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orgasmdenial12 -> RE: Opinion needed please (11/22/2013 9:57:14 AM)
Lol, cheats are all so alike, aren't they? This man is dishonourable and deceptive, you dodged a bullet. Congrats for cancelling the meeting and sticking to it - it's hard to blow out the candle for a new flame. Maybe get someone else to host your meet this month, to maintain a lack of contact with this person and avoid any potential drama. No contact is the best tactic with dishonest people like this man.

OsideGirl -> RE: Opinion needed please (11/22/2013 11:31:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: graceadieu quote: ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009 The two of you are not a romantic couple. Things may or may not have gone well with you. So why should he completely take himself off the market simply because he planned to meet you for the first time? That seems a bit unrealistic to me. Agreed, but... I think he owed it to her to tell her and cancel the date (or talk about poly), instead of having her find out by reading it on a website. She didn't have any claim on him yet, but that's only common courtesy. I agree. I think he owed it to her to be honest with her when his relationship status changed.

softpetals66 -> RE: Opinion needed please (11/22/2013 1:22:13 PM)
Thank you everyone for your valued advise, the couple in question have been asked to leave the group as we like drama free and we would rather not have to deal with them.

Rochsub2009 -> RE: Opinion needed please (11/23/2013 6:00:34 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: softpetals66 Thank you everyone for your valued advise, the couple in question have been asked to leave the group as we like drama free and we would rather not have to deal with them. Asked to leave the group simply because they hooked up? So your group is against finding a partner? Remind me to never visit your group. IMO, they didn't do anything that should lead to them being banned. But you want them out because you feel jilted. It sounds like YOU are the one being dramatic. I'm amazed that the other members of your group agreed to kick them out. In groups that I've belonged to, you get kicked out for things like outing other members, fighting, repeatedly disobeying the DMs, etc. NOT for hooking up with a fellow member. [8\|]

orgasmdenial12 -> RE: Opinion needed please (11/23/2013 6:11:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: softpetals66 Thank you everyone for your valued advise, the couple in question have been asked to leave the group as we like drama free and we would rather not have to deal with them. Good idea. After all, it's your home and you're entitled to manage who visits it. Lack of drama will pay off big time for your group. Good luck :-)

Rochsub2009 -> RE: Opinion needed please (11/23/2013 6:20:54 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: orgasmdenial12 Good idea. After all, it's your home and you're entitled to manage who visits it. Lack of drama will pay off big time for your group. But it sounds like the most dramatic member of the group is its host. [8D]

ResidentSadist -> RE: Opinion needed please (11/23/2013 7:01:36 AM)
I dunno' . . . if I were a chick, I'd prolly meet him and find out what his ultimate sexual fantasies are, his dirty desires. Then do all those dirty things he dreams of and fuck his brains out on that first date. I mean, give him the best sex of his entire life and give him the wildest scene from his forbidden fantasies . . . then after fucking him 6 times that night, tell him you want to be under his protection. Watch how fast that changes his profile status. Then, never talk to him again. Just saying.

Spiritedsub2 -> RE: Opinion needed please (11/23/2013 8:22:34 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist I dunno' . . . if I were a chick, I'd prolly meet him and find out what his ultimate sexual fantasies are, his dirty desires. Then do all those dirty things he dreams of and fuck his brains out on that first date. I mean, give him the best sex of his entire life and give him the wildest scene from his forbidden fantasies . . . then after fucking him 6 times that night, tell him you want to be under his protection. Watch how fast that changes his profile status. Then, never talk to him again. Just saying. ^^^ Absolutely priceless! I've got someone in mind for that one.

OsideGirl -> RE: Opinion needed please (11/23/2013 11:31:43 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009 quote: ORIGINAL: orgasmdenial12 Good idea. After all, it's your home and you're entitled to manage who visits it. Lack of drama will pay off big time for your group. But it sounds like the most dramatic member of the group is its host. [8D] I can understand not wanting to have someone that you already know isn't honest in your home, never mind where you live.

Lisfor -> RE: Opinion needed please (11/23/2013 12:40:36 PM)
Her group, her rules. She's in her rights to not let people she does not trust in her group, much less her home.

softpetals66 -> RE: Opinion needed please (11/23/2013 3:37:31 PM)
Rochsub2009, this is a coffee group that is held every month in my home and quite frankly I would rather not have the drama in my home. It was a decision made by all members of the group, as I offered to leave, but none of the others wish for them to be present

Rochsub2009 -> RE: Opinion needed please (11/23/2013 8:08:56 PM)
Because it is in your home I can understand this. Why should you allow someone that you don't like to come into your house? But if this were a group that met at a public dungeon, then I think you would be way out of line. But as someone else said, "Your house, your rules."

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