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RE: A question for Masters. - 11/14/2013 9:16:17 PM   
MasterCaneman


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ORIGINAL: SubvsSlave

I have to chime in because I agree with Dyfrynt...your smile is adorable. I don't quite see your smile as a smirk but it is lovely nonetheless. Very cute picture.

No, that qualifies as a smirk in my book.

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RE: A question for Masters. - 11/15/2013 5:18:18 AM   
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For me, here is where I am today in regards to what I look for in a slave (and in property as well)

slave -
I have no actual needs. I have a wealth of sex & love in my life already; additional service and administrative slaves are always of value, but I have a slave that already leads those tasks and does fine with it. My greatest desire for a slave would be a generalist, able to perform a variety of task.

I am open to the idea of owning a service, sex (or bdsm), or focused area slave. There is always room in my service for good service, and it would be of value and benefit to us both.

I like training. And I am good at it. I am an accomplished Master, skilled in not only standard training protocols throughout different communities, but also in slave development as a tool for human development. What I expect from a Master/slave relationship is growth via service. Be it a role specific slave or a generalist, assume you will be pushed.

I have standards for those in my service and expect you at all times to reflect those standards. You represent me and everything I stand for at all times.

And I have, regardless of role, basics in what I will allow you to do without my permission.


property -
I am open to owning new property. In my view, property exist different from a slave in there is simply far less negotiation and discussion of peers before a power exchange relationships is formed. Both of our 'needs' in this relationship are less defined. Yours as simple as 'I seek to be owned'. Mine is unknown to me...but given a blank pad, I'll find something to write.

If you seek to become my property, the only thing I would require from you is a list of hard limits, broken out by sexual, play, and time (what do you currently have in your life that requires time commitments, such as work).

Beyond that, we would meet and interact to the point we are both comfortable moving forward. I would then make a decision on how long we will commit initially (from a few weeks to months). I would offer a short contract outlining our arrangement.

From there, the adventure begins, because we would both have no idea on how I would use you. Perhaps I would require you to attend events in other cities with me, perhaps I'd expect you to stay home and clean the cat box. In an Owner/property relationship, my view would be 'how can I best use this object to purpose and enjoyment?'.

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RE: A question for Masters. - 11/15/2013 4:42:08 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Apocalypso

Music taste that isn't shit.


If he/she is a slave, don't you get to pick the music anyway?

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RE: A question for Masters. - 11/17/2013 12:27:20 PM   
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ORIGINAL: alumina

Dear Sir's and Master's..

she would like to inquire as to what is generally sought in a slave when One is seeking someone to make Their own?

and at what age did You find You were ready for a submissive as a serious slave, and understand the meaning of that to her?

Thank You All for Your responses.



1-I look for connection,that electricity that flies between two souls.
2-Age matters less than compatibility. This of course means within all legal limits (I shouldn't have to say this but it's best to be sure)
3-Her age matters far less than her state of mind-if she is willing to bring an attitude of desiring to please, seriously intending to do so (Now of this on again off again fantasy fly by night shit),in other words, if she's willing,the sky is the limit. And that attitude,yeah,it's far less age than personality dependent

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RE: A question for Masters. - 11/17/2013 12:30:46 PM   
Apocalypso


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ORIGINAL: SWDesertDom
If he/she is a slave, don't you get to pick the music anyway?

Indeed, but if they have poor judgment in that area, what does that say when it comes to their judgment about me?

(More seriously, yes, but I like having conversations about music and you can't do so effectively if they aren't into it).

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