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RE: The femdom hive: Subs, you might get stung - 11/10/2013 3:16:53 PM

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Literary is not validity in this case becaue That statement was not intended for you. But for the topic writer..and ill ask you to keep thos idiotic Memes to yourself if you wish to look (let alone BE) intellegent..

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RE: The femdom hive: Subs, you might get stung - 11/10/2013 3:59:43 PM

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intellegent..

Dude, do you not see the squiggly red lines all over your posts when typing?

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RE: The femdom hive: Subs, you might get stung - 11/10/2013 4:08:28 PM

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If you want..i can use smaller words?

Plus this is a new phone..and INTELLIGENCE is how i spelled it & it DID go through autocheck.

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RE: The femdom hive: Subs, you might get stung - 11/10/2013 5:37:14 PM

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The problem I see with this is that throwing money at a charity is not the same as an act of charity.

Volunteering every weekend one day with Habitat for Humanity is an act.
Helping in the soup kitchen each Thursday is an act.

You're not looking for guys to do things and give their time. You're asking women to reward them for throwing their spare change into a jar.

And yes, the money is useful. But the ones who invest the time are much better people.

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RE: The femdom hive: Subs, you might get stung - 11/10/2013 8:49:34 PM

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ORIGINAL: absaeulm

Literary is not validity in this case becaue That statement was not intended for you. But for the topic writer..and ill ask you to keep thos idiotic Memes to yourself if you wish to look (let alone BE) intellegent..

Thank you..

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OMFG...

Dude, you are in serious need of a reading comprehension class. Do you not realize that nothing, and I mean NOTHING, you have posted on this thread so far has any relevance whatsoever to the topic? Or are you really that clueless?

Never mind, I'm fairly sure I know the answer. Scamper off now, the grownups are having a discussion.

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RE: The femdom hive: Subs, you might get stung - 11/10/2013 9:00:12 PM

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"Do me" subs are a bad target for this, IMO, since they are only interested in what you should tell them to do, how they fantasise you would and a site like that won't appear to them. We should all be falling over ourselves to dom them anyway! Where else would we get guys willing to let us beat them?

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RE: The femdom hive: Subs, you might get stung - 11/10/2013 9:37:52 PM

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I have on a few occasions made submissives who have offended Me (i.e. penis photos, etc---if I think they have potential and I haven't Blocked them) donate money to local charity in order to be allowed to contact Me again. I usually choose a Rape Crisis Counseling Provider or Women's Shelter. They then have to send Me some form of proof before I will speak to them again (a photo of their receipt or their credit card statement listing the charity, with the CC number blocked out, something along those lines).

I usually choose an amount that will sting a little bit, like $100 or so, depending on his income. Occasionally a male will try to show how repentent he is by donating extra.

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RE: The femdom hive: Subs, you might get stung - 11/10/2013 10:01:53 PM

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thats what i'm looking for to get stung party and dressupup .in sexy longerie I've fantasies about it for year never doing eney thing about it so ya i'm ready to be stung and stung again I'm dressed up now who know a mistress who will teach me to fuck like a gidl

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RE: The femdom hive: Subs, you might get stung - 11/11/2013 2:55:35 AM

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thats what i'm looking for to get stung party and dressupup .in sexy longerie I've fantasies about it for year never doing eney thing about it so ya i'm ready to be stung and stung again I'm dressed up now who know a mistress who will teach me to fuck like a gidl

Please, please change your primary photo. I promise you, it is hurting your chances of finding the dominant woman you are seeking. It's also against the rules to show your genitals in your primary picture, and dommes tend to avoid people who can't follow simple rules. (P.S. there's also a spelling error on your sign, and it's upside down)

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RE: The femdom hive: Subs, you might get stung - 11/11/2013 12:30:27 PM

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thats what i'm looking for to get stung party and dressupup .in sexy longerie I've fantasies about it for year never doing eney thing about it so ya i'm ready to be stung and stung again I'm dressed up now who know a mistress who will teach me to fuck like a gidl

Well, Dude, give it a shot. Make a considerable donation to a decent charity and maybe one of the women who are interested in a "hive" might be gracious enough to work out an arrangement in exchange for your charitable contribution.

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RE: The femdom hive: Subs, you might get stung - 11/16/2013 10:10:31 AM

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To the Op:

I cannot see this being successful in any means. The huge thing missing out of this whole scheme is a personal relationship between the Domme and the sub. Both the Domme and the sub are looking for someone who has similar interests are themselves. Domming a randon sub or being dominated by a random Domme provides no personal or emotional involvement, no true passion and no deep connection with that person.

You really need to think what motivates a person. Aakasha's assumption is that the desire for the male to have an orgasm is driving him to do some act of charity in hopes of having that orgasm. Where as in reality, the sub is looking to be dominated by a Domme. The sub is looking for a connection with that Domme. The orgasm is a hopeful outcome of that domination but not the driving force of why he submitted in the first place.

The concept provides for no lasting satisfaction for either the Domme or the sub. No real reason to keep coming back.

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RE: The femdom hive: Subs, you might get stung - 11/16/2013 1:20:08 PM

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Mummyman, good to see you posting again! I hope all is well in your corner of the world.

/threadjack

As far as motivation, or lack thereof is concerned, even if the OP assumes a never-ending stream of horney net geeks looking for a one-off session, it still doesn't answer the question of what the women get out of it other than a bit of free advertising for their paid websites or their paid professional sessions.

The more I contemplate this thread, the more it appears like a thinly-veiled attempt at exactly that...free advertising for a paid site. In which case, the OP would be better off hiring phone sex operators and/or web cam girls to "play domme" and making provisions for them to get a commission based on the amount of traffic they generate for the site. Because that's the only reason I can see why a woman would be interested in this sort of time suck.

