.

But, OP, you need to realize that most of the internet is filled with Americans. We are extremely opinionated - especially when it comes to the Constitution.

I am just giving you fair warning here: unless you can quote the Constitution by rote, don't go there.

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RE: Race Play - 11/27/2013 9:37:35 PM

HumiliASIAN

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I think more about what I feel this subject and maybe my idea is confuse. Maybe is different feeling that is mix to race but not same. My feeling is relate to status and be forced separate from others. Maybe any detail that separate me is acceptable. Age, race, language, social status, gender, club or other reason I am not common to that person and group. Any detail like that makes me uncomfortable some. My feeling is stronger if society think that detail is below me or very above me. I never say certain race is below me but they are different. I do not know what that race think or act. Culture is different so I can not predict. Maybe I connect race and culture too much. I think I have same feeling from most trait that separate me, no idea. Really confuse me. Is interesting though. My brain is busy to understand.

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RE: Race Play - 3/1/2014 10:03:49 PM

ryushu

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ORIGINAL: HumiliASIAN

My feeling is stronger if society think that detail is below me or very above me. I never say certain race is below me but they are different. I do not know what that race think or act. Culture is different so I can not predict. Maybe I connect race and culture too much. I think I have same feeling from most trait that separate me, no idea. Really confuse me. Is interesting though. My brain is busy to understand.

When we decide to move from say nonchristian to Christian, suddenly there are crosses everywhere.
When we buy a Chevy over a Toyota, suddenly we are amazed at how many people drive Chevys, just like me.

Race and culture are very different dynamics.

Chinese, Koreans, Thai and Japanese are all Asian, but I could never imagine having a singular 'Asian' experience. I would hold this true of dealing with a black from Kenya compared to a thug from LA.

Understanding what and where the compulsion, drive and narrowness of focus is what brings most of here, digging around in our collective psyches.

As to those who gave you the put down for being racist or racially focused to exclusion, do you bad mouth those total sickos who wear rubber!?! I mean really, how can you build a whole fixation on something silly like rubber, shoes, hair, uniforms ("sorry! those buttons just don't do it for me." <actual quote of a sub to Dom on his immaculate high protocol uniform.)

Never killed or even harmed anyone so Safe
Just a total POV that whole Sane thing, so I'll just leave it there.

Consensual

Wow. I have never negotiated, never used a safe word, except once at HellFire.

Pay attention and look for the positive.

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RE: Race Play - 3/2/2014 8:10:19 AM

MercTech

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Race play is too much of a generic term. Which races are you talking about. Are you talking the Irish race transportee and the British colonial owner? (for a non black reference in history)

Now if you are talking ante-bellum plantation slavery play; that actually conjures up an image. (ante-bellum means "before the war" referring to the U.S. Civil War if you aren't familiar with euphemisms for the federal invasion of the southern states)

I guess I could do that, but what would be my motivation? Actually, I could use some help with the garden in a few weeks.

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RE: raceplay - 4/19/2014 5:02:00 AM

WhiteCobra

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I have been into race play for over 30 years.

< Message edited by WhiteCobra -- 4/19/2014 5:04:15 AM >

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