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learning life style - 10/26/2013 12:19:11 AM

Yennifer

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Im serious about joining this life style and how to let others know im serious and how do i go about this in a safe way

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RE: learning life style - 10/26/2013 3:59:07 AM

lizi

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It's mostly just common sense and normal dating safety skills. Read up on the activity precautions, here's a booklist http://www.collarchat.com/m_1726118/tm.htm. Don't be afraid to use the safety knowledge that you learn in the books; not all Dominants have done the safety learning piece of the puzzle themselves and people have gotten hurt. There is a search feature on these boards, use that to search for things you might be interested in.

Can I suggest to you to please change your picture? You are an attractive woman. If you use the second picture turn it around so people can see you without turning their head

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RE: learning life style - 10/26/2013 4:46:31 AM

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Hi there, Yennifer!

You're new. There is no "lifestyle" per se - there's a lot of different things lumped together. Pet play, Domestic Discipline, Adult Baby, etc. - these are just a few aspects of lifestyle. Hopefully, you can prowl about and see which things work for you. Just because you're a sub doesn't mean that you're necessarily signing up for the whole thing.

Go to a munch and start meeting people. Eventually, you'll get to know others and see what works for you.

Welcome again.

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RE: learning life style - 10/26/2013 11:55:52 AM

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I agree with Steven. But, I would also add to check to see if there are lectures, discussion groups and demos in your area that you could attend. They give great insight.

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RE: learning life style - 10/26/2013 8:33:46 PM

DesFIP

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Date.
Meet for coffee first. If you have a good time, then meet again for lunch and a walk in the park.

Talk to people.

How do you decide that the guys you've dated in your life were safe to date? Same thing here.
And if you have a history of picking the bad guys, then fix that first.

There's no difference between vanilla and kinky when it comes to communication skills and relationship skills.

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