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RE: Problems with deep throating? - 12/24/2004 9:29:10 PM

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Deeeep Throating is Awesome if You can relax Your Muscles that is.
I've tried it a couple of times.
It was hard for me but nice to see a smile on there face when I was doing it~

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RE: Problems with deep throating? - 3/27/2005 6:22:19 PM

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Definately try it with your head falling over the edge of the , well anything, the sofa, the bed, the table, the ottoman, the spanking bench.

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RE: Problems with deep throating? - 3/28/2005 9:13:15 AM

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G'afternoon all:

Pervert that I am? I just want to see the videos/pics of all the suggestions being acted upon, lol. Especially male slaves!! {wipes the seat down after getting all juicy}

Stay safe all, play nice, & share your toys w/ others....

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RE: Problems with deep throating? - 3/28/2005 5:32:32 PM

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try reading this

http://www.bigsextoys.com/hugedildo/19793.html

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RE: Problems with deep throating? - 3/30/2005 10:16:45 AM

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*newbie squeak* OMG! Three feet!!!!

i've tried deep throating years ago to please someone i loved. There was always an uncomfortable "popping" sensation when i took it past the back of my throat, and afterward my throat would be sore. His *blushes* pointed upward, so i don't see...if that's the case...how kneeling or putting my head over the side of the bed would help the angle any. i'll study both of those sites carefully for tips, because i want to be more comfortable with it.

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RE: Problems with deep throating? - 3/30/2005 11:33:37 AM

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quote:

try reading this

http://www.bigsextoys.com/hugedildo/19793.html

Very interesting site, thanks for posting it. I like the way he does his enemas, but i am definitely not taking a 36" dildo up my ass or down my throat.

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RE: Problems with deep throating? - 4/22/2005 9:39:24 AM

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I've found that facing the toes instead of other postitions is easiest for me especially when the guy has an upward curve of his cock, which is quite common. If they have a slight curve to the side then simply lie next to them, facing the toes with and arm over their tummy and try to just let the curves of their cock fit with the curves of your throat. Its my fave way to give head and gives your guy a nice view of your ass and pussy even if you aren't actually doing 69, though I don't know how they could resist

Good Luck!! Tell me if you have success.

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RE: Problems with deep throating? - 4/30/2005 10:52:46 PM

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Ladies ok gay men feel free, try this

As the cock gets near your gag reflex push your lower jaw forward.

This seems to shut off the gag reflex in quite a few women. I was without my sliderule and research staff during many of these "experimental endevours".

If a nice anal rententive sub with excel would care to track the results, the world would certianly be a better place.

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RE: Problems with deep throating? - 5/3/2005 11:13:32 AM

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I have aproblem as well....although i have no problem if i can control things...i just about hurl when Sir takes control of the tempo...oh...hmmmm./

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RE: Problems with deep throating? - 5/3/2005 11:35:06 AM

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i'm having a serious problem with deep throating too! UGH! i just have the worst gag reflex! i practically puke when His cock reaches the very back of my throat...i haven't puked, yet! thank goodness, but i always gag big time! i try to relax and all but i can't see to get past the gagging.

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RE: Problems with deep throating? - 5/4/2005 5:35:59 PM

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I have a horrible gag reflex too, especially when Sir grabs my head & shoves it to him. If I have control it goes much better, in fact I try to hold it in the back of my mouth for a little while before I move backwards & that seems to help some. Hopefully I will get over gagging soon, even though I get the feeling Sir enjoys it. I just don't want to puke, did it once & I hope never again. Yuck!

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RE: Problems with deep throating? - 5/4/2005 6:28:38 PM

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Great suggestions! I will have to visit the website when I have more time. My Master loves it when I deep throat Him, but I gag horribly and (gasp) have puked twice. I was embarassed, but he seemed to enjoy it immensely. He even made the comment that it "enhanced" His enjoyment of the moment. LOL My suggestion -- don't try it on a full stomach, or after dessert.

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RE: Problems with deep throating? - 5/4/2005 11:02:32 PM

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Did someone call for an anally retentive sub????

I am so glad to hear I am not the only one who has puked.... [deep blush] I really don't know how to deep throat at all, I'm hoping I can be trained in it at some point. These suggestions up here are all great.... I'll have to try them next time.

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RE: Problems with deep throating? - 5/4/2005 11:27:21 PM

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I am waiting for the day I can successfully deep throat and not gag. LOL But, Master loves it so much when I do. Who knows, it may feel good when the muscles contract. I have no idea. But, either way, whatever makes him smile! LOL

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RE: Problems with deep throating? - 5/5/2005 1:53:15 AM

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As odd as it may sound, I don't want to lose my gag reflex. I don't like the feeling of getting ready to vomit, but I must admit there is something incredibly freakin' hot about it.

From what I've heard, practice makes perfect. The more you deep throat, the sooner you'll lose the gag reflex all together.

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RE: Problems with deep throating? - 5/11/2005 4:16:23 PM

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ORIGINAL: cariad
any suggestions? ok now this is going to sound funny, weird or strange, but she has even tried deep throating a banana and finds she still gags on that....so trying to practice using a banana to deep throat is out.

Mmm no it isn't. There's nothing wrong with gagging, it's perfectly natural, and before you can get rid of it you have to accept it. So go back to the banana, it's an excellent tool here.

What I'm guessing is happening is that when you feel yourself starting to gag, you panic, 'freak out' and lose it. The trick is just to calm down, realise that the gagging is natural, let yourself gag a little, and back off a little, then try again. Wash, rinse, repeat. Repeat a lot. This is a physical skill, and like any physical skill, the key is LOTS of practice.

When you get to the point where you can gag yourself repeatedly, without panic, that's a breakthrough. From there, you can start working with the gag reflex and learning how to control it.

With practice, you'll probably get to the point where you can avoid gagging - and then learn to go ahead and gag anyway, at the right moments. Those little spasms can feel quite delicious, and a good gag at just the right moment can have incredible effects.

Good luck

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RE: Problems with deep throating? - 5/27/2005 1:10:27 PM

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Practice makes perfect, as they say. My first sub started with me because she wanted to practice her throating techniques and every man she met was 7 inches or bigger. Mine is 5 1/2 inches so it turned out to be perfect for her, especially since I can stay hard after my first orgasm, most of the time.

My sub was also careful not to have much in her stomach before we played and that seemed to help.

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