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RE: The femdom hive: Subs, you might get stung - 11/16/2013 4:00:22 PM

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Mummyman, good to see you posting again! I hope all is well in your corner of the world.

/threadjack

As far as motivation, or lack thereof is concerned, even if the OP assumes a never-ending stream of horney net geeks looking for a one-off session, it still doesn't answer the question of what the women get out of it other than a bit of free advertising for their paid websites or their paid professional sessions.

The more I contemplate this thread, the more it appears like a thinly-veiled attempt at exactly that...free advertising for a paid site. In which case, the OP would be better off hiring phone sex operators and/or web cam girls to "play domme" and making provisions for them to get a commission based on the amount of traffic they generate for the site. Because that's the only reason I can see why a woman would be interested in this sort of time suck.

Hi Sylvere. My lady has traveled to France for a small vacation away from me LOL. So I have a little free time on my hands. Germany is beautiful this time of year. I am looking forward to the Christmas markets (and the gluwhein ) opening up in Colonge soon :)

I agree with you. I took the sub side of things in this. The point is that there is no reason for the Domme or the sub to engage in this type of setup. Neither one will get anything out of it. HNG's will always be plentiful for a Domme if she so desires that. No need to create a hive for that LOL!

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RE: The femdom hive: Subs, you might get stung - 11/16/2013 4:10:38 PM

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As far as motivation, or lack thereof is concerned, even if the OP assumes a never-ending stream of horney net geeks looking for a one-off session, it still doesn't answer the question of what the women get out of it other than a bit of free advertising for their paid websites or their paid professional sessions.

Would there no fun to be gained in getting a horny do-me sub to do some charity work?

Lordy, I tell you: imagine a charity fund set up by a group of dommes, donated to by horny subs. I'd donate to it, even without a knickered-butt-on-photocopier pic. 'Weirdo Kink Community Donates Big Wedge to Philippines Disaster' Wow, what a headline! No?

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RE: The femdom hive: Subs, you might get stung - 11/16/2013 4:47:30 PM

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As far as motivation, or lack thereof is concerned, even if the OP assumes a never-ending stream of horney net geeks looking for a one-off session, it still doesn't answer the question of what the women get out of it other than a bit of free advertising for their paid websites or their paid professional sessions.

Would there no fun to be gained in getting a horny do-me sub to do some charity work?

Lordy, I tell you: imagine a charity fund set up by a group of dommes, donated to by horny subs. I'd donate to it, even without a knickered-butt-on-photocopier pic. 'Weirdo Kink Community Donates Big Wedge to Philippines Disaster' Wow, what a headline! No?

Honestly, no. It would be boring as hell for the domme. Oh, look, you can click a button and enter your credit card number or your PayPal information. Whoopideedoo!

What am *I* getting out of that exchange? Nothing. I don't get to light the HNG on fire or flog him until he bleeds. I don't get to put him in a corset and then have the satisfaction of putting my knee on his back and cinching the laces as tight as they can go. I don't get to run my hands over his body in a glossy latex catsuit. I don't give a rat's arse about watching him on cam, so where's the fun for *ME*? I'm not even getting his cash or gifts from my wishlist. So why in the world would I waste my valuable time shilling for this hive? Fuck that noise.

If I want to have fun and raise money for charity, I've got a local kink community that holds a charity auction and play party every year. There are gorgeous hand-crafted floggers, bondage furniture, and people auctioning services that will actually benefit me on top of benefiting the chosen charity. Usually the money goes to a domestic violence shelter or another local charity. When the auction is over, the local community still holds a canned food drive at every event. It costs no time at all to drop an extra couple of tins of vegetables in my basket when I'm at the market and I get to have all the playtime fun I could want in exchange. Win-win.

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RE: The femdom hive: Subs, you might get stung - 11/16/2013 10:54:58 PM

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Honestly, no. It would be boring as hell for the domme. Oh, look, you can click a button and enter your credit card number or your PayPal information. Whoopideedoo!

What am *I* getting out of that exchange? Nothing. I don't get to light the HNG on fire or flog him until he bleeds. I don't get to put him in a corset and then have the satisfaction of putting my knee on his back and cinching the laces as tight as they can go. I don't get to run my hands over his body in a glossy latex catsuit. I don't give a rat's arse about watching him on cam, so where's the fun for *ME*? ...

Exquisitely crafted response.

I often have to tell subs I'm not that altruistic.

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RE: The femdom hive: Subs, you might get stung - 11/17/2013 12:34:01 PM

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To ME it's really only ever going to be varying facets of financial domination. The findom can say, and I am sure many do, donate much of their proceeds to charitable organizations. While complaining about do-me men that don't follow through. The males can continue to troll for their kink gratification. Most complaining that the women are greedy bitches just trying to empty their pockets. Yet they don't want to risk anything, not even a few dollars, to get their kink thrills fed.

Personally, I think it's the very differences that drive MOST men and women......regardless of kink or temperament (power exchange)...to financial domination discussions. Whatever the current angle is. If a woman isn't all that turned on by porn she probably isn't going to be to be turned on by internet domination that doesn't give her some concrete (material) satisfaction. Many men don't get that because they are turned on by 'porn' (used loosely to incorporate photos, phone interaction, skype, ordered to do kinky acts, etc....) If 'porn' is enough to satisfy one person they are never really going to understand why it does very little, if nothing, for another.

If I was so inclined to spend my time, the ONLY domination I would be interested in with men, is financial. The reason being. Because it is the most sensitive and emotional. Because it seems to be the one thing most guys fear and have the deepest reaction to.

I'm not interested in serving an s-types shallow, kinky thrills. I am ONLY interested in them serving me in the most vulnerable and dedicated way they can. Based on the reactions of the males when this topic comes up, financial is just that.

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