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Clothespins (Zipper) and CBT - 10/12/2013 6:30:25 PM

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Hello. I don't know if this question ever came up so forgive me if it has but I was curious about this. I want to do a CBT zipper on my slave but I am not sure if this is a good idea or not. I want to hurt him but I don't want to hurt him. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

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RE: Clothespins (Zipper) and CBT - 10/12/2013 8:29:54 PM

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Since you have expressed concern about not wanting to hurt your slave, then I would suggest working in wooden clothespins gradually and watch his reaction. (I prefer using wooden over plastic ones, but you can use whichever ones you have on hand. Wooden ones don't pinch as much if his nipples are too sensitive for nipple clamps.) Once you get him accustomed to a few at a time, which you can use on other parts of his body, then you can add more. I don't leave them on for very long--once they start falling off, we move onto something else. Don't know if this helps out any.

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RE: Clothespins (Zipper) and CBT - 10/13/2013 6:48:12 AM

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quote:

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Since you have expressed concern about not wanting to hurt your slave, then I would suggest working in wooden clothespins gradually and watch his reaction. (I prefer using wooden over plastic ones, but you can use whichever ones you have on hand. Wooden ones don't pinch as much if his nipples are too sensitive for nipple clamps.) Once you get him accustomed to a few at a time, which you can use on other parts of his body, then you can add more. I don't leave them on for very long--once they start falling off, we move onto something else. Don't know if this helps out any.

TiressLily, thank you for your comment. I know he can do a zipper as he has done one before but I meant would it be okay to do a cock and ball zipper. He is into CBT and I keep having this image of doing a zipper on his cock and/or balls; however as this would be my first time doing a zipper, I am not sure if it is safe to do this in this area. I've seen them placed on the different parts of the body (i.e. nipples) so I know that these areas are okay but I don't think I have ever seen it done for CBT.

I want this to be as safe as possible but as enjoyable as possible too.

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RE: Clothespins (Zipper) and CBT - 10/13/2013 2:29:28 PM

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Although he's been zippered before, since you haven't, TigressLily's advice is still sound.

(The only time I've ever said "Fuck!" during a scene was due to a zipper. I can't imagine it on a guy's genitals!)

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RE: Clothespins (Zipper) and CBT - 10/14/2013 5:35:11 AM

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Thanks for the advice :)

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RE: Clothespins (Zipper) and CBT - 10/19/2013 4:56:21 PM

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Although he's been zippered before, since you haven't, TigressLily's advice is still sound.

(The only time I've ever said "Fuck!" during a scene was due to a zipper. I can't imagine it on a guy's genitals!)

Its not as painful as catching ones bits in a regular trouser zip..... now that really does hurt.

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RE: Clothespins (Zipper) and CBT - 10/21/2013 7:32:33 PM

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quote:

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Hello. I don't know if this question ever came up so forgive me if it has but I was curious about this. I want to do a CBT zipper on my slave but I am not sure if this is a good idea or not. I want to hurt him but I don't want to hurt him. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

Potentially serious/fatal injuries occur when bursting the testes themselves, so ballbusting is an edge play fetish, though people often overlook this. HOWEVER, just pinching skin, while leaving everything "inside" alone should be fine.

Here's a suggestion:

Place him on his stomach, with a pillow under his hips, so his butt is raised, like a caning position. Apply clothespins to the base of the scrotum, the perineum (taint), and either side of the butt crack. Then zipper that after letting it sit a while and flogging or massaging his back. That will be one hell of a sensation, and you don't need to apply clothespins anywhere near the testes.

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RE: Clothespins (Zipper) and CBT - 10/21/2013 7:38:27 PM

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Please observe him individually. Casual observation leads me to concern applying the pins to a blood vessel which are quite easy to see on the scrotum.

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RE: Clothespins (Zipper) and CBT - 10/21/2013 9:41:50 PM

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Good of you to forewarn her since others may take CBT beyond the milder forms I do. I invariably like using my riding crop lightly.

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Potentially serious/fatal injuries occur when bursting the testes themselves, so ballbusting is an edge play fetish, though people often overlook this. HOWEVER, just pinching skin, while leaving everything "inside" alone should be fine.

Here's a suggestion:

Place him on his stomach, with a pillow under his hips, so his butt is raised, like a caning position. Apply clothespins to the base of the scrotum, the perineum (taint), and either side of the butt crack. Then zipper that after letting it sit a while and flogging or massaging his back. That will be one hell of a sensation, and you don't need to apply clothespins anywhere near the testes.

(Sounds as if you have first-hand knowledge in this regard.

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RE: Clothespins (Zipper) and CBT - 10/21/2013 9:45:51 PM

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(Sounds as if you have first-hand knowledge in this regard. )

I've applied a zipper, but never received one. And I'm ok with that.

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RE: Clothespins (Zipper) and CBT - 10/22/2013 2:48:28 AM

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It is also probably a very good idea to have him talk through it the first time around. Don't push yourself to be in full domme mode when doing something new. You can still be the mistress, but expect to take your time, to need his communication, etc.

Might not be a bad idea to make him do it for you, or make him help you, to get a sense of what areas he likes, and what his tolerance is for the clothespins.

If you're worried about hurting him in a bad way, try and find some weaker pins to start. Some if the constriction gets to be too much can easily be brushed off, while others will stick on there no matter what.

I find dollar stores are great for looser pins, though it is important to check for splinters! Sometimes starting with flimsy cheap plastic ones is not a bad idea either. It can give you time to get a sense of placement, and work up your comfort level.

My favorite pins are the mainstay brand from walmart. Super sturdy, strong and tight. I like to pinch those fuckers shut and then yank them off >:)

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RE: Clothespins (Zipper) and CBT - 10/22/2013 3:29:25 AM

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I love this kind of zipper. I have tiny hair clips I use to make them. I create a circle all around the cock ridge at the top, then down to the balls. When you get to the balls, make sure you are just pulling up skin, not actual substance. Also, the skin here is very thin, so don't take up too much or use too many.

I have delicate pink or pale green ribbon I like to use to interlace the clips together and form my zipper. Very nice !

Remember with CBT, not everyone's pain levels are created equal. What one find excruciating, another hardly notices. Adjust accordingly.

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