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TigressLily -> RE: Hello (10/31/2013 12:38:51 AM)
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[sm=welcome.gif] Nice to have you join us. You seem like a pleasant enough chap, so carry on as you would on a vanilla dating site when introducing yourself to women. A few quick tips to help you get started:
-- READ PROFILES thoroughly to see whether you match a Domme's criteria, and don't send out boilerplated messages. We're used to spotting those and most Dommes will automatically delete those.
-- You'll have to make yourself stand out from the rest of the (male sub) herd by NOT coming across as though you're feeming for a fetish/kink delivery system. You did well by not overdoing it in your profile thus far. You might want to indicate whether you're seeking an LTR or primarily interested in finding a (NSA) play partner. Your reference here to "sounds like a lot of fun" strikes me as casual fun & games, so examine whether that's the message you intend to send.
-- Even though this is a kink site, women want to be treated like ladies. Avoid any sex talk unless you are prompted. If you want to get a woman interested in dating you, use the same approach you would elsewhere. The common mistake male subs, especially newbies, make is to wrongfully assume Dommes are sex-crazed maniacs like most of them are.
-- Don't take anything at face value. This IS the Internet.
Check out announcements about munches in your area. (You should have no problem finding events in and around Pittsburgh.) There's a reading list, lots of forum discussions to help you out so don't be shy. Avail yourself of whatever resources are available to get you acclimated, and best of luck in your search.
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