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toserveandobey -> Meeting Goddess DustyGold (11/17/2004 5:50:50 PM)

About a month ago i made application to Goddess DustyGold, who’s profile i found here on Collarme.com. i was intrigued by the fact that She is seeking a 24/7 live-in slave. The fact that She is gorgeous didn’t stop me from applying.

Like most Domme’s, i’m sure she receives dozens, if not hundreds of applicants, so i was indeed happy to hear back from Her in return. Others whom i had contacted never even had the courtesy to say “no thank you”. Others, and there were a few, who had expressed an interest, failed to reply again once i had supplied a photo. (i’m no Tom Cruise, but then again, i don’t usually frighten children or small animals either). I understand that each Domme has their own set of standards, so I was particularly pleased that DustyGold felt I had some qualities that were worthy of further correspondence.

DustyGold is clearly a no nonsense Domme. She obviously has no time for players, wannabes or timewasters. After only a few email and chat exchanges, She challenged me with my first test of sincerity. You see, i live in TX and She is in AZ. With only a week’s notice i was on a plane to AZ to meet Her. She had provided me with Her phone number, but instructions not to call until my arrival.

Upon my arrival i was distressed to finally notice that She had accidentally omitted a digit from Her phone number. With an incomplete number, my only means of contacting Her was via email, and of course now that i was away from home i had none. Fearing i had flown to AZ for nothing, and that she would simply dismiss me as another fake, i was to say the least, somewhat distressed at my failure to notice prior to my departure the problem with the number. Fortunately i was able to locate a local internet café and send Her an email detailing my failure, confirming my arrival, and providing my hotel info so She could call me.

i was very pleased and relieved when She did indeed call, and She was also relieved to learn the reason i had not called. We arranged a meeting for lunch the next day. DustyGold is a Domina of her word with a very high sense of integrity.

i arrived for this meeting with all the nervousness one would associate with a job interview. Indeed, it could actually be considered a job interview, and could have even more far reaching, life-altering consequences than any job. i also arrived acutely aware that any of a hundred other applicants might be in my place. i felt both fear and excitement, and some degree of accomplishment, merely to have made it to this stage.

Our lunch meeting went well. She asked me many questions, and i dutifully answered to the best of my ability. i felt DustyGold's naturally strong personality, and Her comfortable sense of presence. It’s obvious She is used to being in charge and is not just some pro seeking to take clients for whatever she can get, but rather a true Domme seeking a true slave. Naturally, She had some concerns, and was clearly interested in my welfare as well. i feel she sensed by my mere presence, and my answers, both my sincerity and my honesty (traits i hope She found both attractive and refreshing). She graciously offered to meet me again for dinner the following day. i left feeling just the offer to meet again indicated She was interested in my application, despite some concerns i had given Her regarding my personal situation.

Upon meeting for dinner, i again felt the same sense of anxiety and nervousness. DustyGold, of course, betrayed no such feelings, obviously the confidence born of a naturally superior intellect. We again talked about many aspects of what She seeks, my situation, the commitment involved, and again it felt rather like a second job interview. In spite of Her confidence and "in charge" attitude, I also felt the warmth and security of her honesty, experience, and the committment She has to this lifestyle. In addition, DustyGold is quite petite, as She states, yet this does not take away from Her commanding presence. Following dinner, i walked Her to Her car, we chatted a little further and She graciously offered an embrace and allowed me to kiss Her cheek in parting, with an assignment for me to complete upon my return to TX.

In summary, it was indeed a very positive experience. i cannot help but be attracted to Her naturally dominant personality (perhaps like a moth to a flame?). i also feel some small sense of pride that after this meeting, She is still interested in my application, enough so to continue correspondence and to continue testing me. i guess i did something right (no small task for a male, right Ladies?) In my heart i know my place is at Her feet. i pray I do not fail these further tests, my personal circumstances can be overcome, and i may one day soon be called upon to move to AZ and become Hers. i came away from these meetings strongly attracted to a Woman who is clearly a natural Domina, as well as being a very beautiful, intelligent person. She really does look just like her photo, and is, perhaps, even more beautiful in person. i can only hope that She in return is impressed with my sincerity, honesty, and pleased by my naturally submissive nature.




sweetpleaser -> RE: Meeting Goddess DustyGold (11/28/2004 2:56:59 PM)

What a great post!! I wish you luck with Goddess DustyGold. Also, welcome to the boards!!!




cynnacent1 -> RE: Meeting Goddess DustyGold (11/29/2004 10:04:27 PM)

Welcome, and thanks for sharing a glimpse of your first meeting with DustyGold with us, toserveandobey ! [:D]




t22tango -> RE: Meeting Goddess DustyGold (12/11/2004 7:44:46 PM)

Ahh how sweet. I wish you the best of luck on the journey you are taking. ~tango~




DRoseThorns -> RE: Meeting Goddess DustyGold (12/12/2004 6:51:42 PM)

One is delighted to hear that one is so careful in her choices also




sweetkittykat -> RE: Meeting Goddess DustyGold (1/5/2005 6:34:41 PM)

Dear toserveandobey,,,,as a submissive , i can feel your nervousness and excitement in your post. THanks for sharing!!! here is wishing you the best.
Sweetkittykat




onceburned -> RE: Meeting Goddess DustyGold (1/5/2005 7:17:54 PM)

To a person who is a newbie, your message is like the first meal after a fast. I appreciate reading about a successful meeting and inspired by your positive and thoughtful attitude.

And the fact that so many in the community have applauded this message makes me think that the example you have set is indeed one worth imitating. Thank you for this - it can not help but help me. [:)]




LadyAlexa -> RE: Meeting Goddess DustyGold (1/8/2005 9:18:33 AM)

What a great posting, Thanks for sharing.

As I'm sure so many Dommes and subs are aware of the wannabes out there. I think any sub should think of their first contacts like a job interview. I sometimes find great enjoyment reading emails from those who I ask to send me a resume. They just don't get it at times.

Good luck in the future and I hope you both have found the place and time.




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