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RE: First threesome, ideas? - 11/11/2013 10:42:38 AM

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Ask her what her top then favorite things are. Then pick just from those.
Doing this will help to make this a good experience that will help her to decide she wants a repeat.
Doing stuff she doesn't like will damn near guarantee she won't want to give you a second chance.

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RE: First threesome, ideas? - 11/11/2013 10:55:43 AM

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Call me jaded....

Me too, because I couldn't figure out why they just didn't come out and ask her what she liked.

Other thing that makes me sit back is asking this question in the first place. It makes more sense to me to be asking how people succeed in making a multiple person scene fun for all. But the question is more structure in a manner where the threesome part is actually irrelevant. "Hey I got this girl and gonna do x w and z. What other things I can do?" To me that is how the question is worded. It makes me think this person has no experience playing with others except their current partner! It is as much about how do play with some one new to me as it is about how do I play with two and maybe even more so the former than the latter.

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RE: First threesome, ideas? - 11/11/2013 11:13:33 AM

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have ResidentSadist come to the party

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RE: First threesome, ideas? - 11/21/2013 11:15:18 AM

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^ LMAO

Actually, my slave might be a better choice. She is a kinky little pussy hound and equally perverted when it comes to 3-ways. Beside, people sometimes get uncomfortable when I show up and the midget asks where to put the Purina Donkey Chow.

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RE: First threesome, ideas? - 11/21/2013 5:13:24 PM

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So we are going to be having our first threesome in about two weeks, and the woman is a sub and mild masochist. We will be using wax play, nipple clamps, vibrator, anal beads, and rope for light bondage as well as a blindfold on her. Anyways this just in case anyone has any ideas for what else to try that is in the more mild form of things, Also there will be no spanking, it is a huge turn off for Suzanne. We have talked to her and she has pretty much given us open range.

I presume there was an actual question?

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