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UllrsIshtar -> RE: BSDM Plantations? (11/5/2013 5:36:40 AM)
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ORIGINAL: SweetAnise
.my understanding of this "plantation" is that you have the right to check off what you will and will not do but once on the "plantation" it is a no-limit environment. I find that disturbing.
The fact that every participant stipulates their personal limits upfront means that it's by definition not a "no-limits environment".
Instead, it's an environment with very rigid and clearly defined limits which are established upfront, which is about as opposite to a no-limit setup as one can get. The fact that anything within the boundaries of the established limits goes doesn't change that fact.
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ORIGINAL: SweetAnise
Not to say people do not have the right to explore, but I think there is a limit and should be a limit on what is consider exploration and exploitation.
Oh, so you're saying that people have a right to explore, but that they only have that right if what they want to explore falls within the boundaries of what YOU consider acceptable. In other words, what they themselves consider acceptable for themselves is irrelevant, because the idea that a black person would want to enact chattel slavery to white people makes YOU uncomfortable, which obviously clearly means that it's exploitation instead of exploration.
Silly me to assume that people, regardless of skin color, should be able to enact whatever fantasies and sexual desires they choose, providing those behaviors do not directly harm other people. It's good to hear that you're looking out for those poor people of color who obviously can't be trusted with the freedom to make up their own mind about what they want to do with their lives. Good thing you're around to act as moral police and keep them in line by judging.
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ORIGINAL: SweetAnise
I don't think anyone would feel comfortable exploring the camps of the Holocaust. Just my thoughts.
Actually, Holocaust and/or Nazi prisoner role-play is incredible popular in Europe. There is a whole subculture specifically build around the fetishization and sexualization of Nazi uniforms and Nazi interrogation and prisoner scenes. It's also done within the US, though not on as large a scale.
Maybe you should in the future try to educate yourself about the topic you're condemning BEFORE claiming that you can't imagine anybody feeling comfortable doing something you happen to not want to do.
Like I said before: the people who responded to the article -and you too apparently- reek more of close-minded bigotry to me than any of the people described in the actual article.
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